Project:Transgender Intersex & Gender-Diverse: An Encyclopedia, Slang Dictionary

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Glossary frequency of use terms archaic – A definition which was considered current as late as 1900, but is now only employed as a conscious archaism. common dated – A definition which has contemporary usage more recently than 1929, but historical – A definition which describes something no longer in existence except as viewed historically. now rare – A definition which was common pre-1930, but have fewer than three quotation examples since. obsolete – A definition which has not been in widespread use since the mid-1700s or the last known contemporary usage is dated 1929 or earlier. rare – A definition with fewer than three quotation examples available. uncommon connotative terms colloquial derogatory – Indicates a term which is intended to ridicule, mock, disparage, discredit, insult, etc. informal pejorative – Indicates a term that is both derogatory and vulgar, and which fulfills the following criteria: (1) it is derogatory towards a particular group, (2) it is used to subordinate individuals belonging to that group within some structure of power relations, and (3) the derogated group must be defined by some intrinsic property. Considered, for the purposes of this work, synonymous with the term slur. vulgar – Indicates a term that is considered inherently obscene, regardless of context. language terms Afrikaans [af] Chinese [zh] Varieties Hong Kong Chinese [zh-HK] Mainland Chinese [zh-CN] Taiwanese Chinese [zh-TW] English [en] Chronolects: Old English – Up to the year 1150 CE. early Old English – Up to the year 950 CE. late Old English – For the period between 1100 CE and 1150 CE. Middle English – For the period between 1150 CE and 1500 CE. Modern English early Modern English – For the period between 1500 CE and 1700 CE. Varieties American English [en-US] Australian English [en-AU] British English [en-GB] Irish English [en-IE] South African English [en-ZA] French [fr] Varieties Canadian French [fr-CA] European French [fr-FR] German [de] Japanese [ja] Portuguese [pt] Varieties Brazilian Portuguese [pt-BR] European Portuguese [pt-PT] Spanish [es] Varieties European Spanish [es-ES] Mexican Spanish [es-MX] location terms Australia Canada internet – Used primarily on the internet. Reddit – Used primarily on Reddit. Tumblr – Used primarily on Tumblr. Twitter – Used primarily on Twitter. Usenet – Used primarily on Usenet. YouTube – Used primarily on YouTube New Zealand United Kingdom United States subcultural and identity terms agender – Used by agender people. ballroom – Used within the ballroom community. BDSM – Used within the BDSM community. bisexual – Used by bisexual people. bisexual female – Used by bisexual girls and women. bisexual male – Used by bisexual boys and men. Black – Used by Black people. crossdressing – Used within the crossdressing community. demigender – Used by demigender people. drag – Used within the drag community. gay male – Used by gay men. intersex – Used by intersex people. Latina – Used by Latina women. Latine – Used by Latine people. Latino – Used by Latino men. lesbian – Used by lesbians. LGBTQ – Used within the LGBTQIA+ community. nonbinary – Used by nonbinary people. POC – Used by people of color. QPOC – Used by queer people of color. trans – Used by trans people. trans female – Used by trans women. trans male – Used by trans men. 0—9 10s n. (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Getting your 10s from the judges means participants will progress to the next round of the competition.” 24/7 adj. [en] (dated, crossdressing) 2005 GenderEvolve – Transgender Transformation (comment on “CD/TV/TS labelling”): “As a 24/7 TS I remember my beginnings well. We all should never forget our roots.” 2010 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“going full time without transitioning”): “hey, is there anyone outhere [sic], who is a 24/7 crossdresser without the desire to transition.” (dated, trans) (dated, BDSM) 2006 Journal of Homosexuality (“24/7 SM Slavery”): “This study describes the nature of 24/7 SM slavery as practiced within the SM (sadomasochistic) commmunity [sic].” 24/7 adv. [en] Alternate forms: twenty-four seven 24 hours per day, seven days per week, usually designating round-the-clock service. (colloquial) Constantly or without interruption. 1985 People: “24-7—24 hours a day, seven days a week (as in, I love you 24-7). 1992 Rap: the Lyrics (“R.A.W.”): “Gold bless the child who can hold his own ’Cause I get raw… 24-7, chillin’, killin’ like a villain.” 1996 The Providence Journal-Bulletin: “Is caring for Cassandra a full-time job? ‘That it is,’ she said. ‘Twenty-four-seven.’” 1997 The Scotsman: “Being with them 24/7…, you do learn everything about them and you know how to deal with them better. (dated, crossdressing) (dated, trans) Referring to a trans person, usually used to refer to a trans woman, who consistently presents as their true self in most, if not all, circumstances. 2002 TV-TS Tapestry, No. 97 (“A Word from the Editor”), p. 6: “I routinely use my seat belt, and I wouldn’t ride a motorcycle without a helmet, and I didn’t have sex reassignment surgery without having lived 24/7 for more than a year, but I assert my right and the rights of others to live free without such constraints. 2005 University of Southern California Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender (LGBT) Resource Center (“Transgender Information”): “Stages of transition that a transgender person may experience… 11. Starting to cross dress full-time (24/7).” 2006 Trans Care Gender transition (“Real Life Experience”): “Trans people and loved ones sometimes call this ‘cross-living,’ ‘living full-time,’ or ‘living 24/7.’” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “When a transgender lives completely in the gender roll [sic] consistent with gender dysphoria.” 24-hour girl n. (pl. 24-hour girls) [en] Alternate forms: 24 hour girl (pl. 24 hour girls); twenty-four hour girl (pl. twenty-four hour girls) (drag) A drag queen who appears as their drag queen persona in most, if not all, circumstances. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “Drag queens who always appear as ‘girls,’ whether on—or—offstage.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a drag queen who’s a ‘girl’ all the time.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 215: “Dragspeak for one dressed up in women’s clothes all the time (and it can be a real girl!).” 401K transsexual n. (pl. 401K transsexuals) [en] (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a transsexual affluent enough to have a 401K tax exempt fund” 411 n. [en] Alternate forms: 4-1-1, the 411, the 4-1-1 (Canada, United States, telephony) The telephonic information service. (slang) The latest information or news regarding something. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Information, child; what else? If there’s something y’need to know, just ask The Doll and she’ll give y’the 4-1-1.” Aa abdicate v. (third-person singular simple present abdicates, present participle abdicating, simple past and past participle abdicated) [en] (transitive) To depose a person from office or authority, especially to remove a monarch from the throne. (obsolete, gay male) For a person considered to be a queen, to leave a public restroom in which one is seeking out sexual encounters in order to avoid interrogation by the restroom’s attendant or a police officer. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”), p. 1557: “Ordered by the attendant to leave a public toilet; said of male homosexuals (‘queens’ therefore ‘abdicated’) who frequent park, subway, theatre, barroom, and other toilets.” 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 1: “Forced to leave a public toilet by an attendant; said of male homosexuals who frequent public rest rooms. Thus, queens are forced to abdicate.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 17: “to leave a public toilet because of possible interrogation by an attendant or vice squad officer ‘Time to abdicate the throne; hither cometh the vice-man.’” 1986/1987 Maledicta IX, p. 161: “When one considers the inventiveness of some gay slang … abdicate for a queen forced off the throne she was lurking on in a public toilet.” 1989/2003 Gay Slang Dictionary: “to leave a public toilet because a vice squad officer or a toilet attendant comes in. ‘Eric, its [sic] time to abdicate the throne to the cops.’” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 3: “When a ‘queen’ is asked to leave a place where he is loitering…” ace queen n. (pl. ace queens) [en] Alternate forms: Ace Queen (pl. Ace Queens) (United States, Black) Said of a man who has multiple sexual or romantic female partners, that individual’s preferred or favorite female partner. 1949 “Back Door Stuff”: “Trying to figure out… why your ace queen come up short on your ‘Partial Plan’.” (United States) A man considered to be very feminine, often said to be marked by such an individual shaving their legs and plucking their eyebrows. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 52: “man who appears as womanly as possible, with shaven legs and plucked eyebrows…” (New Zealand, United States, gay male) A gay man considered to be very feminine, often said to be marked by such an individual shaving their legs and plucking their eyebrows. 2005 Tonos Digital: Revista Electrónica de Estudios Filológicos (“Glosario de términos gays compuestos por la palabra ‘queen’ y su traducción”): “one that appears as womanly as possible with shaven legs plucked eyebrows.” 2007 Urban Dictionary: “A male who is predominantly gay, with shaved legs and plucked eyebrows to name two examples of what they do.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 18: “A gay, bisexual, or queer man who grooms and styles himself in a traditionally feminine way.” activessle n. (pl. activessles) [en] Etymology: Unknown (drag) 2017 Toronto Star (“Craig Russell brought fame to Toronto’s gay village. The drag queens who remain keep its sparkle alive”): “Other types [of drag] include… Activessle (drag with religious imagery, often performing for a charitable or activist function). 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “An activessle is a drag queen or a group of drag queens that unite for a charitable act in their communities.” activessle drag n. [en] (drag) 2015 Queerty (“What is Activessle Drag All About?”): “Think of activessle drag as the meeting place of flamboyance, community service and glitter.” 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “Many drag queens continue that legacy of philanthropy individually, while so-called ‘activessle drag’ involves queens banding together to multiply their might.” activessle drag queen n. (pl. activessle drag queens) [en] (drag) A drag queen who performs with other drag queens as part of a group with a unifying identity or aesthetic. (drag) A drag queen who invokes elements of religious imagery to call attention to social issues. 2015 Queerty (“What is Activessle Drag All About?”): “Activessle drag queens use the art of drag and religious imagery to call attention to sexual intolerance, challenge issues of gender and equality, promote human rights and so much more.” addadictome n. (pl. addadictomes) [en] Etymology: When sounded out, rendered as add + a + dick (penis) + to + me, literally describing a phalloplasty procedure. (rare, humorous, trans male) Gender-affirming phalloplasty. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “…a surgical procedure when a woman gets a sex change…” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Female to male SRS.” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “The term for having a female-to-male sex change.” 2018 Reddit (r/Jokes): “[What’s the medical term for a female-to-male sex change operation?] My grandad calls it an Addadictome.” admirer n. (pl. admirers) [en] Alternate forms: TG admirer (pl. TG admirers); trans admirer (pl. trans admirers); transgender admirer (pl. transgender admirers); transexual admirer (pl. transexual admirers); transsexual admirer (pl. transsexual admirers); TS admirer (pl. TS admirers). (trans) A person who is attracted to trans people, often trans women, in a fetishistic manner. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Transphile” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who is attracted to transgendered people.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who is attracted to transgendered people. Used to describe someone whose sexual orientation leans towards people who are gender-different, and who may be attracted to such a person based on their combination of sex characteristics, or is attracted to the very essence of gender in that person, regardless of their combination of genitals or secondary sexual characteristics.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who is attracted to transgendered people. Used to describe someone whose sexual orientation leans towards people who are gender-different, and who may be attracted to such a person based on their combination of sex characteristics, or is attracted to the very essence of gender in that person, regardless of their combination of genitals or secondary sexual characteristics.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “A person who is attracted to transgender or gender nonconforming people. Some (by not all) admirers may be considered ‘chasers.’” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “Someone who is attracted to transgender people.” AG adj.


AG n. [en] Alternate forms: ag (lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be butch, masculine, dominant, or domineering. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “AG or ‘aggressive’... a thug gay girl that looks and dresses like a guy. a tomboy.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 19: “When used in the lesbian community, it usually refers to a masculine woman who has a dominant personality…” (POC, trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A term used to describe a female-bodied and identified person who prefers presenting as masculine. This term is most commonly used in urban communities of color.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “A term that describes someone assigned female at birth who is female identified and prefers to present as masculine—more commonly used in communities of color.” aggressive n. (pl. aggressives, abbr. AG or ag) [en] (lesbian) A lesbian who is more dominant in sexual and/or romantic relationships, especially one who is butch and/or masculine in terms of gender expression. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “the dominant female in a lesbian relationship (usually the girl who dresses and acts like a thuggish male)” (Black lesbian) A Black lesbian from an urban area who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2010 Urban Dictionary: “Subgroup of urban black lesbian that dresses and acts like a man, but still identifies as a woman; Has been known to turn cute heterosexual black girls gay for a period of time, though in some rare cases, they remain homosexual.” (POC, trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A term used to describe a female-bodied and identified person who prefers presenting as masculine. This term is most commonly used in urban communities of color.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “A term that describes someone assigned female at birth who is female identified and prefers to present as masculine—more commonly used in communities of color.” 阿倌 n. [zh] Alternate forms: ā guān (Pinyin); 阿倌 (Simplified Chinese) Etymology: From 阿 (ā, prefix with multiple meanings) and 倌 (guān, meaning a servant who drives a carriage, a male servant or a keeper of domestic animals, or a host or waiter in a teahouse or restaurant). However, exact derivation is unknown. It is possible that 阿 may be used in the sense of “to flatter or pander to” or its use as an alternative form of 屙 (ē, “to excrete”). Translation(s): ah gua [en]; ah kua [en]; ah kwa [en]; ah qua [en] (Xiamen Hokkien, Malaysia Hokkien, Singapore Hokkien, derogatory) An intersex person; hermaphrodite. (Xiamen Hokkien, Singapore Hokkien, derogatory) A male sex worker or prostitute. (Singapore Hokkien, derogatory) A trans woman. ah gua n. [en] Etymology: Transliteration of the Hokkien 阿倌. Translation(s): 阿倌 [zh] (Singlish) A crossdresser, usually a male-to-female crossdresser. (Singlish) A trans person, usually a trans woman. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as gay. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as feminine. ah kua n. [en] Etymology: Transliteration of the Hokkien 阿倌. Translation(s): 阿倌 [zh] (Singlish) A crossdresser, usually a male-to-female crossdresser. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “Transliteration of the name ‘阿官’, which means ‘transvestite’…” (Singlish) A trans person, usually a trans woman. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “Transliteration of the name ‘阿官’, which means… ‘transsexual’…” (Singlish) A man who is perceived as gay. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “…Generally used to describe men who are perceived as… homosexual.” (Singlish) A man who is perceived as feminine. …Generally used to describe men who are perceived as feminine…” ah kwa n. [en] Etymology: Transliteration of the Hokkien 阿倌. Translation(s): 阿倌 [zh] (Singlish) A crossdresser, usually a male-to-female crossdresser. (Singlish) A trans person, usually a trans woman. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as gay. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as feminine. ah qua n. [en] Etymology: Transliteration of the Hokkien 阿倌. Translation(s): 阿倌 [zh] (Singlish) A crossdresser, usually a male-to-female crossdresser. (Singlish) A trans person, usually a trans woman. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as gay. (Singlish) A man who is perceived as feminine. alley queen n. (pl. alley queens) [en] a 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 20: “one who enjoys and seeks out sex in alleyways” alright, miss thang phr.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “A statement of my approval.” amyl queen n. (pl. amyl queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 20: “an inhaler addict ‘He’s such an amyl queen—he’d go home with the first druggist he met!” andro adj. [en] Abbreviation of androgynous. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “abb. of androgynous. having characteristics of both masculine and feminine gender ideals (being some where [sic] in the middle or outside the male-female polarity model). andro can refer to clothes, appearence [sic], attitude, style, or self-identification.” andro n. (pl. andros) [en] (lesbian) 2006 Urban Dictionary: “Gay slang abbreviation for ‘androgynous dyke.’ A lesbian who is neither ‘lipstick’ or ‘butch’, i.e., neither overly masculine or feminine. The term ‘andro-look’ and simply ‘andro’ are also commonly used.” (trans) 2004 Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, p. 39: “This is even more true for the newer and more radical genders that youth are starting to explore, such as…andros (androgynous gendered)…” andro dyke n. (pl. andro dykes) [en] Alternate forms: andro-dyke (pl. andro-dykes); androgynous dyke (pl. androgynous dykes) (lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be androgynous in terms of gender expression. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a lesbian who is neither very masculine nor very feminine. The push for lesbians to look androgynous came during the 1970s as part of lesbian feminism, and was a backlash against the Butch/Femme social structure of the working class bar scene…” 1997 The Lesbian Handbook.com (“Definitions”): “a lesbian who is neither very masculine nor very feminine. The push for lesbians to look androgynous came during the 1970s as part of lesbian feminism, and was a backlash against the Butch/Femme social structure of the working class bar scene.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 72: “a lesbian who neither looks or acts particularly masculine or feminine.” 2006 Urban Dictionary: “Gay slang abbreviation for ‘androgynous dyke.’ A lesbian who is neither ‘lipstick’ or ‘butch’, i.e., neither overly masculine or feminine. The term ‘andro-look’ and simply ‘andro’ are also commonly used.” androgynous drag n. (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “Millennials are breathing new life into a genre of drag whose last heyday was the gender-fuck punk days of the late ’70s and early ’80s, reinventing the sleek chicness of androgynous drag.” androgynous queen n. (pl. androgynous queens) [en] (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “While androgynous queens have perfected face painting and fashion as much as any drag queen, they typically retain elements of a masculine persona and twist our perception of gender into knots.” andro lesbian n. (pl. andro lesbians) Alternate forms: andro-lesbian (pl. andro-lesbians) (lesbian) 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “Lesbian who looks androgynous, or both male and female.” andro-look n. [en] (rare, lesbian) 2006 Urban Dictionary: “Gay slang abbreviation for ‘androgynous dyke.’ A lesbian who is neither ‘lipstick’ or ‘butch’, i.e., neither overly masculine or feminine. The term ‘andro-look’ and simply ‘andro’ are also commonly used.” anticistamine n. (pl. anticistamines) [en] Alternate forms: anti-cistamine (pl. anti-cistamines), anti cistamine (pl. anti cistamines) Etymology: Partial and overlapping blend between the words antihistamine, a medication, and cis, an abbreviated form of cisgender. (rare, humorous, internet, trans) 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Any hormones used for trans identifying people. (A trans mans testosterone or a transgirls estrogen)” anti-queen n. (pl. anti-queens) [en] (drag) A drag performer who eschews the typical over-the-top femininity of drag queens, leaning toward more androgynous or genderfuck presentation. 2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “This type of drag queen is also known as an “anti-queen,” using a combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. These queens tend to be very artistic, with constant blurs of gender boundaries. They are sexually ambiguous with fashion, gender identity, sexual identity, and/or sexual lifestyle.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “An androgyny/genderfuck is a drag queen that combines both masculine and feminine characteristics. Also known as anti-queens, these performers are very artistic in nature and are adept at blurring the lines between gender boundaries.” attack helicopter n. (pl. attack helicopters) [en] Etymology: The usage in reference to gender identity began as a copypasta added to Pastebin by Team Fortress 2 user Guuse on 17 March 2014. The text began with the phrase “I sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter”. Apparently, Guuse had written the copypasta for use as spam in that it could be bound to certain terms related to gender identity in in-game chat rooms. The copypasta was submitted to r/copypasta in July of 2014 and then later spread to 4chan and YouTube. An armed military helicopter with offensive capability used for engaging ground targets. (derogatory, internet, Reddit, 4chan, YouTube) A fictitious gender identity, assigned or suggested as a form of insultive humor. 2014 PasteBin: “I sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter. Ever since I was a boy I dreamed of soaring over the oilfields dropping hot sticky loads on disgusting foreigners. People say to me that a person being a helicopter is Impossible and I'm fucking retarded but I don’t care, I’m beautiful.” 2017 Urban Dictionary: “attack helicopter is not a real gender” 2018 Liberalism: Find a Cure: “…but that wasn’t ‘inclusive’ enough, so now the gender listing isn’t a checkbox with either ‘male’ or ‘female’ — it’s a fill-in-the-blank where you can list anything from peanut butter to an attack helicopter as your gender…” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “One of the many genders in the world.” 2019 Person-Centered Counselling for Trans and Gender Diverse People: A Practical Guide, p. 59: “‘I identify as an attack helicopter’ is a regular dismissal of non-binary identities; hearing this can be a weekly occurrence. The support of other non-binary people and bibliotherapy of good non-binary sources can be a remedy to this.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “Attack helicopter is a gender you use when you’re not funny and you dont [sic] understand what gender is.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “People who identify as a [sic] attack helicopter… These people are misogynists, have diaper kinks, think about getting vored all the time, and call children lolis” auntie queen n. (pl. auntie queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 25: “young man who seeks the companionship of older men “I have just the man for your auntie queen . . . I do hope my friend is senile enough for your’s.’” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 54: “A young man or teenager who seeks the love and companionship of older men…”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 24: “A young gay, bisexual, or queer man who enjoys the courtship of older men…” avante-garde drag n. (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “Another area of female impersonation that has exploded in popularity during the ‘Drag Race’ era is avant-garde drag, which is sometimes knowns [sic] as the anti-RuPaul category of drag.” average fish n. (pl. average fishes) [en] Bb baby butch n. (pl. baby butches) [en] Etymology: baby + butch. Earliest attribution in New York City, mid to late 1960s. (lesbian) A butch person, usually a butch lesbian, who is younger or who appears to be young. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 24: “baby butch (knw NYC, les sl, mid-late ’60s) boyish, adolescent lesbian.” 1988 Macho Sluts, p. 30: “I should have struck up an acquaintance with that baby butch who harassed me about my walk.” 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a young butch” 1997 The Lesbian Handbook.com (“Definitions”): “a young butch” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 75: “a young or young-looking lesbian who acts butch.” 2003 Time Out Guide to New York, 11th Ed., pp. 288-9: “Let our gay glossary help you keep everyone…straight. BABY BUTCHES…” (lesbian) A butch or masculine woman who has recently come out as a lesbian. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a newly out masculine lesbian…” (rare) A woman who is beginning to experiment with butch or masculine gender expression. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a woman starting to attempt a butch role…” (LGBTQ) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 29: “A young, boyish lesbian, bisexual, or queer girl.” baby drag n. (pl. baby drags) [en] A drag performer who is new to drag performance. 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “The baby drags keep close to their drag mama. They’re still learning contouring and their outfits are handed down from the queens who came before them, but they’re full of sass and still look at the scene with that kind of wide-eyed optimism that you can’t help but find endearing. They often display flashes of brilliance and insight, and offer a fresher perspective on a scene that sometimes veers towards being passe.” baby dyke n. (pl. baby dykes) [en] Alternate forms: baby-dyke (pl. baby-dykes); babydyke (pl. babydykes) A lesbian who is younger. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 75: “a young and/or inexperienced lesbian.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a young, sometimes inexperienced lesbian.” 2004 Urban Dictionary: “young lesbian(s)” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 31: “a young… lesbian…” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.” A lesbian who is considered inexperienced, either sexually or in regard to their relationship with the wider lesbian community. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 75: “a young and/or inexperienced lesbian.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a young, sometimes inexperienced lesbian.” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 31: “a[n] inexperienced… lesbian…” A lesbian who is futch, or leans slightly butch on the femme–butch spectrum. 2005 Urban Dictionary: “A lesbian who is femm [sic] and butch at at the same time or only slightly butch.” (lesbian) A butch lesbian who is younger. 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “A young butch or soft butch under the age of 25.” (lesbian) A lesbian who has just recently come out. 2009 Urban Dictionary: “A gay girl who is just coming out and know little on gay issues” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.” 2018 Refinery29 (“17 Lesbian Slang Terms Every Baby Gay Needs To Learn”): “Someone who recently came out as a lesbian.” 2018 PinkNews (“Lesbian slang dictionary: The big queer lingo glossary”): “Someone who recently came out as a lesbian.” 2021 HER (“The Official Lesbian Slang Glossary from HER”): “A baby dyke is a lesbian who is fresh out of the closet. They’re wild, (usually) young, and free — but too scared to have sex rn.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 29: “A female who has newly revealed her sexuality as a lesbian.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 29: “A young queer girl.” baby stud n. (pl. baby studs) [en] Alternate forms: baby-stud (pl. baby-studs) baby trans n. [en] A trans person who has just recently realized that they are trans. 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A trans person who has recently cracked and is at the start start their journey. Having just emerged from the egg shell, they are extra sensitive and should be handled with care until their skin thickens. The ‘baby trans’ period can last anywhere from 8 months to 2 years, depending on how quickly they take their first wobbly steps into todderdom.” backslide v. ((third-person singular simple present backslides, present participle backsliding, simple past backslid, past participle backslid) [en] bag lady n. (pl. bag ladies) [en] (drag) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 55: “ugly drag queen…” ball-bearing stewardess n. (pl. ball-bearing stewardesses) [en] Usage notes: The 2002 attribution in Fantabulosa is likely a misquoting the original definition. Regardless, this term is almost certainly derogatory in all contexts. (rare, dated, derogatory) A cisgender man flight attendant or a trans woman flight attendant. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a male flight attendent [sic]; a transsexual flight attendent [sic]” (rare, dated, derogatory) A man, usually a trans man, who is a flight attendant. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 76: “a male or f-t-m flight attendant.” banana queen n. (pl. banana queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 55: “man with a curved penis…” bangles queen n. (pl. bangles queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 56: “man who wears excessive jewellery” Barbie n. (pl. Barbies) [en] Etymology: Original diminutive formed from Barbara and the diminutive suffix -ie. Other definitions derive from the name given to the Barbie doll in 1959, which was named after Barbara Handler-Segal, daughter of Mattel co-founder Elliot Handler. A diminutive of the given name Barbara. (originally and chiefly US) A proprietary name given to a plastic female fashion doll created by Mattel. 1959 The Official Gazette: “Barbie. For doll. First use May 9, 1958.” (originally and chiefly US) A tall and slender female fashion doll, usually played with by children. 1964 Young Children, Vol. 55, p. 10: “They discourage their young children from engaging in rough-and-tumble play. One mother said, ‘I like Hai-Mei quiet. I like her playing Barbies, writing, and singing.’” 1976 Across the Board, Vol. 13-14, p. 20: “Sarah, who is ten, says she doesn’t play with Barbies anymore, although she takes a certain scientific interest…” 1989 Roseanne: “When we played Barbies, I said why do we always have to play like she’s getting ready for a wedding.” 2000 Full Montezuma: “The targets were on top of dioramas where Barbies and Kens were dressed as mariachi singers.” 2005 Apple Pies & Promises, p. 51: “Many of my feminist friends hate Barbie because they feel that she sends a terrible message to girls…” (informal, derogatory) A woman who is considered to be beautiful, but also shallow or unintelligent. 1994 New Yorker: “One memorable number… features… the female half of the troupe as a bevy of pink-poodle-skirted Barbies.” 2002 Premiere: “She was going to reinvent the female action hero into one who wasn’t just another Barbie with karate lessons.” (originally US) A woman considered to be conformist or conventionally attractive. (rare, dated, drag) A drag queen considered to be scatter-brained or ditzy. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a ditzy drag queen.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 77: “a scatter-brained drag queen.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 32: “A drag queen who is disorganized and lacking concentration.” basement transvestite n. (pl. basement transvestites) (rare, crossdressing) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(Alison Laing, 1989) a crossdresser who has come out of the closet in personal circles, but has not come out publicly…” bastard n. (pl. bastards) [en] (derogatory, rare) A trans man who is considered obnoxious. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an obnoxious f2m…” Battery Beach queen n. (pl. Battery Beach queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 56: “man who cruises Battery Beach in Durban, looking for sexual contacts” battle n. (pl. battles) [en] (ballroom) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 33: “In ballroom culture, this is a performance competition between opposing walkers.” beach queen n. (p. beach queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 56: “man who spends most of his summer cruising the beaches for anonymous sexual partners” bean queen n. (pl. bean queens) [en] Etymology: Derived from bean and queen; in this sense, bean derives from the racist stereotyping of the Mexican diet (earliest usage in this sense known from 1949). (derogatory, gay male) A Mexican gay man. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “bean queen… 1. Mexican homosexual.” (derogatory, gay male) A gay man, usually white, who fetishizes Mexican men. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “bean queen… 2. anglo who sticks to Mexican boys.” (derogatory, gay male) A Latine or Hispanic drag queen. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “bean queen – an Hispanic drag queen. Used by some gay men, generally derogatorily.” (derogatory, gay male) A gay man, usually white, who fetishizes Latino or Hispanic men. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 79: “a gay man who is attracted to Latino or Hispanic men. As with all similar terms (potato queen, rice queen) relating to certain types of men, they are often thought to be derogatory.” 2004 Urban Dictionary: “homosexual male that is only attracted to latino guys” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 13: “A white guy attracted mainly to Latino men…” (derogatory) A woman, usually white, who fetishizes Latino and/or Hispanic men. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “A bean queen is a girl that tends to have a preference for Hispanic sexual partners.” beanie boy queen n. (pl. beanie boy queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 56: “an orthodox Jewish homosexual” bear drag n. [en] (drag) Drag as performed by bears, i.e. larger men with significant facial and/or body hair. 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “Skag or Bear Drag depending on who you speak to is a style of drag where the queens do not attempt to hide their male appearance. In Columbus Ohio it normally involves big burly men with facial hair dressing in drag with make up but they don't shave their facial hair. Just imagine a big 300 lb man full beard and full face in a dress. They will typically reveal a big old hairy bear belly as well. Done correctly skag/bear drag is quite hilarious. If you have never seen it I highly recommend it.” beard cover n. [en] (cross-dressing, drag, trans female) Make-up used by male-to-female cross-dressers, drag queens, or trans women to minimize the appearance of beard shadow. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 80: “make-up used by male cross-dressers to minimize the appearance of a beard shadow.” bearded lady n. (pl. bearded ladies) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 30: “bearded lady 1. (dated) any homosexual who has a beard…”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “bearded lady … 2. a homoerotic hippy.”


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 15: “A queen with facial hair.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 35: “A woman dating or married to a gay man to help him pose as heterosexual.” beat (one’s) face (down) v. (third-person singular simple present beats (one’s) face (down), present participle beating (one’s) face (down), simple past beat (one’s) face (down), past participle beaten (one’s) face (down) or beat (one’s) face (down)) (United States, Black, drag, gay male) To apply makeup, especially heavily so. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 15: “‘beat your face’ • Dragspeak for applying makeup (with a heavy hand)…” 2011 Unconditional, p. 74: “Nicole took her time as she laid all her MAC cosmetics on the dresser in a neat row. After beating her face down she took off the ivory silk robe to hang it behind the door.” 2016 W Magazine (“Tyra Banks Loves Instagram Brows, Contouring and Discovering New Models”): “Sitting on the bathtub ledge in our tiny apt and watching my mom beat her face. My mom was a makeup junkie.” beauty bar n. (pl. beauty bars) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “beauty bar vanity or dressing table used by professional *drag queens; a make-up mirror and table”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “beauty bar … 2. gay bar decorated with wall-to-wall mirrors.” beehive boy n. (pl. beehive boys) [en] (rare, dated, drag) A drag queen of any age who enjoys wearing beehive wigs. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 81: “a drag queen (of any age) who enjoys wearing beehive wigs.” beer n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 56: “a butch lesbian” Bella queen n. (pl. Bella queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 57: “violent gay man” belly queen n. (pl. belly queens) [en] Alternate forms: belly-queen (pl. belly-queens)


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 30: “belly-fucker[-queen] 1. homosexual attracted to lean, trim stomachs” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 57: “man who likes other men with lean, trim stomachs”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 30: “belly-fucker[-queen] … 2. one who rubs his penis on his partner’s stomach until ejaculation.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 27: “A homosexual who prefers intercourse in the heterosexual face-to-face position. The penis is inserted in the anus or between the thighs.” belly-wh queen n. (pl. belly-wh queens) [en]


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Belly-wh queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” bent adj. [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 31: “bent … 2. (Brit gay sl; cf criminal sl crooked = queer) homosexual ‘Is he bent?’” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 57: “gay” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 16: “Not straight; ‘gay’ in the deviated sense, and in the literal, pliable-for-all-sex-activities sense…” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 37: “Not heterosexual.”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 31: “bent … 1. angry, furious ‘He was really bent when he found out that his professional guest split with all the grass’” best of both worlds n. [en] beyond gender [en]


2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Similar to genderqueer and androgyne, these terms refer to gender variations other than the traditional, dichotomous view of male and female. People who self-refer with these terms may identify and present themselves as both or alternatively male and female, as no gender, or as a gender outside the male/female binary.” 變性 v. [zh] Alternate forms: biànxìng (Pinyin); ㄅㄧㄢˋ ㄒㄧㄥˋ (Zhuyin); 变性 (Simplified Chinese) Etymology: 性 (xìng) is usually translated as nature, character, or personality, hence senses 1 and 2; can also be translated as sex, gender (identity), (grammatical) gender, or sexual intercourse. Use in the term of sex or gender is the meaning implied in sense 3. (biochemistry) To denature, i.e. for a protein or nucleic acid to lose its quaternary, tertiary, and secondary structure through application of some external stress of compound. (medicine) To degenerate, i.e. for a tissue to change to a lower or less functionally active form, usually as the result of a chemical change in the tissue, but also occasionally loosely applied to the results of infiltration (when the change consists of the deposit of abnormal matter into the tissue itself) or of some degenerative disease. (trans) To change one’s gender; to undergo gender-affirming surgery of some kind; to be transgender. big T, (the) (rare, trans male) Testosterone, usually referring to intramuscular testosterone preparations administered as part of masculinizing gender-affirming hormone therapy. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “testosterone, esp, testosterone given intramuscularly to female to male transsexuals…” bind v. [en] To confine or restrain one’s breasts or chest for any reason. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 82: “the act of taping down a female’s breasts so that they are hidden underneath clothing. This is usually practiced by f-t-m pre-op transsexuals.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 18: “To strap down, as when a drag king or female-to-male (FTM) transsexual camouflages her breasts.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 40: “To flatten or conceal one’s breasts/chest using constricting materials, typically using a binder, which is the healthiest and safest way to bind.” binder n. (pl. binders) [en] Translation(s): なべしゃつ [ja]


2005 Urban Dictionary: “Used by female transvestites to reduce the size and appearance of their breasts by constriction in order to appear more masculine. a simple binder is layers of women's dress hose, although there are commercially available binders.” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “often worn by transgender men, it constricts the breasts into a more flat chested appearance.” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A piece of clothing that beares some resemblance to a sports bra, that constricts and flattens the chest. Mostly, though not always, worn by transgender men. (Other examples include: non-binary folks, women who want a more androgynous look, and some others.)” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “?? something to flatten breasts??” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A piece of clothing worn by enbys, trans masculine people, masc females, or anyone who would feel more comfortable using one. It is used to make your chest appear flatter. (bind safely my friends)” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 41: “An undergarment used to reduce the appearance and size of breasts.” binding n. [en] The process of using some material to confine or restrain one’s breasts or chest. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the act of using some sort of restraint to flatten and conceal the breasts…” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “Binding, short for breast binding. Usually done by lesbians or transexuals. When a girl uses an Ace bandage or something like that to wrap around her upper abdomen make her chest look less noticable [sic].” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “The process of using an elastic band, cloth, or commercially produced binder in order to flatten the chest.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Chest binding to make breasts look flatter, less noticeable or more masculine. Binding should never be done with tape or ace bandages, and safety precautions should be taken.” bioboy n. (pl. bioboys) [en] Alternate forms: bio-boy (pl. bio-boys), bio boy (pl. bio boys) Etymology: Prefix bio- (as in biological) + boy. Usage notes: Rarely used by trans people due to this term’s relationship to gender essentialism, biological essentialism, and genetic determinism. (rare) A cisgender man who is a bottom in the context of sexual intercourse. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genetic male, esp one who takes a receptive role in erotic encounters…” (informal) A cisgender boy or a cisgender man. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 117: “a biological male (as opposed to a f-t-m transsexual. Also bio boy, gen man.” 2007 Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender Identity. p. 143: “‘I’m afraid I’ll disappoint her by not being enough like a bioboy.’ Raymond was not talking about sex. He was finding it difficult to navigate issues such as, ‘Is she expecting me to hold the door for her?’” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “Short for biological. Commonly thought to be problematic terminology, since it implies biological illegitimacy for the identities of trans and gender nonconforming people. Cisgender is a preferred term by some people.” (derogatory) Any individual who was assigned male at birth (AMAB). 2005 Urban Dictionary: “A biological boy or male. Usually used in refence [sic] to trans people, such as a maleto female trans-woman or female-to male trans-man.” bio-dyke n. (pl. bio-dykes) [en]


2013 Excluded: Making Feminism and Queer Movements More Inclusive: “The first comment came out of the blue (as she was not discussing trans people or trans issues) when she referred to herself as a ‘bio-dyke’ and defined that as someone who is born female and who is attracted to other women who are born female.” bio-femme n. (pl. bio-femmes) [en]


2004 Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, p. 39: “This is even more true for the newer and more radical genders that youth are starting to explore, such as… bio-femmes (feminine biological female).” biogirl n. (pl. biogirls) [en] Alternate forms: bio-girl (pl. bio-girls), bio girl (pl. bio girls) Etymology: Prefix bio- (as in biological) + girl. Usage notes: Rarely used by trans people due to this term’s relationship to gender essentialism, biological essentialism, and genetic determinism. (informal, trans) A cisgender girl or a cisgender woman. 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a non-trans woman. Some do not consider this a preferred term… because it implies a trans person has no biological basis for identifying as female.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “Short for biological. Commonly thought to be problematic terminology, since it implies biological illegitimacy for the identities of trans and gender nonconforming people. Cisgender is a preferred term by some people.” bioguy n. (pl. bioguys) [en] Alternate forms: bio-guy (pl. bio-guys), bio guy (pl. bio guys) Etymology: Prefix bio- (as in biological) + guy. Usage notes: Rarely used by trans people due to this term’s relationship to gender essentialism, biological essentialism, and genetic determinism. (informal, trans) A cisgender boy or a cisgender man. 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a non-trans man. Some do not consider this a preferred term, because it implies a trans person has no biological basis for identifying as male.” 2008 Urban Dictionary: “a man born with male anatomy (as opposed to a man born with ‘other than traditional male anatomy’ such as an FTM or transguy.)” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “Short for biological. Commonly thought to be problematic terminology, since it implies biological illegitimacy for the identities of trans and gender nonconforming people. Cisgender is a preferred term by some people.” bioman n. (pl. biomen) [en] Alternate forms: bio-man (pl. bio-men), bio man (pl. bio men) Etymology: Prefix bio- (as in biological) + man. No relationship with the rare, obsoleted Australian slang term bio man, which refers to a cinema projectionist. Usage notes: Rarely used by trans people due to this term’s relationship to gender essentialism, biological essentialism, and genetic determinism. (informal) A cisgender man. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “Short for biological. Commonly thought to be problematic terminology, since it implies biological illegitimacy for the identities of trans and gender nonconforming people. Cisgender is a preferred term by some people.” bio queen n. (pl. bio queens) [en] Alternate forms: bio-queen (pl. bio-queens), bioqueen (pl. bioqueens) (drag) A drag queen who was assigned female at birth (AFAB), usually used to refer to cisgender women who are drag queens. 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “Bio queens (or faux queens) are women who do drag. They subvert gender roles by subverting drag itself – if drag is ‘female impersonation’ what is a woman who impersonates a female? In a gay world often dominated by white cis men, the bio queen faces a different kind of challenge – curiously one that mirrors some trans* experiences – i.e., the pressure to prove herself as ‘authentic’.” 2017 Toronto Star (“Craig Russell brought fame to Toronto’s gay village. The drag queens who remain keep its sparkle alive”): “A newer type is Faux drag, also known as BioQueen, where the performer is a biological female but performs as a male doing drag as a female.” 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know of”): “Bio queens, faux queens, diva queens, hyper queens and female queens are all different names for the same style of drag. Mostly known as bio queens, they are cis gender women who apply feminine drag into their art. Basically biological women who exaggerate their female features using drag queen tips and tricks. Bio queens are often associated with women of Instagram that use heavy and colourful eye makeup to exaggerate their natural features to the point where they look like they could be drag queens. Although the makeup and costumes are a large part of this style in drag, many bio queens are also performers like traditional drag queens.” (drag) A drag queen who is female, either being cisgender or transgender. 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “Bio queens (or faux queens) are women who do drag. They subvert gender roles by subverting drag itself – if drag is ‘female impersonation’ what is a woman who impersonates a female? In a gay world often dominated by white cis men, the bio queen faces a different kind of challenge – curiously one that mirrors some trans* experiences – i.e., the pressure to prove herself as ‘authentic’.” biowoman n. (pl. biowomen) [en] Alternate forms: bio-woman (pl. bio-women), bio woman (pl. bio women) Etymology: Prefix bio- (as in biological) + woman. Usage notes: Rarely used by trans people due to this term’s relationship to gender essentialism, biological essentialism, and genetic determinism. (informal) A cisgender woman. 2002 Dawn of the New Man, p. 76: “As I gazed into her wonderful green eyes, I realized that there was a marked resemblance to those of Leonardo. Clearly, this was another indication that I was not dealing with a biowoman.” 2005 In a Queer Time and Place: “Now we move from the drag king and his mirrored self to the drag king coupled with what could be a drag queen or a biowoman in Volcano’s ‘Tits and Tomcat.’” 2007 Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender Identity, p. 143: “However, he found himself almost paralyzed with social anxiety at the prospect of dating a biowoman who was not part of queer community, though he knew full well she had no problem with his being an FTM.” 2012 Trans(per)forming Nina Arsenault: An Unreasonable Body of Work: “In many communities (including the ones that Nina inhabits in The Silicone Diaries), being able to pass as a biowoman is central to one’s identification with being feminine.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 611: “Short for biological. Commonly thought to be problematic terminology, since it implies biological illegitimacy for the identities of trans and gender nonconforming people. Cisgender is a preferred term by some people.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A bio woman is a female presenting humanoid that, internally, is a space lizard… Alt: person who’s having anti-trans drama about the words ‘cis gender.’” (derogatory) Any individual who was assigned female at birth (AMAB). 2011 Urban Dictionary: “Biological woman. Someone who is born biologically female, with female sex organs. Does not necessarily identify as female, however.” birdie n. (pl. birdies) [en] (dated, derogatory, campus) A man who is considered to be feminine. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “An effeminate man, usually derogatory, and with the implication or actuality of homosexuality. (College slang)” bitch queen n. (pl. bitch queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bitch… —queen (’70) one who finds fault with everything; spiteful tongued shrew…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 58: “gay man who finds fault with everything” Black in white TV n. [en] Alternate forms: black in white TV (rare) A white drag queen or cross-dresser who appropriates Black culture and slang. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 84: “a white drag queen or transvestite who adopts black culture and slang as her frame of reference.” black market queen n. (pl. black market queens; abbr. BMQ) [en] blanchtard n. (pl. blanchtards) [en] Etymology: Blending of Ray Blanchard’s surname and the term retard. Usage notes: Rare, due to blend including part of the ableist slur retard, not because of referencing Ray Blanchard’s transphobia. blazé queen n. (pl. blazé queens) [en] blockers n. [en]


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 46: “Medicine taken by transgender, nonbinary, or gender nonconforming youth to prevent puberty from starting…” blue jean queen n. (pl. blue jean queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 58: “gay man who always wears denim jeans” body fascist n. (pl. body fascists) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who takes upon himself to define and enforce what bodies are supposed to look like, and who uses medical, legal, religious and social pressures to create an environment in which their victims lose control of their bodies and must conform to the dictates of the authorities…” body-ody-ody n. [en] (ballroom, QPOC) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 47: “An attractive physique…” body queen n. (pl. body queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “body queen the homosexual man who is an aficionado of firm, muscular physiques”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “body queen… 2. muscle-builder.” bog queen n. (pl. bog queens) [en] Etymology: bog + queen; in this sense, bog refers to a restroom and this use dates back to 1788 in writing. Bog, in turn, is an abbreviation of the term boghouse, which also refers to a restroom, and dates back to 1665 in writing. (United Kingdom, gay male) A gay man who frequents public restrooms looking for sexual partners. 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A gay man who frequents public toilets for sex.” 1999 Queer Slang in the Gay Nineties: “Bog Queen – A gay man who frequents public toilets for sex.” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “‘A gay man who cruises public toilets for sex.’”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 47: “A gay, bisexual, or queer man who looks for sexual encounters in public restrooms…”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 47: “A gay, bisexual, or queer man who looks for sexual encounters in… public parks.” boi n. (pl. bois) [en] (United States, gay male) A young man, usually gay, who is considered to be cute or handsome. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 86: “a young, usually cute, gay man. US” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “This spelling of the word originated in a gay magazine called, ‘XY’ in the early to mid 1990’s. XY is targeted at gay male teenagers. This spelling describes a youthful, hip, and attractive male. While completely embraced in the gay community to mean any young, sexually attractive male, this spelling also appears in heterosexual contexts to mean similarly, a young, handsome guy.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “A self-identity used by various groups of (usually young) people, including… some gay men (often in ‘daddy boi’ relationships)...” A lesbian, especially one who is butch, who is submissive, i.e. a bottom, in BDSM roleplay. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 86: “a lesbian bottom in BDSM roleplay.” An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Boi/Tranny Boi… Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves.” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Biologically female at birth, living in a male gender role.” An individual who was assigned female at birth, who is androgynous in terms of gender expression. 2010 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Mental Health (“Butch/Femme, F2M, Pregnant Man, Tranny-Boi: Gender Issues in the Lesbian Community”): “Tomboy is an old term, which need not even have transgender connotations, but… boi (pronounced ‘boy’)... [is a] much newer term[].” A sexual partner, usually male, who is submissive, i.e. a bottom, in relationship to a dominant partner, i.e. a top. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “(BDSM, especially in roleplay) A male bottom (i.e. submissive partner), defined not by junior age, but by his obedient role, especially when that implies him being subject to spanking and/or other punishment by the dominant ‘top’.” A lesbian who is young or otherwise considered to be boyish in appearance. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “A self-identity used by various groups of (usually young) people, including… some lesbians who identify as young, carefree, and sexually explorative.” A trans boy or a trans man, especially one in the earlier stages of medical or social transition. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “A self-identity used by various groups of (usually young) people, including some trans men…”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 47: “A person of any gender expression who presents in a youthful, masculine way.” boi-boi n. (pl. boi-bois) [en] (rare) A young gay man. 2009 Urban Dictionary: “A gay guy under the age of twenty-five… We’re gonna go down to the Gay Bar and cruise for some boi-bois!” bondage queen n. (pl. bondage queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 58: “man who enjoys B&D sex play” bone queen n. (pl. bone queens) [en] Alternate forms: bone-queen (pl. bone-queens)


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 42: “‘Bone-Queen,’ a cocksucking homosexual.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 22: “One who loves to fellate.” bone smuggler n. (pl. bone smugglers) [en] (United States, rare) A drag queen. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “bone smuggler– a drag queen.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 86: “a drag queen. US.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 18: “A drag queen.” bonus hole n. (pl. bonus holes) [en] A woman’s anus. 2006 Urban Dictionary: “The bonus hole is otherwise known as the anus.” 2017 Urban Dictionary: “The hole located directly behind the va jay jay also known as the asshole, butthole, Anus, rectum, or poop shoot.” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “Another name for anus” (uncommon) A trans man or assigned female at birth (AFAB) nonbinary person’s vagina. 2007 Third Wave Feminism and Television: Jane Puts it in Box, p. 163: “I do plan on keeping my tranny bonus hole [though]. That’s staying” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “The front hole (not the asshole) of a trans man.” 2015 Female-to-Male (FtM) Transgender People’s Experiences in Australia: A National Study, p. 112: “‘I don’t have a vagina,’ he explained, ‘I have a bonus hole. Other names that don’t make me cringe are boy hole and front hole.’” 2017 A Welded Wave, p. 47: “As Mark laid the towel down, Enis got behind him and brought shaky fingers towards Mark’s bonus hole.” 2018 Quickies: The Handbook of Brief Sex Therapy, 3rd Ed.: “It took some time for you to get comfortable with me penetrating your bonus hole, but you seem much more comfortable and enjoy it now.” boobs n. Alternate forms: boobies


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “boob[ie]s 1. prominent female breasts ‘her boobs were so big that she could balance a beer mug on ’em without spilling a drop.’”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “boob[ie]s… 2. (camp) padding worn beneath a drag queen’s gown to give the appearance of a bosom ‘What am I going to use for boobies?’” boomerhon n. (pl. boomerhons) [en] boondagger n. (pl. boondaggers) [en] A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a masculine, strong lesbian. Also boondagger…” boss grrl n. (pl. boss grrl) [en] An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves… Other similar terms on the FTM spectrum include … ‘Boss Grrl’...” boss queen n. (pl. boss queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 36: “boss… —queen beautiful, sexually talented homosexual.” bottle queen n. (pl. bottle queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 59: “alcoholic gay man” bottom adj. [en] Of or relating to the internal and external sexual and reproductive organs. bottom n. (pl. bottoms) The buttocks. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 44: “The buttocks; from Indo-European bhund, to place solidly.” The anus. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 18: “…the anus.” In the context of anal sexual intercourse between men, the individual who tends to be, or otherwise prefers, being penetrated. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 59: “man who enjoys being penetrated during sexual intercourse” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 49: “…when referring to a queer or same-sex male encounters [sic], it often implies anal penetration…” In the context of penetrative sexual intercourse, the individual who tends to be, or otherwise prefers, being penetrated. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the receptive partner for sex, not a synonym for passive, bottoms expect to take an equal role in the encounter, though they are on the receiving end…” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 49: “The person on the receiving end of a sex act…”


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 23: “…the passive sex partner (to one who is active)…” bottom surgery n. (pl. bottom surgeries) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…the colloquial term for f2m SRS, surgical process of reconstructing female into male genitalia…”


2017 Urban Dictionary: “when a transgender person gets their penis or vagina changed to that of the opposite sex” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 50: “Reconstructive surgery performed on the genitals, often performed to affirm a person’s gender identity.” boy adj.


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Colloquial term for _masculine_. Often used to specify gender of clothes.” boy n. (pl. boys) [en] A young male person. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Boy: 1. A young male…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “A young male.” An individual whose gender presentation aligns or appears to align with societal expectations of maleness. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “One who is projecting themselves to society as a male.”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 36: “boy any homoerotic man…”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 59: “gay man, usually submissive, irrespective of his age”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 50: “A submissive role in BDSM, leather, and kink play…” boychick n. (pl. boychicks) [en] Alternate forms: boy-chick (pl. boy-chicks) (trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2004 Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, p. 39: “This is even more true for the newer and more radical genders that youth are starting to explore, such as boy-chicks (boy-ish or boy-identified)…” 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves… Other similar terms on the FTM spectrum include … ‘Boychick’...” (derogatory) A transgender person. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 25: “One who is transgendered…” A younger man who is considered feminine. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 25: “a younger, effeminate male…” A younger woman who is considered masculine. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 25: “a younger… masculine female…” boy drag n. [en] boydyke n. (pl. boydykes) [en] Etymology: boy + dyke. (lesbian) A lesbian who is considered boyishly butch or masculine. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “boydyke – a boyish butch lesbian.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a boyish looking… dyke…” (uncommon, trans) A person who is assigned female at birth, who identifies as a boy, and who is sexually or romantically attracted to women. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a… boy-identified dyke…” (uncommon, trans) A person who is assigned female at birth, who is considered boyishly butch or masculine. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A biological female who intentionally or non-intentionally expresses and/or presents culturally/stereotypically masculine, particularly boyish, characteristics…” (uncommon, trans) A person who is assigned female at birth, who enjoys the feeling of being perceived as a young man. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “…Also, one who enjoys being perceived as a young male (passing).” (rare) A cisgender, heterosexual man who is fetishistically attracted to lesbians. 2010 Urban Dictionary: “A cisgender boy or man who is primarily attracted to women who identify as lesbians/dykes. Often, these women are ‘butch’ and/or masculine in presentation. This is a counterpart to ‘girlfag’ and not the same as a heterosexual man who gets turned on by women being sexual together.” boy-dyke-fag n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a boy-dyke who dates other boy-dykes, butch women, of f2ms…” boy hole n. (pl. boy holes) [en] (uncommon, trans male) A trans man or assigned female at birth (AFAB) nonbinary person’s vagina. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the vagina of a female to male transgendered person” 2015 Female-to-Male (FtM) Transgender People’s Experiences in Australia: A National Study, p. 112: “‘I don’t have a vagina,’ he explained, ‘I have a bonus hole. Other names that don’t make me cringe are boy hole and front hole’.” boymode n. [en] Alternate forms: boy mode; boy-mode (crossdressing, trans) Said of a male-to-female crossdresser or trans woman who is presenting as male or masculine. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Said of a male crossdresser (and others) when dressed in male attire and presenting socially as a man.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “living as male: ‘I worked in boy mode while I finished my electrolysis.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “living as male: ‘I worked in boy mode while I finished my electrolysis.’” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “living as male: ‘I worked in boy mode while I finished my electrolysis.’” boymoder n. (pl. boymoders) [en] boymoding n. [en] boy pussy n. (pl. boy pussies) Alternate forms: boypussy (pl. boypussies) A gay man’s anus. The anus of a gay man who is considered to be a bottom. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 25: “The anus of a passive male (a ‘pussy boy’) fondly regarded as like the genitalia of a woman…” A trans man or transmasculine person’s vulva. boy scout n. (pl. boy scouts) (rare, trans male) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…by extension, a f2m with a traditional masculine gender presentation and mainstream values, esp a helpful one…” boy-scout queen n. (pl. boy-scout queens) boysmell n. Usage notes: Originally general use, now chiefly trans slang.


1930 The 42nd Parallel, p. 143: “The smell of sweat and riverwater and the warm boysmell of Alec’s hair and shoulders made her dizzy.” 1979 The Silver Ghost, p. 38: “You rub your eyes, yawning, then open the backseat door and gently shake your boy awake. You pick him up, enjoying as always the clean boysmell of his hair. Still half asleep, he wraps his arms around your neck.” 1985 Ambidextrous: “We remained there almost an hour until I was filled with looking at the concern on his face, filled with the texture of his long dark hair—every strand tinted an identical black walnut—feeling its soft texture across my face when he leaned close, filled with his boysmell and boybreath and the strength and security of his arms…” 2022 Twitter: “boysmell isn’t a thing your just MUSTY!!!!!!!” 2022 Twitter: “boysmell is good when it's coming from someone who’s not cis 2022 Twitter: “u dnt need cologne babe ur boysmell is more than enough ^_^” boy-up v. boyzzz n. (rare, trans male) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a female to male person…” brainworm n. (pl. brainworms) breast mint n. (pl. breast mints) (uncommon, trans female) A feminizing gender-affirming hormone tablet or pill, typically of estradiol or progesterone. brick n. (pl. bricks) (derogatory, trans female) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who doesn’t pass.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who isn’t accepted as female.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who isn’t accepted as female.” brickhouse n. (pl. brickhouses) (derogatory, trans female) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term used to describe ‘gender conventions’ by people who probably would never consider attending one of them.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term used to describe gender conventions by people who probably would never consider attending one of them.” bricky adj.


2022 Twitter: “this tweet is remarkably funny coming from the brickiest cishon to walk earth. i pass better than u sweetheart” brother n.


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 37: “brother mannish lesbian who is befriended by blatant homosexuals ‘Me ball with her? Don’t be silly, we’re brothers.” (crossdressing) Referring to oneself, if a male-to-female cross-dresser, when presenting in stereotypically masculine attire and presenting oneself as male. 2000 Annie’s Place: “Term commonly used by genetic male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in male attire and presenting as a man.” brother-girl n. (pl. brother-girls) (rare) A lesbian. brothersister n. (pl. brothersisters) Alternate forms: brother-sister (pl. brother-sisters) (rare) An individual who is considered to be androgynous. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an [sic] term of address for an androgyne or other person of difficult to determine gender…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 72: “someone whose sex is not apparent from their outward appearance. Also brothersister.” brownie n. Someone, usually a gay man, who is penetrated during anal intercourse. 1965 Goodbye to the Hill, p. 176: “After the number of times I sunk the log last night she’d never believe I was a brownie.” 1979 Maledicta, Vol. 2, No. 2, p. 231: “He also may or may not know the following words and expressions … bottom man (opposite: top man), brown and brownie.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 26: “…a passive gay male…” The anus. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 37: “brownie anus ‘Did you hear the one about the blonde boy scout who was nearly trampled to death when he tried to sell his last remaining brownie to a house full of camps?’” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 26: “The anus…” brownie king n. (pl. brownie kings, abbr. BK or b.k.) Etymology: Derived from brownie + king, as a play on brownie queen. Someone, usually a gay man, who penetrates during anal intercourse. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 17: “The man who fucks in anal intercourse, as opposed to the one who is fucked… brownie king [BK].” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 89: “A brownie king is a top in anal sex.” brownie queen n. (pl. brownie queens) Alternate forms: brownie-queen (pl. brownie-queens) Etymology: brownie + queen. Someone, usually a gay man, who is penetrated during anal intercourse. 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: “Brownie Queen: – A person who enjoys the receptor, role in sodomy.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 37: “brownie queen see passive partner.” 1988 Gay (S)language, p. 6: “Brownie queen–gay who prefers passive role in anal intercourse.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 89: “the bottom in anal sex.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 59; “passive male in sexual intercourse” 2005 My Lives, p. 175: “We’re all suck queens but they [i.e. European men] don’t even think that’s real sex. They go all the way – they’re brownie queens.” browning king n. (pl. browning kings) Alternate forms: browning-king (pl. browning-kings) A gay person who penetrates during anal intercourse. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “A homosexual whose principal sexual intercourse is anal. Properly used with reference to passive partner, loosely used for active one too (for which, rarely, BROWNING-KING).” browning queen n. (pl. browning queens, abbr. BQ or B.Q.) Alternate forms: browning-queen (pl. browning-queens, abbr. B-Q) A gay person who is penetrated during anal intercourse. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “A homosexual whose principal sexual intercourse is anal. Properly used with reference to passive partner, loosely used for active one too…” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Browning queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 5: “B.Q. (Browning Queen) (n.): A pederast, submissive or passive… Browning Queen (n.): A homosexual preferring pedication.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 146: “passive partner… browning queen [sister].” (rare) A gay person who penetrates during anal intercourse. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “A homosexual whose principal sexual intercourse is anal. Properly used with reference to passive partner, loosely used for active one too…” bugle beads n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “Long glass beads y’string onto y’gowns to make ’em sparkle.” bulge n. (pl. bulges)


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 51: “Refers to a penis, either visible through clothing or seen naked…” bull n. (pl. bulls) A lesbian. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “Lesbian girl.” 1951 Homosexual in America, p. 104: “The cantargot includes such terms for the Lesbian as dike (or dyke), stud, and bull (more frequently bull-dagger).” 1977 True Confessions, p. 206: “‘Was she really a les?’ ‘A real bull, Horace’...” 1980 Runnin’ Down Some Lines, p. 159: “There are several vernacular expressions for a lesbian: bull, bulldike, bulldagger.” A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1961 Girls on the Rampage, p. 168: “In her homosexuality with other women she was invariably the ‘bull’.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular: “the obvious, aggressive lesbian…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a lesbian, especially a masculine one… a masculine, strong lesbian. Also… bull…” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 138: “an aggressive, mannish lesbian…” A shortened form of ‘bulldyke’ or ‘bulldagger’. 1998 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “bull — 1) (n) short for bulldyke or bulldagger.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 51: “A man with a hyper-masculine, muscular build. Other characteristics may include a deep voice, large penis, and a dominant sexual personality.” bullbitch n. (pl. bullbitches) Alternate forms: bull bitch (pl. bull bitches) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1962 The American Language, p. 728: “The bull bitch or butch pimp [is] a lesbian who has one or more girls and services them like a man.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 53: “A formidable, masculine-acting female homosexual, also known as a… ‘bull bitch’…” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 38: “bull-dagger … Syn: bull bitch [dyke].” 2000 Rope Burns, p. 83: “‘What if the ref sees me?’ ‘Keep the bull bitch between you and him and he won’t…’” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a masculine, strong lesbian. Also… bullbitch…” A woman who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1989 A Dictionary of Invective, p. 45: “Common current forms include… bull bitch (a woman with masculine traits).” An intersex person. 1987 The Language of Sadomasochism, p. 46: “Genuine bull bitches are rare, but they’re in super hot demand by the blue video industry.” bulldagger n. (pl. bulldaggers) Alternate forms: bull dagger (pl. bull daggers), bull-dagger (pl. bull-daggers), bull-diger (pl. bull-digers), bull diggar (pl. bull diggars), bulldiggar (pl. bulldiggars). Etymology: Thought to be a corruption of bulldiker or bulldyker (see bulldiker below). Earliest known use in the 1930s. Other forms, such as bulldiggar and bull-diger are considered further corruptions. Related forms: bull dagging, . (dated, derogatory, lesbian) A lesbian. 1932 Southern Reporter: “The defendant told that the deceased, Betty May…, was a degenerate, commonly called a ‘bull-dagger’, and that it would be well… to keep his wife out of her company. c. 1934 My Story: “Some of them you cannot tell from a woman if they never have whiskers… When they want to get married they go to a bull diggars ball, a bulldiggars [sic] marries them.” 1951 The Homosexual in America, p. 104: “The cantargot includes such terms for the Lesbian as dike (or dyke), stud, and bull (more frequently bull-dagger).” 1966 5,000 Adult Sex Words and Phrases, p. 32: “Bull-Dicker (Vulg.) n. A Bulldagger; a female Homosexual.” 1967 Tales, p. 3: “Bulldaggers hiding their pussies.” 1970 Daddy was a Number Runner, p. 25: “There was a rumor that Saralee was a bulldagger. I don’t know if it was true or not but she was certainly rough enough to be a man.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 38: “bull-dagger… Syn: bull bitch [dyke].” 1980 Drylongso, p. 212: “In school we had bulldaggers, fags, some of everything.” 1990 L.A. Confidential, p. 161: “You know the bull daggers at the Woman’s Jail?” 2012 Hip-Hop Generation Fights Back: “She don’t even say gay people, she says ‘faggots’ or ‘bull daggers’.” (dated, derogatory, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A homosexual woman, particularly one who wears mannish clothes and is in other ways aggressively masculine… A common corruption is bull-dagger.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 53: “A formidable, masculine-acting female homosexual, also known as a ‘bulldagger’… A dagger is an obvious phallic symbol.” 1980 Runnin’ Down Some Lines, pp. 157, 231: “There are several vernacular expressions for a lesbian: bull, bulldike, bulldagger… bulldagger, bulldike Lesbian (often associated with a particularly masculine acting female).” 1992 Livin’ the Blues, p. 36: “Anybody with both male and female characteristics with a morfydyke, and a bulldagger screwed other women just like a man.” 1993 Boots of Leather, p. 7: The term ‘bull-dagger’ was used by hostile straights as an insult.” 1998 A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture: “bull — 1) (n) short for bulldyke or bulldagger.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a lesbian, especially a masculine one.” 2005 My Lives, p. 109: “Only bulldaggers are that masculine.” (dated, derogatory) A Black woman who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a masculine black woman…” (dated, derogatory) A Black lesbian. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a black lesbian…” bulldiker n. (pl. bulldikers) Alternate forms: bull-diker (pl. bull-dikers), bulldyker (pl. bulldykers), bull-dyker (pl. bull-dykers) Etymology: Unknown. Some of the main theories that have been suggested are: (1) formation from bull (meaning nonsense, untruthful talk or writing, etc.) + dick (the penis) + -er, overall suggesting a false version of, or replacement of, “traditional” masculinity; (2) formation from bull (meaning nonsense, untruthful talk or writing, etc.) + dicker (a sexually powerful man, although this use is not known independently before the 1960s); alternatively, but along the same lines, it could be bull + dick (a generic man or a male sexual partner specifically) + -er, suggesting the same as etymology 1 in either case; (3) formation from bull (with reference to masculine sexual prowess) and dicker, an obsolete 19th century slang form meaning to bargain or to chaffer, which may relate to the 1906 use in the Red Light district of Philadelphia and use among sex workers (however the corruption from dicker to diker is unclear, and suffers from the same problems as etymology 4); or (4) bull (with reference to masculine sexual prowess) + an element of unknown origin (it cannot be dyke as that use appears significantly later). Potentially this second element could be a corruption of dicker, as the agentive form of dick (used as a verb to mean “to have penetrative sexual intercourse with someone”). This use has been reported since 1892 according to the OED, which reports use in the Southwestern Reporter as follows: “He would meet Sara Lee Rimmer there… at night, and ‘dick’ her, meaning that he would have carnal knowledge of her”. With that being said, the form bull-dicker is rare and not known before the 1940s, casting some doubt on this method of origin (as well as the potential origins suggested in etymologies 2 and 3. The unknown element within etymology 4 could be any number of things. Potentially, since dock workers were a large portion of the clientele of sex workers, dyker could have formed from docker. Alternatively, compare the Swedish term dykare, the Danish term dykker, the Dutch term duiker, the Yiddish term דייווער (deyver), and the Norwegian terms dykkar, dykker, and dukker (all meaning “diver”, compare the more recent English slang coinage muffdiver, reported as early as the 1920s). Note Swedish and Dutch colonization of the Delaware River, where Philadelphia lies today, as well as immigration of approximately 1.3 million Swedish people to the United States between 1820 and 1930, surpassed only by the United Kingdom and Norway. Further consider the large number of Jewish immigrants to Philadelphia. Finally, compare earlier slang use of the term diver to refer to a pickpocket and top diver to refer to a womanizer (later used to refer to a lesbian). (originally United States, dated, derogatory, lesbian) A lesbian. 1906 Human Sexuality: “In American homosexual argot, female inverts, or lesbian lovers, are known euphemistically as ‘bulldykers,’ whatever that may mean: at least that is their sobriquet in the ‘Red Light’ district of Philadelphia.” 1926 Nigger Heaven: “‘Atlantic City Joe’s?’ ‘Too many pink-chasers an’ bulldikers.’ ‘Where den?’.” 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “Bull-dykers – Lesbian girls.” (originally United States, dated, derogatory, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1939 Tropic of Capricorn: “One of the German relatives had just arrived… a maiden aunt who looked like a bull-dyker.” 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A homosexual woman, particularly one who wears mannish clothes and is in other ways aggressively masculine. Also: bull-dyke, bull-diker, and bull-dyker.” 1965 Homosexual Generation: “A bulldiker: Usually heavy-set, very masculine, Butch haircut, no make-up. Does not like children. Always plays the part of the male in the sex act.” 1995 Vice Versa: Bisexuality and the Eroticism of Everyday Life: “Even a manifest butch like popular ‘bull dyker’ Gladys Bentley… became a singing sensation in white tuxedo at the Clam House.” (dated, derogatory, lesbian) A woman who is considered to be masculine or butch. 1942 The American Thesaurus of Slang: “Masculine woman, boy, bulldike, bulldyke, bulldiker.” bulldyke adj. (abbr. BD or B.D.) Alternate forms: bull-dike, bull-dyke, bulldike


bulldyke n. (pl. bulldykes) Alternate forms: bull-dike (pl. bull-dikes), bull-dyke (pl. bull-dykes), bulldike (pl. bulldikes) Etymology: Unknown, although several theories have been developed, with three of the most prominent being: (1) a backformation of the earlier bulldyker (see bulldiker above) or bulldyking (see below); (2) related in some sense to the alias of Harvey Neal, who was known as “Bulldyke” according to a 1892 report in the Daily Inter Ocean, and (3) formed from bull (with reference to male sexual prowess) and dyke. Of these, the third is almost certainly incorrect, as variants of bulldyke predate dyke. The second is intriguing, but no evidence suggests any connection, with the form ‘bulldykers’ being first reported in Philadelphia, not Chicago. Therefore etymology 1 is considered the most likely. For more information, see bulldiker above. Usage notes: While reclaimed by some, the term is considered offensive when used outside of lesbian, bisexual female, queer female, and women-loving-women (WLW) circles. A lesbian. 1931 Broadway Brevities Weekling: “Bulldykes Rendezvouz [sic]. Women of good class have their private clubs… Men not admitted to Club Mali and Igel, the biggest. Some gotten up mannishly but most… dress conventionally enough.”


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a lesbian…” (United States, derogatory, reclaimed, gay male, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine; rarely used to refer to a lesbian who is considered to be androgynous. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A homosexual woman, particularly one who wears mannish clothes and is in other ways aggressively masculine. Also: bull-dyke, bull-diker, and bull-dyker.” 1954 Female Homosexuality: A Psychodynamic Study of Lesbianism, p. 309: “A slang term for a female homosexual; one who wears mannish clothes and is very masculine in appearance.” 1965 The Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 6: “The homosexual woman, especially one who wears mannish clothes and is aggressively masculine.” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “very masculine lesbian.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Extremely masculine and obvious lesbian…” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 53: “A formidable, masculine-acting female homosexual… from bull as an image of male virility… Dyke originally implied a vagina which, due to frequent usage, had attained the size of an engineering excavation…” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a lesbian… esp a butch one…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a masculine, strong lesbian.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 59: “extremely masculine lesbian” 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “Incredibly masculine lesbian…” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 139: “a lesbian with masculine affectations and mannerisms…” 2012 A Femme in NYC (“Butch Femme Dictionary”): “insult used by the straight community against very masculine lesbians” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “A lesbian who tends to portray a more masculine persona.” 2018 PinkNews (“Lesbian slang dictionary: The big queer lingo glossary”): “The most masculine of butch lesbians.” 2021 HER (“The Official Lesbian Slang Glossary from HER”): “Part of the lesbian slang, derived from dyke. Often used for people who present masculine, butch, or androgynous. Sometimes also used in a disparaging way, mostly by cis folks.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 52: “A lesbian characterized by… masculine behavior and appearance…” A woman who is considered to be masculine or butch. 1942 The American Thesaurus of Slang: “Masculine woman, boy, bulldike, bulldyke, bulldiker.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…masculine woman, esp a butch one…” A lesbian who is considered to be sexually dominant. 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A female homosexual who plays the male part.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 52: “A lesbian characterized by aggressiveness…” bulldyking n. Alternate forms: bulldiking, bull dyking, bull diking, bull-dyking, bull-diking


1921 Medical Review of Reviews (“The ‘Fairy’ and the Lady Lover”): “She stated that she had indulged in the practice of ‘bull diking,’ as she termed it. She was a prisoner in one of the reformatories, and there a certain young woman fell in love with her.” bulldyking woman n. (pl. bulldyking women, abbr. BD woman or B.D. woman) Alternate forms: bull-dyking woman (pl. bull-dyking women)


1935 “B.D. Woman Blues”: “B.D. Women ain’t gonna need no men .” bush queen n. (pl. bush queens) bussy n. (pl. bussies) A gay man’s anus. A trans man or transmasculine person’s vulva. An anus. 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 52: “A sexual nickname for the rectum. This term is a portmanteau of the words ‘butt’ and ‘pussy.’”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 52: “A name for a transgender or nonbinary person’s genitals.” bust a nut v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “What y’do by y’self when y’mama ain’t looking.” busy queen n. (pl. busy queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 60: “hyperactive gay man” butch adj. (comparative butcher or more butch, superlative butchest or most butch) Alternate forms: Butch Etymology: Formed from use of butch as a noun, although note that the sense of a masculine nickname likely originated first as an adjective before application as a noun. (originally United States) A nickname applied to a tough, violent, or physically fit man; often reported among criminal outlaws, especially burglars, as with Butch Cassidy (1866 – 1908). 1873 Buckskin Mose, or, Life from the Lakes to the Pacific: “Amongst these [fellows] was Ben Painter, Luther Spencer, … ‘Butch’ Hasbrouck, and a number of others. 1902 Pinkerton’s National Detective Agency Circular: “George Parker, alias ‘Butch’ Cassidy, alias George Cassidy.” Of a person, that is or resembles a tough, violent, or physically fit man; more generally, demonstrating qualities traditionally or stereotypically associated with masculinity. 1939 Esquire: “Two-fisted and very ‘butch’ truck drivers.” (originally and chiefly United States) Referring to a butch cut or butch haircut, a type of short haircut often referred to now as a crew cut. 1939 Oelwein Daily Register: “Nine out of ten junior girls agreed that they definitely did not like ‘butch’ haircuts.” 1949 the Asphalt Jungle: “His white-blond hair disfigured by a butch haircut.” (gay male) In reference to a man, heterosexual or having the appearance of heterosexual masculinity. 1949 Gay Year: “You don’t have to keep up the butch act with me, Cutie. I know you’re gay.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “(b) Term used by homosexuals to describe a normal person.” (gay male)


(common, lesbian) Said of a lesbian, considered to not be very feminine or femme, usually in appearance, character, attitude, or aesthetic, either in a traditionally masculine sense or in a subversive sense. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “In referring to a female, is one who is gay and acts and dresses in a masculine manner.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 56: “Among female homosexuals, a masculine woman, a bull dyke, as in the ad: ‘Brunette… desperately needs discreet butch lover…’” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “toughly masculine, when used for gay… women, esp lesbians…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 91: “aggressively masculine… Butch can be applied to both males and females (a butch woman is usually a lesbian)...” 2006 Jack of Jumps: “She thought France’s friend Beryl was a ‘butch lesbian’.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “(may be understood as derogatory) Used to identify a lesbian (biological female) who expresses and/or presents culturally/stereotypically masculine characteristics.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “A term that describes a person who appears and/or acts in a masculine manner… Often used to describe lesbians.” (dated, gay male) Heterosexual. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “Not homosexual.” (gay male) Said of a gay man, considered to be very masculine, usually in appearance, character, attitude, or aesthetic. 1996 Queer Studies: A Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Anthology (“G.I. Joes in Barbie Land: recontextualizing butch in twentieth-century lesbian culture”), p. 11: “‘butch’ is an important word in the gay male lexicon, with multiple meanings. Employed as a campy adjective, ‘Oh isn’t Brian looking butch today!’, the word has a light-hearted tone; on the other end of the spectrum are the gay men who take their butch identity very seriously, labouring endlessly to achieve and maintain the most masculine physique, bearing and overall presence. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “toughly masculine, when used for gay men…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 91: “aggressively masculine… Butch can be applied to both males and females… but is usually a positive evaluatory term when used to describe a man.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 29: “…an impression of real or affected masculinity…” (LGBTQ) Considered to be very masculine or not very feminine in terms of gender expression, regardless of positionality on the gender spectrum. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Butch: 1. Masculine or macho dress and behavior, regardless of _sex_ or _gender identity_ …” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Masculine or macho dress and behavior, regardless of sex or gender identity.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 60: “very masculine” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Being masculine in appearance and/or mannerism.” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “A traditionally or subversive masculine gender expression… among (primarily working-class) LGBTQ people, most commonly women-loving-women…” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 53: “Denoting the vast and dynamic representation of masculine characteristics, regardless of gender.” butch n. (pl. butches) [en] Alternate forms: Butch (pl. Butches) Etymology: Use to refer to a knife appears as a shortening of the term butch knife, itself apparently a shortening of the phrase butcher’s knife (compare also the later use of butcher knife to refer to the penis in the context of anal intercourse in gay male slang). Other senses also appear to be related to the term butcher (note also the reporting of the term butcher as slang to refer to the penis). This term originally described a person who dealt with the slaughter and preparation of animal flesh for food, and later came to mean an individual whose trade from preparation and selling of meat. Later this use came to be extended into referring to a person who slaughters people, i.e. a murderer, often in an indiscriminate and brutal manner, akin to a slaughterer of animals. In obsolete senses, butcher came to be used to refer to executioners and scourges. Compare the verb form butch, used originally to refer to the slaughtering of an animal, but later extended in the same way. The image of violence was then extended as a nickname for men considered to be tough or violent, and later, as physically fit. From there the nickname came to be a general moniker for masculinity. It is unknown if the transference of this masculinity to women and lesbians (first attested in 1942 as an adjective and reported in 1947 on its own) predated its shortened use to refer to a butch haircut, also associated with masculinity (first attested in 1944 on its own, but butch haircut is known as early as 1939). Note that the 1947 use in Vice Versa specifically references “close-cropped hair” (hair cut very short) akin to a crew cut or butch haircut. (disused) Shortening of butcher, referencing a person whose trade is the preparation and selling of meat. 1822 Longworth’s American Almanac, New-York Register, and City Directory, p. 144: “Corleys Thomas, butch, 24 Wash. mkt. h. 165 Spring…” 1856 Williams’ Cincinnati Directory, City Guide and Business Mirror, p. 33: “Bowman John, butch. 199 Catharine…” 1902 Sun: “As I rubbered into the meatshop I saw Dippy’s wife. She was swinging the butch for a chop or so for supper.” 1935 A World to Win: “I made a gut plunge on butch fer a batch o’ mulligan meat.” 1976 Bastards I Have Met: “How about a few scraps for a stew, butch?” (chiefly Southern United States, rare) Shortening of butch knife, itself a shortening of butcher’s knife; a knife, especially a butcher’s or hunter’s knife. 1859 Fisher’s River: “I… stepped from the top uv the clift inter the peach-tree… jerked out old Butch, and went to eatin’ riproarin’ fashion.” 1861 Oconto Pioneer: “Whar’s big butch, little butch, old case, cob handle, grannie’s knife and the one I handled yesterday?” (originally United States) A nickname for a tough, violent, or physically fit man; often reported among criminal outlaws, especially burglars, as with Butch Cassidy (1866 – 1908). 1880 The Times: “Detevtives [sic] Jackson and Weyl arrest James Doudy… John Devinny, alias ‘Butch’ … on suspicion of complicity in a number of the recent big burglaries.” 1887 The New York Times: “Ex-Alderman Jeremiah Murphy… is called ‘Butch’ from his apparent fondness for raw man. 1898 Kalgoorlie Miner: “The New York Herald correspondent at Salt Lake, Utah, says: – ‘Butch’ Cassidy is a bad man… For several years ‘Butch’ has proven a thorn in the flesh to the authorities of the four States in which he carries on his operations.” 1932 Guys & Dolls: “Butch minds the baby.” 1942 The American Thesaurus of Slang: “Buck, (Big) Bull, Butch, Spike, Spud, Wild Dick, nicknames for a ‘he-man’.” 2009 The Montreal Gazette: “Back in the day they called him Butch. He earned the moniker because at the age of 8 he would beat up… the French-Canadian kids who tormented the rabbis.” (historical) Shortening of butcher, referencing a person who sells refreshments, newspapers, etc., especially on a train or in a theater. Also news butch, when referring to the selling of newspapers specifically. 1891 Fort Worth Gazette: “A news ‘butch’ who was unacquainted with the run.” 1903 Wood-worker: “Colored pictures that we have bought from the train ‘butch’ for a nickel.” (originally and chiefly United States) Shortening of butch cut or butch haircut, a type of short haircut often referred to now as a crew cut. 1944 Daily Times Herald: “On some boys a butch is becoming but on others I can’t tell you.” 1961 Gentleman Junkie and Other Stories, p. 18: “Jack Wheeldon, whose head is square and whose hair is cut in a butch.” (derogatory) A nickname for a tough or large woman. 1947 The Gallery: “She told us to call her Butch. She was from Dorchester and she was the biggest gal I’d ever seen.” (originally United States, lesbian) A lesbian (later extended to bisexual women, pansexual women, queer women, woman-loving-women, etc.) who is butch or is otherwise considered or perceived as masculine; often contrasted with femme or placed in an explicit relationship with a femme. 1947 Vice Versa: “At night I am just one thing: …a lesbian! I am a butch: I am a white starched shirt. Cuff links. A bow tie. I am close-cropped hair.” 1954 San Francisco News: “Then some of the girls began wearing mannish clothing. They called themselves ‘Butches’.” 1960 A Woman Must Love, p. 125: “There are some lesbians… They’re called butches – they dress like men, walk like men, talk like men and do damned near everything but screw like men.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “The… masculine partner in a homosexual relationship between two females.” 1966 The New Statesman: “One of the femmes, secure in the loving protection of her butch.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 56: “Among female homosexuals, a masculine woman, a bull dyke…” 1995 Dyke Life: “I think sometimes if women can’t tell I’m a butch it’s partially because my body type is fairly feminine. But I’ve seen some pretty curvaceous butches.” 1997 Bisexual Imaginary: Representation, Identity, and Desire, p. 30: “Coming out appeals to the narcissistic pleasure of presenting to another a finished image of ourselves, which they return to us in exactly the same form: [someone tells] you [they are] a bisexual butch, and you confirm it. But instead, it seems all too likely – especially, perhaps, for bisexuals, whose claims to identity always need that much more proof – that no such mirror-image will be returned.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “a butch can be used to refer to a masculine acting… lesbian.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 60: “masculine lesbian” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 53: “In the lesbian community, a woman who possesses a masculine appearance and behaviors.” (originally United States, gay male) A gay man who is masculine in terms of appearance, character, attitude, or aesthetic. Often contrasted with bitch or fem(me). 1951 The Homosexual in America, p. 113: “A camp is also a bitch; but change the vowel, and one has the antonym, a butch.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “(a) A homosexual who appears to be very masculine.” 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: “Butch:–The masculine appearing homosexual…” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 56: “Among male homosexuals, one who acts highly masculine, the opposite of fem which refers to the more passive partner…” (gay male, lesbian) In a gay male or lesbian relationship, the partner who is considered more dominant or domineering outside of the context of sexual intercourse. Often contrasted with bitch when used by gay men, and femme when used by lesbians. 1962 Observer: “Toni, a domnant [sic] type who I believe would be known in lesbian slang as a butch.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “(c) The aggressive… partner in a homosexual relationship between two females.” (gay male) In a gay male relationship, the partner that penetrates during anal or oral sexual intercourse. Often contrasted with bitch. 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: “Butch:–…homosexual. He is the insertor [sic] in any sexual relationship.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 29: “One who is active and aggressive…” (United States, gay male) A heterosexual man; alternatively, any heterosexual person. 1963 Pentonville: A Sociological Study of an English Prison: “The active homosexual, the ‘butch’, is not so readily identifiable as his passive partner.” 1964 Homosexuality & Citizenship in Florida, p. 23: “Butch: … (b) Term used by homosexuals to describe a normal person .” (originally United States, lesbian) A lesbian. 1969 Norman’s London, p. 64: “We will call the queer Tangerine (who is an old queen), and the brass Chechee, and the lez we will call Butch, which is just another way of saying lez.” (United States, gay male) A heterosexual man who is masculine in terms of appearance, character, attitude, or aesthetic. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular: “butch… 2. (’40s) nonhomosexual man whose virile appearance both draws and repels the homosexual.” (LGBTQ) A subcultural identity which is defined by butchness, maleness, masculinity, or butchilinity. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Butch: … 2. A sub-identity of lesbian or gay, based on masculine or macho dress and behavior…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “A sub-identity of lesbian, gay male, or bisexual, based on masculine or macho dress and behavior…” (gay male) A man who is masculine in terms of appearance, character, attitude, or aesthetic, regardless of sexual orientation. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “a butch can be used to refer to a masculine acting man…” (gay male) A generic form of address from one gay man to another. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 29: “…a gay form of address (‘Hey, butch, how’s it hangin’?’)…” (trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves… Other similar terms on the FTM spectrum include ‘Butch’...” (ballroom) A trans man. 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Trans men. Categories with this description are for trans men.” (LGBTQ) A specific gender identity which is butch. 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “A traditionally or subversive masculine gender… identity among (primarily working-class) LGBTQ people, most commonly women-loving-women…” butch bottom n. (pl. butch bottoms) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a butch woman who prefers to take the receptive role in sex…” butch-broad n. butch dagger n. (pl. butch daggers) (rare, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a masculine lesbian…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a lesbian, especially a masculine one… Also butch dagger.” butch dyke n. (pl. butch dykes) Etymology: butch + dyke. butch—femme adj. Alternate forms: butch—fem, butchfemme Etymology: butch + femme. (rare) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a lesbian…” (rare) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a mannish woman” butch grrl n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a masculine woman, especially a heterosexual one…” butch (it) up v. Etymology: From butch. (United States, gay male) Said of a gay man, to make an attempt to appear or act more butch or masculine in an attempt to conceal one’s sexual orientation. 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: “Butch It Up:–An admonition to act less faggotty. Often is spoken in jest, and may be heard as, ‘Butch it up, Mary’, meaning to cut out the obvious homosexual talk and action.” 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 6: “Butch It Up (v.): The act or effort of assuming the characteristics of one who is butch… said of one who must do so in an effort to hide his homosexuality from his heterosexual friends.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “to attempt to act more masculine … to conceal one’s sexuality…” (United States, gay male) Said of a gay man, to make an attempt to appear or act more butch or masculine in denial of one’s sexual orientation. (United States, LGBTQ) To make an attempt to appear or act more butch or masculine; to attempt to appear or act less feminine or femme; as a form of entertainment, frequently comedic in nature. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “‘butch it up’ To exaggerate masculine behaviors usually for others entertainment…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “to attempt to act more masculine, either to make others laugh…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 60: “behave in a masculine manner” (United States, gay male, lesbian) To make an attempt to appear or act more butch or masculine; to attempt to appear or act less feminine or femme, especially in order to make oneself appear more attractive. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “adoption of more masculine or macho appearance than is usual, said of either a male or female…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “to attempt to act more masculine… to appear more attractive.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 29: “To affect masculine mannerisms often to offset indications of effeminacy.” butch mafia n. (rare) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a community of butch women” butch number n. Etymology: butch + number.


butch queen n. (pl. butch queens) [en] Etymology: butch + queen. (ballroom) A gay, usually cisgender, man. 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “A butch queen is a gay man. Performance categories with this description are for cis gay men.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 54: “A category competition in the ballroom scene for cisgender men.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 54: “A gay, bisexual, or queer man who possesses both masculine and feminine traits.” butch queen up in drag(s) n. (pl. butch queens up in drag(s)) [en] (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Men in drag serving a female illusion. Categories with this description are for men dressed in drag as women.” butch sister n. (pl. butch sisters) [en] Etymology: butch + sister. (rare) A heterosexual man. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “a heterosexual man.” butch striptease n. Etymology: butch + striptease. (rare, drag) A striptease routine performed by some drag kings. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “when drag kings strip down far enough to reveal their female bodies…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “a striptease performed by a drag king who takes off enough clothes to reveal the female body underneath.” (all) butched up adj.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “adoption of more masculine or macho appearance than is usual, said of either a male or female…” butchkini n.


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 54: “The bathing suit of choice for butch lesbians, and other masculine queer people with breasts, like bois, tomboys, studs, traansmasc, or AFAB gender nonconforming people: a sports bra and board shorts.” butchness n. Etymology: butch and the suffix -ness. The state, quality, or trait of being butch. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “the trait of butchness.” butchy adj. Etymology: butch and the suffix -y. butterfly queen n. (pl. butterfly queens) (rare) A gay man who enjoys reciprocal oral intercourse, colloquially known as sixty-nining. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 92: “a gay man who likes a sixty nine.” byke n. (pl. bykes) Etymology: Blending of bi (shortening of bisexual) and dyke. (lesbian, bisexual) A bisexual dyke. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘bisexual dyke’, a bisexual woman” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 93: “a bisexual dyke.” Cc call it out v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To tell it like it is, child.” camp adj. [en] Translation(s): camp [es]; camp [fi]; camp [fr] (rare, gay male) Gay. 1949 Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 5: “Also BCN adjective equivalent to gay.” (gay male) Said of a gay man, feminine or non-masculine. Referring to mannerisms, speech, etc. stereotypically associated with gay men and men considered to be feminine or non-masculine, especially those that are considered to be flamboyant, over-the-top, ostentatious, or otherwise theatrical in nature. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, pp. 93-4: “flamboyantly effeminate, original, amusing, homosexual affected… Camp is often used with reference to the humour or style of effeminate, witty men.” 2007 Dictionary of Homonyms, p. 88: “More recently the word has become colloquial English for either implying that someone is a homosexual (‘he’s very camp’), or for describing rather outre behaviour…” 2014 The Three: “And to be honest, in the illustration Mr Tumnus does look as camp as fuck with his little scarf tied jauntily around his neck. I suppose it isn't outside the realms of possibility that he'd just been off cottaging with some centaurs in the forest. God.” Referring to being gay generally, or otherwise popular with gay people. Said of something, usually a piece of media, having a style of wit or humor, highly satirical in nature, which is associated with the gay community. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a form of humor popular among queers of many kinds. Camp is highly satirical, sometimes to the point of meanness.” Exaggerated, affected, over the top, unrestrained by cisheteronormative values, taste, or decorum; often intentionally tasteless, vulgar, or self-parodying and usually used in reference to work of art, entertainment, dramatic performance, or other form of creative work. 2002 Madonna as Postmodern Myth, p. 123: “In Saturday Night Live, Madonna also unsurprisingly played Princess Diana, Marilyn Monroe, and a Joan Collins clone, all in a very camp way. As John Dean writes: “U.S. rock has a ruling camp queen with Madonna.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “enjoyable, causing laughter”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “outrageous” camp adj. [es] camp adj. [fi] camp adj. [fr] camp n. [en] Translation(s): kamp [af] (rare, British, gay male) A gay man who is considered to be feminine or non-masculine. 1923 A Companion Volume, p. 214: “You only wanted six absinthes one after another… You old camp.” 1949 Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 5: “As a noun, one who puts it on thickly, e.g., ‘She’s such a camp.’ Also BCN adjective equivalent to gay.” 1963 City of Night, p. 289: “The butchest, straightest numbuh y’evuh laid yuh eyes on… Now look at him… a walkin camp if th’evuh was one!” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “A life-of-the-party person, usually one who attracts attention by utilizing the mannerisms of the other sex.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 41: “effeminate male homosexual.” 1999 The Lingo, p. 1999: “Well established by the 1940s, the term CAMP to describe a homosexual is uniquely Lingo.” A place where gay men gather. Mannerisms, speech, etc. stereotypically associated with gay men and men considered to be feminine or non-masculine, especially those that are considered to be flamboyant, over-the-top, ostentatious, or otherwise theatrical in nature. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “As a noun, camp refers to such flamboyance or bizarrerie of speech or action…” A person regarded as having camp mannerisms, speech, etc. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “As a noun, camp refers to such flamboyance or bizarrerie of speech or action, or to a person displaying it.” Works of art or entertainment, or other forms of creative work, considered to be exaggerated, affected, over the top, unrestrained by cisheteronormative values, taste, or decorum; often intentionally tasteless, vulgar, or self-parodying and employing some form of camp style, taste, or sensibility. 1954 World in Evening, p. 125: “High Camp is the whole emotional basis of the Ballet… and of course of Baroque art… Baroque art is largely camp about religion. The Ballet is camp about love.” 1964 Partisan Review (“Notes on Camp”), p. 515: “Camp asserts that good taste is not simply good taste; that there exists, indeed, a good taste of bad taste.” 1980 Film Quarterly: “His films are completely devoid of any sense of camp or of an uneasy love affair with American civilization.” 1984 United Press International Newswire: “The show was sheer London camp. Models wore orange lipstick and fingernail polish. Drooping chandelier-like earrings lit up as they strutted down the catwalk.” 2009 New York Times: “At times the ‘Grey Gardens’ phenomenon has seemed mainly an exercise in camp, a real-life mix of ‘Sunset Boulevard’, ‘Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?’ and ‘Mommie Dearest’.” A gay man who is open about themselves; one who seems not to care what others think; one who is considered to be ostentatious. 1972 Mother Camp, p. 110: “A ‘camp’ herself is a queen… A camp is a flip person who has declared emotional freedom.” A gay man who is considered to be witty, intelligent, and well-liked. 1972 Queens’ Vernacular, p. 41: “a fellow homosexual who is witty and well-liked ‘That camp keeps the measuring tape in the bedroom’” A gay man who is thought to take themselves too seriously. 1972 Queens’ Vernacular, p. 41: “a fellow homosexual… who is beginning to take himself too seriously ‘Oh, Henrietta, stop till such a camp!’” A gay man who is thought to not be funny or not trying to be funny in a situation wherein humor would be natural or expected. 1972 Queens’ Vernacular, p. 41: “a fellow homosexual… who is not funny or who is not even trying to be funny…” A style of wit or humor, highly satirical in nature, which is associated with the gay community. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “a form of humour popular among gay people, using satire and sometimes downright mean” An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. camp v.


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “To speak, act, or in any way attract or attempt to attract attention, especially if noisily, flamboyantly, bizarrely, or in any other way calculated to announce, express, or burlesque one’s own homosexuality or that of any other person. (rare) When said of a gay man, to display one’s homosexuality, femininity, etc. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “As a verb, to display one’s homosexual attributes merrily.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 58: “Old homosexual slang, now nearly obsolete, meaning to act in a feminine, flirtatious manner…”


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “To joke or playact exaggerated masculine or feminine behaviors for others’ entertainment. Especially men exhibiting exaggerated feminine behaviors…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “To exaggerate feminine behaviors, usually for others entertainment…”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “solicit for sexual purposes”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “mimic the opposite sex”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “to be witty and clever”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “mix with gay people” camp as a row of (pink) tents, (as) phr. Etymology: Pun referring to the double meaning of camp. To be considered extremely camp in nature. (chiefly Australia, New Zealand) To be perceived as obviously or overtly gay. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “unquestionably gay” camp drag n. A type of drag which draws from clowning and camp aesthetic, focusing on exaggeration, satire, and ribaldry. 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “If glamour queens are the curvaceous trunk of the tree of female impersonation, camp drag is either the roots or the soil. These performers are more focused on silliness than seduction, and there’s a chance their lipstick is smeared by their natural-grown mustache.” camp drag queen n. (pl. camp drag queens) A drag queen who employs a camp drag aesthetic. 2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “Camp drag queens employ a drag aesthetic based on clown-like values, such as exaggeration, satire and ribaldry. These queens are sometimes known for being brutally honest, exhibiting insult comic-like techniques.” campery n.


2009 The New York Times (“South African Rites”): “But she made no secret of her disappointment at our lack of campery.” campiness n.


1988 Live Dancers Tonite (“Lawrence Bommer”): “Still, here, as in the calculated Gong Show campiness of El Grande de Coca-Cola… excellence would simply get in the way.” 2010 St. Louis Magazine, Vol. 16, No. 9 (“What It’s Like to be a Costume Designer”), p. 32: “Sometimes you embrace the danger of unintentional campiness. I’m not afraid to make State Fair as bright and colorful as possible and put bunch of prints and plaids on actors, and make it all saccharine-sweet.” camping n.


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “The verbal noun, camping, is very common; it should be noticed that camping is largely a practice of male homosexuals, and is not very common among Lesbians.” camp it up v. To act in a camp manner. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 94: “to act flamboyantly camp or effeminate. ‘You should have seen Luke – one vodka and tomato juice and he’s camping it up something rotten to The Village People.’” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “overact in an affected and exaggerated manner” camp name n. (pl. camp names) [en] A name provided by or for a gay person, usually a gay man, which is “opposite” of that of their gender identity. Such names may be applied based on traits of an individual, but they can also be applied ironically or sarcastically. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, pp. 94-5: “the renaming of a gay man (or in some cases a lesbian) with an opposite-sex name.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “girl’s names exchanged for boys names, usually alliterative, but also used to indicate personality traits” camper n. (pl. campers) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 26: “baby butch… Syn: camper (knw LV, les sl, late ’60s)”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “gay man” camposity n. The culture associated with gay men. 1959 Absolute Beginners, p. 56: “Showing no sign of grief to this piece of pure campositty.” camp queen n. (pl. camp queens) [en] (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “But even this category is evolving: whereas camp drag queens used to rely on raunchy numbers and lopsided boobs to get laughs, the new generation of ‘pretty girl’ camp queens use brutal wit and musical satire to amuse crowds.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A camp queen is one that uses a drag aesthetic inspired by clown-like values like satire, ribaldry, and exaggeration.” campy adj. (comparative campier, superlative campiest) [en]


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “Adjective: campy.” When said of a gay man, to be flamboyant, often with humorous overtones. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 5: “Very gay, with humorous connotation. Mostly a BCN term.” Canderel queen n. (pl. Canderel queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “insincere person” candy hormones n. (trans) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Non-prescription supplements, often herbal in composition, and other substances, which are taken in an attempt to produce the effects of hormone replacement therapy…” category n. (pl. categories) [en] (ballroom) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 61: “A division of ballroom competition with strict rules surrounding a particular theme.” change, (the) n. [en] (dated, trans) Gender-affirming genitoplasty. (dated, rare, trans) A person who has undergone gender-affirming surgery, usually in reference to genitoplasty. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who has had a sex change…” changer n. (pl. changers) [en] Someone or something who changes things. Someone or something that changes or transforms itself. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who frequently changes gender roles) chaser n. (pl. chasers) [en] A person or thing that chases. (archaic) A hunter; one who hunts. An individual who pursues or follows, often with hostile intent. 1487 Bruce: “The chassaris… ourtuk sum at the last.” c. 1611 Iliads: “He in chase the chaser cannot fly. a. 1616 Cymbeline: “Then beganne A stop i’th’Chaser; a Retyre.” 1856 Selections Grave and Gay (“Confessions Eng. Opium-eater”): “My chasers, that pursued when no man fled.” An individual who runs errands. 1901 Croker: “One of ‘His Royal Highness’s’ chasers comes sprintin’ up to me.” (chiefly United States) A womanizer, i.e. a man who habitually flirts with, seduces, or attempts to seduce, women. 1894 Yale Wit and Humor: “If our accomplished chasers ain’t able to pinch that Harvard Queen without giving up one of our own ladies in exchange, we would respectfully ask what the university is coming to?” A woman who is considered to be promiscuous. A gay man who is considered to be promiscuous. 1952 From Here to Eternity, p. 470: “Hell, if they threw all the queens and queer-chasers in Honolulu into jail, the city’d go broke tryin to feed them.” 1962 The Homosexual Society, p. 76: “When a bisexual youngster takes up with such a ‘chaser’, it is clear that he is often reluctant.” An individual with a fetishistic sexual attraction toward a particular group of people. 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 63: “Someone who pursues romantic and/or sexual relationships with a particular type of person within the queer community.” Shortened form of bug-chaser, i.e. an individual with a fetishistic attraction towards those infected by HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases, to the point of desiring to become infected themselves. 2016 An Undercover Look Inside the World of HIV Bug Chasers and Gift Givers: “At any given time, there are often dozens of people actively posting online ads as ‘chasers’ or ‘gifters’ in San Francisco and elsewhere around the nation … Though chasers and gifters are active around the world, many see San Francisco as a kind of mecca…” Shortened form of chubby chaser, i.e. an individual with a fetishistic attraction towards those considered to be fat. Shortened form of tranny chaser, i.e. an individual with a fetishistic attraction towards trans people, usually trans women. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “Someone with an attraction to trans or gender nonconforming people.” 2016 Trans-Oriented: A Guide to Love and Relationships: “These types despise TGentlemen and insist that any man who is interested in TGirls is automatically a troll, a chaser, or just a gay man in denial. 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “Slang for a transgender fetishist, understood here as a cisgender person who claims unique sexual and/or romantic attraction specifically to transgender people.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 63: “A person who has a sexual fetish for transgender people…” cherry queen n. (pl. cherry queens) [en-ZA] Etymology: From cherry and queen (see queen). Cherry was used to refer to a female virgin as early as 1890s and a male virgin as early as 1940s. This use extended from the comparison between an image of ripeness of the cherry as a fruit and the “ripeness” of a virgin in sexual contexts. Use of cherry within the gay male community first appears recorded in 1941, with the specific reference toward a gay man who has never had anal intercourse before, i.e. an anal virgin. (South Africa, gay male) A gay man who tends to enjoy, or otherwise seeks out, sexual encounters with virgins. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 96: “a gay man who likes to initiate virgins.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “a man who likes having sexual intercourse with male virgins” chest binder n. (pl. chest binders)


2016 Urban Dictionary: “A compression shirt used to bind your breast tissue” chichi adj. Alternate forms: shishi, chi chi, chi-chi, shi shi (dated, uncommon, gay male) Gay. 1963 Distinguished Air, p. 10: “Foster… was pleased with the new wardrobe he had bought there, careful this time to see that every garment had a chichi touch. The trousers he wore were drawn in at the waist and pleated there. The coat was padded smoothly at the shoulders, so that the descending line to the waist gave his figure a too obvious hour-glass appearance.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Homosexual…” 1985 Quiet Fire: Memoirs of Older Gay Men, p. 189: “At that time ‘gay’ was a secret password. Code words were carefully parceled out. ‘Chi chi’ was another.” 2004 “Han Up Deh”: “Hang chi chi gal wid a long piece of rope.” 2008 The Dirty South, p. 2: “Even gay people or chi chi men as we call them on the road.” chichi n. Alternate forms: chi-chi (dated) 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Pronounced she-she). Usually a room or apartment very effeminately decorated. Lace works, drapes, etc.” chicken queen n. (pl. chicken queens) (United States, gay male) An individual who tends to enjoy, or otherwise seeks out, sexual encounters with younger men. 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: “Chicken Queen: a homosexual who shows interest in youthful males and seeks them out to engage, in the receptor role, as sex partners. 1978 Tales of the City: “I hope you’re not a chicken queen. I’m twenty-six.” 1989 A Dictionary of Invective: “This kind of chicken, often preyed upon by older men known as chicken hawks or chicken queens, goes back to the nineteenth century. 1997/2002 The Alternative English Dictionary: chicken queen gay male who is attracted to underage male homosexuals.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, pp. 96-7: “one who prefers to have sex with young men… Also chicken queen, fox.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “man who likes having sex with underage teenage boys (cf. Chicken queen)” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 64: “An older gay man who is attracted to younger gay men…” chick with a dick n. (pl. chicks with dicks) [en] (pornography, derogatory) A trans woman. 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “another term from pornography used to describe MTF transsexuals. Considered highly offensive.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “another term from pornography used to describe transwomen. Considered highly offensive.” (pornography, derogatory) A trans woman who has a penis. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Term for pre-op male to female transsexuals. Originated by the pornography / adult entertainment industry.” children, the n. [en]


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 65: “Young gay and trans members of the ballroom scene.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 65: “Young members of the LGBTQIA+ community.” 吃糖 v. [zh] Alternate forms: chītáng (Pinyin); ㄔ ㄊㄤˊ (Zhuyin); 吃糖 (Simplified Chinese) To eat candy. (trans female) To utilize gender-affirming hormone therapy. chocolate queen n. (pl. chocolate queens) [en] (derogatory) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 61: “white man who likes to have sex with black men” chop v. (third-person singular simple present chops, present participle chopping, simple past and past participle chopped) (transitive) To cut with a quick and heavy blow, often with an ax or cleaver. (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Being cut from a category. Getting chopped means you will not advance to the next round of that category.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 65: “To dismiss, eliminate, or reject.” circuit queen n. (pl. circuit queens) A gay man who enjoys and often participates in the annual string of gay dance parties in the United States collectively known as the “circuit”. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 98: “a gay man who lives for the circuit.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “A frequent circuit party (gay rave/dance events with wide range of scenes) goer, normally used to describe a gay man but nowadays can be used for anyone who goes to circuit parties often. Many have great physique (no matter how they get there), and can be seen at many big international circuit party events. Many circuit queens share certain common scenes with regular ravers such as using substance at parties . They are generally into circuit style EDM with a variety of elements such as deep house, techno, trance, vocal and etc. Depending the party themes, typical circuit queen outfits in mordern days are inclined to be tight or short shorts, largely shifting from jeans in 90s. Men are normally topless. Bandanas and handheld folding fans are widely used.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “someone who is seen regularly on the bar/club/gym/disco circuit” cis dude n. (pl. cis dudes) Alternate forms: cis-dude (pl. cis-dudes), cisdude (pl. cisdudes) cis guy n. (pl. cis guys) Alternate forms: cis-guy (pl. cis-guys), cisguy (pl. cisguys) cishet adj. Alternate forms: cis het, cis-het (informal, primarily internet, trans) Cisgender and heterosexual. 2013 Black & Pink (“On the Labor Movement and Transmisogyny), p. 4: “Even in death, the way we are spoken about by the mainstream cishet world is traumatizing and violent. Even in death, trans women of color cannot escape the trauma of colonialism and genocide.” 2013 The Mac Weekly (“Bringing Sexy Mac! The ins and outs of coming out”): “Coming out ‘of the closet’ is the act of revealing your queer gender, sexual and/or romantic identity, an act made a necessity due to living in a society that assumes uniformly cisgender and heterosexual (which I will shorten to cishet) experiences. Although he wasn’t the first to advocate for it, the first openly gay American politician Harvey Milk promoted coming out as a political act because it raised visibility for a severely underrepresented group. To Milk, coming out both humanized the queer experience for cishet people and encouraged queer people to more easily build a stronger community.” 2014 Streets of Shadows, p. 160: “We picked Jason on purpose: cishet, white dude, college educated—he was even in my Urban Geographies class.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 68: “An abbreviation for ‘cisgender heterosexual’…” cishet n. (pl. cishets) Alternate forms: cis-het (pl. cis-hets), cis het (pl. cis hets) (informal, primarily internet, trans) A cisgender and heterosexual person. cishetero adj. cishon n. (pl. cishons) Etymology: cis, as a shortening of transgender, and hon. (derogatory, internet, 4chan, trans) A cis woman who is said to look like a non-passing trans woman due to having features perceived as masculine. 2021 Twitter: “if you’ll allow me to be problematic, i’m glad the facebook whistleblower seems to be a cishon, it’s made me realise that i’m somewhat passable” 2022 Twitter: “Skylar is such a cishon it’s insane, truly the greatest trans ally” 2022 Twitter: “tttt has fried my brain. im sitting at dinner w family and thinking about how grandma is a cishon” 2022 Twitter: “this tweet is remarkably funny coming from the brickiest cishon to walk earth. i pass better than u sweetheart” cisplain v. Alternate forms: cissplain Etymology: Patterned on mansplain (man + -splain, from explain), switching out man for cis (shortening of cisgender). (colloquial, derogatory, chiefly internet) 2010 Sick Sad World (“How to deal with being racist”): “Don’t mansplain, whitesplain, straightsplain, cissplain, etc. Respect people’s right to self-define.” 2012 Freethought Blogs (“How To Ask A Trans Person Questions Without Being Insensitive About It”): “Don’t ask us about transgenderism only to cisplatin how we’re still ‘really’ our birth sex and always will be.” 2013 Urban Dictionary: “To explain, without ever having felt the necessity to investigate the issue, that there are only two genders which are fixed and invariable for every individual at birth. Usually assumes equal lack of introspection on the part of transgender people who are likely to have spent their whole life questioning what gender means. The cisplainer is often shocked and angry when their cisplanation is not taken as absolute fact, criticized or even rejected altogether… Some trans people also engage in cisplaining never having felt empowered to question the predominate cisgenderism of the society they were brought up in. This has been compared to a form Stockholm Syndrome.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “When a cis-gendered, straight person attempts to explain, often incorrectly, the nuances of non-gendered language or non-heterosexuality to an LGBTQ+ person… When a cis-gendered person ‘explains’ something LGBTQ-related to an LGBTQ person, often in a condescending tone. It is also often presented in such a way that clearly belies it as a lesson they just ‘learned’ recently.” cisplaining n. Alternate forms: cissplaining


2018 Urban Dictionary: “Not unlike mansplaining, Cisplaining is the act of a cisgender person explaining a transgenderone of a subject the latter is more knowledgeable in. The word is usually used to describe a situation in which the cis explains the trans of a trans-related subject or about a transgender experience, which the cisgender person, being cisgender, has never experienced.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “When a CIS person patronizes a CIS persons use of a pronoun or lack of inclusivity of a non binary gender.” 2022 Journal of International Women’s Studies, Vol. 23, No. 2 (“Dissident Epistemologies: Dialogue around an Affective Research Experience”), p. 50: “I like to call it transplaining, in response to the usual mansplaining and cisplaining voices that write trans* history.” cissona n. (pl. cissonas) Etymology: Overlapping blend of cis (shortened form of cisgender) and persona (-sona). Likely coined in 2018 by Tumblr user arsonwizard. (rare, internet, Tumblr, trans) 2018 Tumblr: “*is refered [sic] to by deadname* ah, my cissona” 2019 Reddit (r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns): “my cissona’s story doesn’t go past 14, i ran out of ideas” 2022 Urban Dictionary: “A persona that a non-cis person will use in social situations to dampen the horrible feeling of being misgendered by everyone…” cissy n. (pl. cissies) Alternate forms: cissie (trans) 2011 Urban Dictionary: “A derogatory term for non-trans people. Often used to express frustration with the oppression faced by transfolk.” 2016 Urban Dictionary: “Cissie is a diminutive contraction of cisgender. It is used jokingly by transgender people as a flippant retort to those who would call them ‘trannies’. The intention is to convey the message that being transgender is no more to be ashamed of than being cisgender.” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A cis gendered person easily offended by people being happy discovering who they are and diminishing gender roles” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A term for non-trans people, used by transfolk who get easily offended for basically no reason and feel like the whole world is against them.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A whiny cis person whose greatest struggle is their inability to get fucked by a trans person” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “(pronounced like 'sissy') a poor, abused, and persecuted beneficiary of cisgender privilege who cries and complains because there is a new word for what he or she identifies as.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “a term Trans people usually use to jokingly call cisgender people. It mimics the insult cis people will use against trans women, ‘sissy.’” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A slur against Cis-gendered people normally by Trans people made from a combination of the word ‘Sissy’ and ‘Cis’. The plural form is ‘Cissies’.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “Cissy is a slang term for a TERF; a transgender exclusionary reactionary fool. More commonly this is said as ‘transgender exclusionary radical feminist’, but being transgender exclusionary by definition, excludes a TERF from being a feminist.” 2022 Urban Dictionary: “A word used by trans people to refer to cis people in a (largely) joking manner… Comes from a reversal of the slur tr*nny.” cissy fit n. (rare, trans) 2021 Urban Dictionary: “When a cisgender person enters a state of rage after being called out for speaking on transgender issues, of which they do not have the lived experience or world view to understand.” cis-tem n. (pl cis-tems) Alternate forms: cistem (pl. cistems)


2022 Urban Dictionary: “Portmanteau of ‘cisgender’ and ‘system’. The collection of systems in place to discourage being transgender and perpetuate rigid gender norms that hurt all of us.” cister n. (pl. cisters) Alternate forms: cis-ter (pl. cis-ters) (rare) A cisgender man who is a feminist. 2017 Urban Dictionary: “A male that was born with male anatomy and identifies as male and sees females as equal and different.” (rare, trans) A trans person’s friend who is a cisgender woman. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “A transgenders friend that is a cis woman” clean queen n. (pl. clean queens) A gay man who is considered to be extremely tidy. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 98: “a gay man who always wears ironed shirts, brushes his hair and is obsessed with keeping his home tidy, continually dusting, wiping down work surfaces, picking bits of dirt off the carpets and fretting if anybody spills a drink on his sofa.” (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “gay man who does his laundry at a laundromat, using the opportunity to camp other gay men” clientele v. (drag) To have sexual relations with. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To have an association with somebody in the mixing and mingling sense.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “to have sex. Drag queen slang.” clip queen n. (pl. clip queens) Alternate forms: clip-queen (pl. clip-queens) (United States, gay male) 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 5: “A second cousin to dirt and usually a young, commercially-inclined homosexual without any desire for violence, i.e., a sneak-thief.” clock v. (third-person singular simple present clocks, present participle clocking, simple past and past participle clocked) To sound a stationary bell by pulling a rope attached to its clapper so that the clapper strikes the side of the bell. 1858 (transitive) To time using a clock or stopwatch, especially in a race or competition. (transitive) To attain or register a time or speed, especially in a race of competition. (slang, originally United States) To watch, observe, look at, take notice of, become aware of; to recognize or register something or someone. 1911 New York Times Magazine: “The First Violin Jessie Fothergill… We have a hunch that Jessie is there plenty strong every time, even if this [title] is the only one we have clocked.” 1917 Old Man Curry: “Elisha worked fine this morning, I clocked him myself.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “look at” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 70: “To take notice of someone or something.” (slang, underworld, United States) To perform reconnaissance, usually of a potential or possible crime site. 1950 Dictionary of American Underworld Lingo: “Clock, v. To watch the movements of a prospective victim of crime, especially a watchman on his rounds.” (gay male, United States) To scrutinize or size someone up. 1972 Queens’ Vernacular: “clock (kwn SF, hip gay sl…) to scrutinize, size up.” (gay male) To attempt to make eye contact. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “to attempt to make eye contact with someone.” (cross-dressing) To determine that someone who is cross-dressing is of a different gender category than previously supposed. (trans) To recognize that someone might be transgender; to identify someone, previously thought to be cisgender, as transgender. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To know what time it is when it comes to my biological gender.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “for a non-transgendered person to detect a transgendered person…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “to recognize that someone is transgendered.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 70: “To recognize a transgender person as trans, usually when they are trying to appear cisgender.” (drag, rare) To call attention to another’s flaws, usually in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner, especially in regard to a reveal or reveals of the truth in a situation. 2011 Urban Dictionary: “used in gay vernacular especially among drag queens… to call out someone's flaws, to uncover or reveal the truth in a situation or one's true gender” (gay male) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 70: “To take notice of someone and identify them as gay…” clocked, to be v. Alternate forms: to get clocked, done clocked (cross-dressing) To be recognized as a cross-dresser, when one’s status as such was previously not known. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 81: “when a cross-dresser is recognized by a member of the public as not belonging to the sex which he/she is dressed as. Also known as getting clocked.” (trans) To be recognized as transgender, usually by a cisgender person, when one’s status as such was previously not known. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To know what time it is when it comes to my biological gender.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Read” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “for a non-transgendered person to detect a transgendered person…” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to be recognized as transsexual.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be recognized as transsexual.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “When a person is identified as trans while attempting to present as their affirmed gender (also known as being ‘read’).” clone n. (pl. clones) (botany) A population of genetically identical plants which have arisen from a single parent by means of vegetative propagation. 1903 Science: “Clons… are groups of plants that are propagated by the use of any form of vegetative parts. (biology) Any group of genetically identical cells produced asexually from a singular ancestor. 1929 Bibliographia Genetica, Vol. 5, p. 234: “In Bacillus coli communis… a biotype was also found having lower motility than the remainder of the clone from which it came.” (chiefly science fiction) A duplicate of a living organism, usually a human person or alien. 1970 Future Shock: “Those most likely to replicate themselves will be those who are most narcissistic, and… the clones they produce will also be narcissists.” (originally United States, colloquial) An individual who imitates another person to an extreme extent, so as to appear as unimportant or uncreative themselves. 1977 The Serial: A Year in the Life Of Marin County: “He said Harvey was practically a clone.” 1984 Life Its Ownself: “‘Dede Aldwyn?’ ‘Clone.’.” (originally United States, chiefly historical, gay male) 1978 Panama: “Five hundred screaming clones in dripping batik, coiffed like leftenants [sic] out of Goodbye to All That.” 1981 Gayspeak: “The greatest portion of the gay lexicon refers to gay male sexuality and associated activities: … clone.” 1982 Making Love: “Brief affairs, faggot bitchery, dance madness, drug abuse, hepatitis, clones–he shrank from all of them in horror.” 1988 Gay (S)language: “Clone–San Francisco/New York Greenwich Village gay type with exaggerated macho behavior and appearance.” 1995 The Independent: “The men are everywhere. Leather men, muscle Marys, dancing queens, activists, preppies, clones, bikers and bohemians. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “someone with a standard gay male appearance of a particular era” 2005 My Lives: “His disapproval of the American butch style didn’t keep him from being attracted to individual clones.” (rare, trans) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a transsexual woman or man who attempts to fit into the mold of the ‘classic transsexual’ scenario, i.e. uses pre-scripted cliches like ‘woman trapped in man’s body,’ ‘known from my first memory,’ etc... Can be used to objective [sic] describe someone, or it can be used derogatorily.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a transsexual woman or man who attempts to fit into the mold of the ‘classic transsexual’ scenario, i.e. uses pre-scripted cliches like ‘woman trapped in man's body,’ ‘known from my first memory,’ etc... Can be used to objective [sic] describe someone, or it can be used derogatorily.” closet, (the) n. The status of an individual who has not yet disclosed or revealed to others their sexual identity, which is anything other than heterosexual. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “the status of a gay man or lesbian who is yet to declare their sexuality.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “The place where gay people hide their true selves.” The status of an individual who has not yet disclosed or revealed to others their gender modality, which is anything other than cisgender. The status of an individual who has not yet disclosed or revealed to others their gender modality or sexual identity, which is anything other than cisgender and heterosexual. closet, in the prep. phr. [en] (gay male) Referring to a gay man who is in denial about his sexual orientation. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “Gay man in denial.” (gay) Referring to a gay person who is aware of their sexual orientation but is not open about it with others or with those outside of the gay community. 1968 The Boys in the Band: A Play in Two Acts: “Do you know what is means to be ‘in the closet’.” 1979 Gone, no Forwarding: “Simson was much straighter-looking… than when his sexual preference had still been in the closet.” 2004 Urban Dictionary: “a term used to describe a homosexual person who has not told anyone of his/her sexual orientation” 2006 Advocate: “One of my closest gay friends was a Tony-winning actor… He was also in the closet, terrified of being exposed.” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “A person that is secretly gay.” (LGBTQ) Referring to a person whose sexual identity or gender modality is minoritized and marginalized, thereby influencing that individual to not be open about that identity or modality. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Not disclosing (coming out) or being secretive about an individual’s own sexual orientation and/or gender identity.” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “Keeping one’s sexual orientation and/or gender or sex identity a secret.” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “Someone who has a different orientation or gender identity than typical and has not yet shared with the rest of the world” Not open about some feature of one’s life or one’s identity or identities, in a broad sense. 2015 Urban Dictionary: “Hiding one’s true self” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “in hiding ;Haven't yet shared with the rest of the world ; in secret” closet, out of the prep. phr. [en] (originally United States)


2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “Refers to varying degrees of being open about one’s sexual orientation and/or sex identity or gender identity.” closet case n. (pl. closet cases) An individual who is unable to admit, reveal, or disclose their sexual identity, which is anything other than heterosexual, to themselves and/or others, despite the fact that others may already be aware of or suspect their identity. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “someone who is unable to admit their sexuality either to themselves or to others, despite the fact that other people have already guessed. Also crushed fruit, hidden queen.”


2005 Urban Dictionary: “A man of homosexual orientation who is afraid to come clean due to iminent humiliation and beating” 2006 Urban Dictionary: “A homosexual who denies their homosexuality, and claims to be heterosexual.” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “is a person that is in the closet who either doesn’t realize he/she is gay but is questioning his/her sexuality intensely, knew he/she is gay but can’t come to terms with it, or a person that has come to terms with their sexuality but was fearful of possible social repercussions of being gay” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “A gay person who is unable to admit they're gay, usually for fear of being rejected by their peers.” 2017 Urban Dictionary: “A closet case is a person who denies their homosexuality. Either because they are young and haven't come to terms with their sexuality. Or they are famous and want to make money marketing themselves to the opposite sex.”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 71: “An individual who denies their sexuality or gender identity…” closet dyke n. (pl. closet dykes)


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 71: “…the lesbian equivalent is closet dyke…” closeted adj.


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 71: “…probably from the old usage of closeted to mean ‘in private.’”


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Not disclosing (coming out) or being secretive about an individual’s own sexual orientation and/or gender identity.” 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Describes an LGBTQ+ person who has not disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity.” closet queen n. (pl. closet queens) Translation(s): kassie trassie [en] (gay male) A gay man who is unable to admit, reveal, or disclose their sexual orientation to themselves and/or others, and who is considered to be passing as heterosexual. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 71: “A homosexual who hides his sexual proclivities and passes as straight…” (lesbian, gay male, bisexual) An individual who is unable to admit, reveal, or disclose their sexual identity, which is anything other than heterosexual, to themselves and/or others, despite the fact that others may already be aware of or suspect their identity. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “someone who is unable to admit their sexuality either to themselves or to others, despite the fact that other people have already guessed. Also crushed fruit, hidden queen.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “person who has or is suspected of having homosexual tendencies, but who has not acknowledged them publicly” (LGBTQ) An individual who is unable to admit, reveal, or disclose their gender modality or sexual identity, which is anything other than cisgender and heterosexual, to themselves and/or others, despite the fact that others may already be aware of or suspect their identity. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Usually refers to a male homosexual who wishes to keep his sexual preference private, but is sometimes used to refer to those who are transgendered and with to keep their gender identity private.” clotheshorse n. (pl. clotheshorses) Alternate forms: cloth horse, clothes-horse (pl. clothes-horses) An upright wooden frame standing upon legs, with horizontal bars on which clothes are hung out to dry or air. 1807 The Miseries of Human Life, Vol. 2: “You look like a clothes-horse, with a great-coat stretched out upon it, just ready for the rattan.” (figurative) A well-dressed and fashionable person who is said to be the pinnacle of fashion. 1850 Latter-day Pamphlets: “ITom and Jack have been at least workers all their days, not idlers, game-preservers and mere human clothes-horses .” A fashion model. 1939 Dragon’s Teeth, p. 97: “It was that woman back there… ex-clotheshorse!” (rare, crossdressing) A person, assigned female at birth, who has a penchant for wearing clothing stereotypically coded as butch or masculine, but who is closeted in regard to admitting that penchant. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a woman with a fetish for male clothing who is unwilling to admit to being a transvestite or crossdresser…” clown queen n. (pl. clown queens) [en] (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “These experimental queens are kind of like the haute couture element of the drag community, showcasing stunningly creative looks which, beyond a runway or stage, don’t seem to be from or for this earth – which is why Clown Queen is another moniker for this colorful set of queens.” club drag n. (drag) 2017 Toronto Star (“Craig Russell brought fame to Toronto’s gay village. The drag queens who remain keep its sparkle alive”): “Club drug has emphasis on outrageous fashion and makeup.” club queen n. (pl. club queens) [en] (drag, Club Kids) 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “You know the type: doorwhores, performers, promoters. They run the best nights on the scene and are mainly just paid to hang around being fabulous. Their drag is often inspired by music – from Boy George to the Club Kids – and their looks are typically outlandish, riffing off a club’s theme.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A club queen is a type of drag queen that draws inspiration from the NYC club kid scenes back in the 80s/90s.” clutch one’s pearls v.


2013 The Evolution of Mara Dyer: “Of course, you can’t say any of this out loud, or people will clutch their pearls and call you a monster.” 2016 By the Rules: “I can tell you I’ve heard some ugly shit that would make Ozzy Osbourne clutch his pearls.” 2016 The Nightingale Submits: “Nala wasn’t the type to clutch her pearls and run home.” 2020 Miracles and Other Reasonable Things, p. 28: “She had conceived of this gathering as an antidote to the typical women’s retreats—she wanted to create a space for the women who feel like they don’t quite fit into the Good Christian Lady story, the women who make other women clutch their pearls, the women who feel like zebras in a pasture filled with horses.” 2020 Strike Me Down, p. 226: “A flashed badge wouldn’t make anyone on the Strike management team clutch their pearls, except maybe Darryl, but he wasn’t here.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 71: “Demonstrating a ladylike look of surprise, either favorable or discomforted. The phrase is usually accompanied by putting a hand close to the neckline where pearls would lie.” cock in a frock n. (pl. cocks in frocks) cock sucker red adj. (drag) A shade of lipstick considered to be perfect. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 100: “the perfect shade of lipstick. Drag queen slang…” coffin queen n. (pl. coffin queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “a gay man who works at a funeral parlour” cognitive dissonance week n. Etymology: Formed from cognitive dissonance + week. The former refers to mental conflict arising when one’s beliefs and actions do not align, although in this case it refers more to an uncomfortable state between one’s maleness (or non-femaleness) and the experience of menstruation, being mentally associated with femaleness. The latter refers to an approximation of the period of menstruation, which usually lasts anywhere from 2 to 7 days, with a week also being seven days. (rare, trans male) Said of a trans man, or any trans or nonbinary person assigned female at birth, who experiences gender dysphoria, a period of menstruation. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “for an ftm who is still menstruating, that period of time in which they have their periods…” collar-and-tie adj. Alternate forms: collar and tie Referring to more formal masculine attire, usually of a dress shirt and tie. collar-and-tie n. Alternate forms: collar and tie. Etymology: Likely a shortening of the phrase collar-and-tie men referring to businessmen who wear dress shirts and ties, or who dress more formally generally. (obsolete, lesbian) A lesbian who wears masculine clothing, usually tailor suits, shirt or shirt-waist and tie, soft felt slouch hats, and low-heeled oxford- and moccasin-type shoes. 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 8: “collar-and-tie (n.): The female homosexual who wears mannish clothes.” color TV n. (pl. color TVs) Alternate forms: colour TV (pl. colour TVs) (drag, cross-dressing) A drag queen or cross-dresser who likes to wear flamboyant, attention-getting clothes. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 101: “a drag queen or transvestite who likes to wear flamboyant, attention-getting clothes.” colorful TV n. (pl. colorful TVs) Alternate forms: colourful TV (pl. colourful TVs) (drag, cross-dressing) A drag queen or cross-dresser who likes to wear flamboyant, attention-getting clothes. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 101: “a drag queen or transvestite who likes to wear flamboyant, attention-getting clothes.” come busting over v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To show up uninvited, only to have The Doll slam the door on you.” come out n. Alternate forms: come-out


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “The time one admits he is a homosexual and adjusts himself to that life.” come out v. (third-person singular simple present comes out, present participle coming out, simple past came out) (literal) To remove oneself from somewhere. To discover something; to have something revealed. To be published or issued. (obsolete) To make a formal debut in society, usually as a debutante. 1842 Lady Anne Granard, Vol. 1, p. 63: “‘You would not trouble it much, child,’ returned Lady Anne, pettishly; ‘you know you are the plain one of the family. I do not know what I shall do with you when you come out; you will have no beauty but that of youth.’” (copulative) For something to end up in a particular position or with a particular result. (cricket) Of a batsman, to walk onto the field at the beginning of an inning. (United Kingdom) For one who swindles to drop a disguise of honesty and commence swindling. 1849 (United States, Black) To declare one’s faith in a given religion or to join a particular church. c. 1850 (United States) To relinquish a specific religious denomination, in favor of free opinion regarding religious matters. 1855 To declare any form of self-revelation. 1900 (gay) To become a part of the gay male subculture; to become familiar with, or more familiar with, the gay male subculture. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “To become progressively more and more exclusively homosexual with experience. This meaning is currently being given also to brought out, q.v., which originally had a distinctly different shade of meaning.” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 5: “To be initiated into the myseries of homosexuality.” (gay) To inform others of one’s being gay or their presence in gay society or subculture, wherein such knowledge had previously been considered secret or otherwise unknown. (gay) To declare oneself openly as a gay person. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “to acknowledge one’s homosexuality publicly” (LGBTQ) To inform others of one’s sexual identity which is anything other than heterosexual. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 101: “to openly declare your sexuality to others.” (LGBTQ) To cope with, or otherwise handle, one’s own and others’ reactions to discovery of one’s sexual identity or gender modality, which is anything other than cisgender and heterosexual. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “To deal with one’s own and others reactions to the discovery or disclosure of one’s sexual identity or gender identity.” (LGBTQ) To inform others of one’s sexual identity or gender modality, which is anything other than cisgender and heterosexual. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “To disclose one’s own sexual identity or gender identity to another…” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 74: “In the LGBTQIA+ community, this phrase is most commonly used in reference to a person sharing their sexual orientation or gender identity publicly…”


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “May be applied to disclosure of any information about oneself, not just sexual or gender identity.” (West Indies) To be born into poverty or otherwise in some unknown place. 1996 come out for v.


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “‘come out for’ - To disclose another’s sexual or gender identity with their permission or at their requent…” come out of the closet v. (third-person singular simple present comes out of the closet, present participle coming out of the closet, simple past came out of the closet, past participle come out of the closet) (intransitive, idiomatic, gay male) To inform others of one’s being gay or their presence in gay society or subculture, wherein such knowledge had previously been considered secret or otherwise unknown. 1976 Choirboys: “Alexander Blaney came out of the closet at that time.” 1999 Alice in La-La Land: “The urge to come out of the closet and go fagging only comes on him every so often.” (gay male, lesbian) To inform others of one’s identity as a gay man or lesbian where the identity had previously been secret or unknown. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 71: “The current wave of homosexuals, both male and female, shedding their cloak of secrecy and publicly declaring their homosexuality is termed ‘coming out of the closet.’” 1980 Submariners: “I’ve come out of the closet.” To inform others of one’s sexuality or sexual interests generally, when such knowledge had previously been secret or unknown. To inform others of one’s transness, when one’s transness had previously been secret or unknown; may refer to informing before one had transitioned or after. To inform others of one’s gender identity, when one’s gender identity had previously been secret or unknown. To inform others that one is an atheist, when being an atheist had previously been secret or unknown. To inform others of any aspect of one’s identity, when such an identity had previously been secret or unknown. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “To task a risk by sharing one’s identity, sometimes to one person in conversation, sometimes to a group or in a public setting.” come out of the broom closet v. third-person singular simple present comes out of the broom closet, present participle coming out of the broom closet, simple past came out of the broom closet, past participle come out of the broom closet) Etymology: Coined by analogy from come out of the closet, with the “broom” in broom closet being a jocular reference to the idea of witches riding brooms. (idiomatic, rare) To inform others that one is a Wiccan or another kind of Neopagan, when being a Wiccan or another kind of Neopagan had previously been secret or unknown. 2005 Cyberhinge: Modern Pagans on the Internet: “Second, despite constitutional guarantees of religions freedom and practice, and despite the rhetoric of tolerance with which religion in American society is cloaked, ‘coming out of the broom closet’ and declaring oneself Wiccan or Witch remains a very risky act for many people, precisely because of the different cultures in which they reside.” 2006 The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Wicca and Witchcraft: “In 1986, a federal appeals court ruled that Wicca is a legal religion. That means that the practice of Wicca is protected by the U.S. Constitution. Ever since the ruling, more and more Wiccans have ‘come out of the broom closet.’” 2009 Out of the Broom Closet: 50 True Stories of Witches Who Found and Embraced the Craft: “I cannot claim that I ever came out of the broom closet, because I didn’t even know that I had the option of hiding in said closet when I began to self-identify as a Pagan at the age of seventeen.” come out to oneself v.


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “‘come out to oneself’ - To discover that one’s own sexual identity or gender identity is different than previously assumed…” coming in n.


2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “The process of inviting someone into your personal space and sharing your diverse SOGIESC with them; may more accurately represent the experiences of those in circumstances where it is unsafe to ‘come out.’” coming out (of the closet) n.


2017 IOM LGBTI (“Terminology Guidance - Glossary of Terms”): “A lifelong process of self-acceptance. People may acknowledge their identity first to themselves and then share it with others…” 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “The process of acknowledging, accepting, and appreciating one’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity, and beginning to share that with others.” 2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “…describe[s] a process of self-acceptance wherein individuals acknowledge their identity, then share it with others.” commentator n. (ballroom) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 75: “The emcee for a ballroom ball or other event…” community, (the) n. condragulations Etymology: Blending of ‘congratulations’ and ‘drag’. a 2010 Urban Dictionary: “From Rapaul’s DragU show. Female contestants, guided by seasoned drag queens from Rupaul's Drag Race, fight to be the fiercest drag queen. Rupaul congradulates (or condraguates) the contestant who finishes with top honors with this word.” console TV n. A cross-dresser or drag queen who is considered overweight. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 215: “A console TV: a large, lounging drag queen…” control queen n. (pl. control queens) contour v.


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 77: “To enhance or sharpen the structure and features of one’s face with the aid of cosmetics.” convert-a-cunt n. (pl. convert-a-cunts) (vulgar) A vagina created via vaginoplasty 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “A low-brow term for neo-vagina.” cooked, (to be) v. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “socialized into a particular gender role, either by upbringing, or through transition…” Copenhagen capon n. (pl. Copenhagen capons) Etymology: From Copenhagen, the capital and most populous city in the country of Denmark, and capon, a rooster that has been castrated or neutered. Copenhagen references where trans woman Christine Jorgensen (30 May 1926 – 3 May 1989) underwent an orchiectomy procedure on 24 September 1951 and a penectomy procedure in November 1952. Capon likens these procedures to castration or neutering of a rooster. (United States, dated, rare, derogatory, gay male) A trans person, almost exclusively referring to trans women, with focus being on having undergone gender-affirming vaginoplasty. 2009 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 234: “a transsexual…” 2018 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 178: “a transsexual…” 2021 Reddit (r/transgender): “The term ‘Copenhagen capon’ refers to Christine Jorgensen, known for many things, notably for this, she was transgender and had GRS in Copenhagen in the 1950s… Capon is a castrated rooster… It’s a grossly genital focused medicalizing expression to allude to someone being a transgender woman… That’s kinda really messed up…” Copenhagen, go (to) v. Etymology: From Copenhagen, the capital and most populous city in the country of Denmark, where trans woman Christine Jorgensen (30 May 1926 – 3 May 1989) underwent an orchiectomy procedure on 24 September 1951 and a penectomy procedure in November 1952. (dated, rare, gay male) To undergo gender-affirming surgery, usually in reference to gender-affirming vaginoplasty. 1972 Queens’ Vernacular, p. 201: go Copenhagen… to have one’s original sex changed by means of the surgical knife. Syn: go to Denmark. 1986/1987 Maledicta IX, p. 53: Copenhagen, go; go to Denmark v phr [R] Have sex change operation; homosexual slang.” cottage queen n. (pl. cottage queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “someone who frequents public toilets for anonymous sex” cotton ceiling n. cover girl n. (pl. cover girls) A woman that a gay man dates in order to appear heterosexual. 2008 Urban Dictionary: “The woman a male-homosexual pretends to date in order to hide his sexual orientation” A drag queen or cross-dresser who looks attractive in drag, or is secretive about their alternative gender identity. crack my face v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To be embarrassed by something completely unexpected.” crack one’s egg v. (third-person singular simple present cracks one’s egg, present participle cracking one’s egg, simple past and past participle cracked one’s egg) To come out as transgender after a period of being considered as an egg, or to cause an individual to come out as transgender after such a period. 2017 Reddit (r/ask_transgender): “R/traa cracks more eggs than Denny’s.” crack out of one’s shell v. (third-person singular simple present cracks out of one’s shell, present participle cracking out of one’s shell, simple past and past participle cracked out of one’s shell) To come out as transgender after a period of being considered as an egg. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Trans slang for a person who hasn’t realized they’re trans yet. Usually they show telltale behavior of a trans person despite not knowing, like ‘ironically’ crossdressing or writing shitty fanfiction about trans people. The word comes from the idea that they haven’t ‘cracked out of their shell’, like an egg.” cracked adj. Describing the state of having just come out as transgender or having just realized that one is transgender. 2019 Reddit (r/honesttransgender): “People saying that they’re newly cracked, or refer[ring] to their previous selves as eggy is so infantile and hard to read.” cracked v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “To be embarrassed by something completely unexpected.” crash landing n. Crepe Suzette queen n. (pl. Crepe Suzette queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “gay man who likes deep kissing” crossdream v. crossdreamer n. (pl. crossdreamers, abbr. XD)


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A person who is crossdreaming…” 2013 Urban Dictionary: “A man or woman who get aroused by the idea of being the opposite sex… Many crossdreamers identify with their birth sex, while others are gender dysphoric. Many crossdreamers understand themselves as transgender, while others consider themselves fetishists… Many, but not all, girlfags and guydykes may be considered crossdreamers. It seems a majority of crossdreamers are attracted to persons of their own birth sex… Crossdreamers may express their feelings through crossdressing and/or creative crossdreaming, e.g. by writing stories, comics and TG captions. Many female to male crossdreamers enjoy yaoi comics and stories, while many male to female write or read TG captions (images with short texts).” crossdreaming n. Alternate forms: cross-dreaming


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Term made by me to describe the act of dreaming about having the body of the opposite sex…” cross-live v. cross-liver n. (pl. cross-livers) cross-living n.


2006 Trans Care Gender transition (“Real Life Experience”): “Trans people and loved ones sometimes call this ‘cross-living,’ ‘living full-time,’ or ‘living 24/7.’” crosswired adj. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “gender variant, transgendered…” Crying Game n. Etymology: From the 1992 film The Crying Game. A usually sexual and/or romantic situation in which a cisgender person interacts with a transgender person, following that transgender person’s disclosure of their transgender status. 2002 I Dreamed I Killed Osama Bin Laden: “Man, what a way to pop a balloon full of promise! It was like waiting to be with the girl of your dreams and you end up in the Crying Game.” Crying Game v. Alternate forms: crying game. Etymology: From the 1992 film The Crying Game. For a cisgender person to have a transgender person they’ve just had sexual intercourse with, disclose their status as transgender. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “To find out your girlfriend who you've had intercourse with used to be a man” When a trans woman who has a penis undresses. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “To get a woman to undress herself only for her to reveal a penis.” cum queen n. (pl. cum queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “man who likes to suck another man’s penis until he ejaculates in his mouth”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 63: “someone who likes to ingest semen orally or have it sprayed over his body” cunt adj.


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 79: “Emphasizing extreme femininity.” cunt n. (pl. cunts) Alternate forms: cunte (pl. cuntes), count (pl. counts) Etymology: Uncertain. Probably the reflex of the Old English form *cunte that is not securely attested. Cognate with the Old Frisian kunte, the Middle Dutch conte, the Middle Low German kunte, the Middle High German kunt, the Old Icelandic kunta (only as a byname), the Norwegian kunte, the Swedish regional kunta and kutta, and the Danish kunte. The vulva or vagina. c. 1325 Proverbs of Hendyng: “Ȝeue þi cunte to cunnig & craue affetir wedding.” c. 1400 Science of Cirurgie: “In wymmen þe necke of þe bladdre is schort, & is maad fast to the cunte.” a. 1425 Medulla Grammatice: “Vulua, a count or a wombe.” 1970 The Female Eunuch, p. 307: “At all events, a clitoral orgasm with a full cunt is nicer than a clitoral orgasm with an empty one, as far as I can tell at least.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 79: “A synonym for vagina.” (derogatory) A woman, when sexually objectified as a source of sexual gratification. (derogatory) A woman who is considered to be promiscuous. (pejorative) A term of abuse for a woman. 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 79: “A derogatory slur, typically directed at a woman.” Said of a man, sexual intercourse with a woman. 1968 Howard Street: “Let’s celebrate with some free cunt.” (derogatory) A term of abuse for a man. (derogatory) Something which is despised, unpleasant, annoying, or infuriating. (United States, gay male) A term of address between gay men. (United States, gay male) The mouth or rectum, in the context of oral or anal intercourse, respectively. (United States, gay male) The buttocks. Commercial sexual practices; prostitution; sex work. (derogatory) A woman who is considered to be sexually attractive. A person, usually a man, with no negative implications. cuntboy n. (pl. cuntboys) cunty adj. (comparative cuntier, superlative cuntiest) Alternate forms: cuntie Etymology: Formed from cunt + -y. See cunt above. (vulgar) Of, relating to, or from the vagina; resembling, suggestive of, or associated with the vulva or vagina. c. 1890 My Secret Life: “She was a strong-scented woman. When she got hot, a sort of baudy, cunty, sweaty exhalation evolved from her.” 1975 The Samurai, p. 54: “I remember she had a pretty cunty smell, and her breath was awful.” (derogatory) 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 57: “cunt… —y 1. possessing the qualities of a woman; womanish ‘Imagine me cooking for my old man—that makes me feel so cunty!’” (derogatory) 1969 Firestorm: “He’s a mewling, cunty little bastard.” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bitch… —y… slanderous, critical, snide, vindictive… Syn: … cunty…” 2002 The Best Stage Scenes of…, p. 167: “Do me the courtesy, please, of not being totally cunty. You just turn into this raving, paranoid, twelve-foot cunt.” 2008 Urban Dictionary: “Stupid, dumb, retarded, etc.” 2017 Twitter: “Have you ever seen a cuntier sign in all your life.” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “Bitchy, extremely unpleasant.”


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 57: “cunt… —y… 2. frilly “This ballroom is too cunty, why don’t you spill some coffee on the carpet to butch it up!’” (United States) Sexy. 1974 The Wanderers, p. 83: “She was about sixteen and had jet black hair piled high on her head. She had a nice figure… and her face was Cunty Italian…” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “sexy, iconic, epic, never been done before, serving…” Sexually aroused. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “the condition of feeling horny…” A term of affection or endearment. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “…a word expressing affection…” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “Affectionate term for a good friend or mate…”


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “A soft and delicate display of confidence.” (trans female) 2019 Transgender Map (“Transgender slang, slurs, and controversial words”): “a compliment among some that means you look like a non-transgender woman, e.g., very feminine or very beautiful…” (trans) 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “Refers to a transgender person who is perceived as cisgender.” cupboard queen n. (pl. cupboard queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 64: “person who has not publicly acknowledged his homosexuality” curry queen n. (pl. curry queens) [en] (derogatory, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 64: “Caucasian man who likes having sex with Indian men” cut adj. (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 64: “circumcised” 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “Describing a circumcised penis…” (gay male) Referring to a man, usually a gay man, who has been circumcised. 2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “Describing… a man whose penis is circumcised.” (rare, trans) Referring to a trans person who has undergone some form of gender-affirming genitoplasty, or bottom surgery. cut v.


2021 The Queens’ English, p. 80: “To speak with sharpness or harshness intended to hurt feelings.” (trans) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to have genital surgery performed upon an individual (as in, ‘Yeah, she said she was cut in 1999.’)” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to have genital surgery performed upon an individual (as in, ‘Yeah, she said she was cut in 1999.’)” cybersissy n. (pl. cybersissies) Dd daddy n. (pl. daddies)


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A Lesbian of the masculine type, especially one who lives or consorts with a Lesbian of the feminine type, a mama, q.v. Compare papa.” dairy queen n. (pl. dairy queens, abbr. DQ) [en]


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 65: “man who likes sucking nipples during sexual play” Danish pastry n. (rare) A trans person who has undergone gender-affirming surgery, usually referring to gender-affirming genitoplasty. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “A person of one sex who has undergone surgical procedures to become the opposite sex… (AKA… Danish pastry [from when these procedures were performed mainly in Denmark])” datemate n. (pl. datemates) (rare) 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “alternative, gender neutral term for someone you are dating” daughter n. (pl. daughters)


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, pp. 6-7: “Male whom one has brought out. Used also humorously in conversation or correspondence in mock depreciation of oneself or the other party as a mother.” deadname n. (pl. deadnames) [en] Alternate forms: dead name (pl. dead names); dead-name (pl. dead-names) Translation(s): 棄名 [zh] (trans) 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “The name a transgender person was given at birth that they no longer use…” deadname v. (trans) deadnaming n. (trans) 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Deadnaming is the act of referring to a transgender person's birth name instead of their chosen name…” deadvoice n. (pl. deadvoices) (trans) The voice of a trans person before any of various aspects of transition including, but not limited to, the individual or combined effects of hormone therapies, vocal surgeries, vocal therapies, and/or vocal training. 2021 Wiktionary: “A previous voice of a person (especially a transgender person) who has since changed their voice.” decepticon n. (pl. decepticons) Alternate forms: Decepticon (pl. Decepticons) (pejorative) A trans person, usually a trans woman, when viewed as being deceptive in presenting a gender expression in line with their gender identity. deep stealth (trans) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “Someone whose TS status is not known by anyone they interact with on a daily basis, esp. a sex partner.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “Someone whose TS status is not known by anyone they interact with on a daily basis, esp. a sex partner.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “Someone whose trans status is not known by anyone they interact with on a daily basis, esp. a sex partner.” demibloke n. (pl. demiblokes) Alternate forms: demi-bloke (pl. demi-blokes) (demigender) A partial gender identity which is partially male or masculine in some way, which falls under the demigender umbrella. (demigender) A person who is a demibloke. 2010 Asexual Visibility and Education Network: “I’ve felt for some time that I may have too much of the masculine element in me to call myself agender and feel good about it — so maybe it would be a nice idea to call myself a demiguy. Demidude. Demibloke.” demidude n. (pl. demidudes) Alternate forms: demi-dude (pl. demi-dudes) (demigender) A partial gender identity which is partially male or masculine in some way, which falls under the demigender umbrella. (demigender) A person who is a demidude. 2010 Asexual Visibility and Education Network: “I’ve felt for some time that I may have too much of the masculine element in me to call myself agender and feel good about it — so maybe it would be a nice idea to call myself a demiguy. Demidude. Demibloke.” Denmark, go (to) v. Etymology: From Denmark, where trans woman Christine Jorgensen (30 May 1926 – 3 May 1989) underwent an orchiectomy procedure on 24 September 1951 and a penectomy procedure in November 1952. (dated, rare, gay male) To undergo gender-affirming surgery, usually in reference to gender-affirming vaginoplasty. 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 19: “Going to Denmark (n.): Getting one’s sex changed.” 1972 Queens’ Vernacular, p. 201: go Copenhagen… to have one’s original sex changed by means of the surgical knife. Syn: go to Denmark. 1986/1987 Maledicta IX, p. 53: Copenhagen, go; go to Denmark v phr [R] Have sex change operation; homosexual slang.” 1988 Song of the Silent Snow, p. 34: “He asks me what she wants – OOOOO whattza matta? ya crazy? HAHAHA – He’d betta go ta Denmark.” Dermablend girl n. (pl. Dermablend girls) [en] (derogatory) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term made by some gender-different people to describe others who may be perceived as crossdressers; as having a deficiency in in fashion or makeup skills; or simply poorly-transparent, transgendered or transsexual people. (alternate term: Dermablend girl)” designer queen n. (pl. designer queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 65: “someone who makes women’s clothes”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 65: “someone who wears designer outfits only” dethrone v. (third-person singular simple present dethrones, present participle dethroning, simple past and past participle dethroned)


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “Ordered by the attendant to leave a public toilet; siad of male homosexuals (‘queens’ therefore ‘dethroned’) who frequent the toilet rooms of parks, subways, barrooms, theatres, and other public buildings.” DG n. (pl. DGs) (rare) Drag queen. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “see drag queen.” diamantes queen n. (pl. diamantes queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 65: “someone who wears excessive jewellery” diesel dyke n. (pl. diesel dykes) [en] Alternate forms: diesel dike (pl. diesel dikes), dieseldike (pl. dieseldikes) (lesbian) 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 92: “The more masculine partner in a lesbian relationship; the bull dyke; from the diesel engine which moves, as Freud himself noted, in a ‘phallic’ manner.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a very masculine lesbian…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “butch, masculine lesbian” (rare) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a woman of any orientation who works as a mechanic…” diesel queen n. (pl. diesel queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “gay man who dresses like a dyke” dildo queen n. (pl. dildo queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “man who likes his anus to be penetrated with a dildo” dinge queen n. (pl. dinge queens) [en] (derogatory, gay male) 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “A negro homosexual.” (derogatory, gay male) 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 95: “A homosexual whose particular fetish is black men; from dinge, obsolete slang for blacks.” dinky dyke n. (pl. dinky dykes) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 26: “baby butch… Syn: … dinky dyke (kwn SF, ’71-’72)…” disco queen n. (pl. disco queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “gay man who frequents discos and clubs” dish queen n. (pl. dish queens) [en] diva queen n. (pl. diva queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “gay man who knows all about female opera singers, to the point of obsession” (drag) 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know of”): “Bio queens, faux queens, diva queens, hyper queens and female queens are all different names for the same style of drag. Mostly known as bio queens, they are cis gender women who apply feminine drag into their art. Basically biological women who exaggerate their female features using drag queen tips and tricks. Bio queens are often associated with women of Instagram that use heavy and colourful eye makeup to exaggerate their natural features to the point where they look like they could be drag queens. Although the makeup and costumes are a large part of this style in drag, many bio queens are also performers like traditional drag queens.” doll n. (pl. dolls) [en] Etymology: Originally derived as a diminutive of the feminine given name Dorothy, thought to have emerged in the mid-16th century. The formation of the pet-form modifies Dor- from Dorothy into Dol-. Compare Hal as a shortening of Harry, Sall as a shortening of Sarah, and Mall or Moll being a shortening of Mary. A pet form of the name Dorothy. One’s mistress. 1560 Nice Wanton: “He hath whores two or three, But ich tell your minion doll, by gogs body: It skylleth not she doth holde you as muche.” A sex worker or prostitute. 1648 Hesperides: “Doll she so soone began the wanton trade; / She ne’r remembers that she was a maide.” 1898 The Orange Girl: “It is a place for sailors and their Dolls.” (derogatory) A woman. 1661 The City-Night-Cap: “Farewell My chaste delitious [sic] Doll.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 98: “An underworld term for any woman, popularized by… [the] musical… Guys and Dolls…” An image of a human being, often a baby, child, or woman, used as a plaything. 1699 A New Dictionary of the Terms Ancient and Modern of the Canting Crew: “Doll… also a Child’s Baby…” (derogatory) A woman or girl, especially one considered to be beautiful or attractive; often, in more recent usage, one said to be conventionally pretty, but without life or expression, akin to a doll as a plaything. 1778 Evelina; or, A Young Person’s Entrance into the World: “As to the women, why they are mere dolls.” 1861 The Grey Woman: “Some fine day we may have the country raised, and the gendarmes down upon us from Strasburg, and all owing to your pretty doll, with her cunning ways of coming over you.” (United States) Anything or anyone who is considered excellent or first-rate. 1843 The Clockmaker: The Sayings and Doings of Sam Slick of Slickville: “I raised a four year old colt once… a real daisy, a perfect doll.” (United States, derogatory) A person, usually a woman, who is considered to be conceited. 1936 All That Swagger: “The fellow from Government House is one of those flash dolls out from England who must have olives to eat.” (gay male) An attractive man or boy. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “As a vocative, synonymous with darling. Also used in [the] usual sense for a beautiful kid.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “An attractive man.” 1965 The Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms: “A desirable, attractive male; the implication of youth is here but not at all necessary.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “desirable man” A general term of affection. 1952 Flee the Angry Strangers: “It ain’t over yet, doll.” (United States) A person, regardless of gender. 1961 Gidget Goes Hawaiian: “As we drove up to the main building, out stepped this manager doll.” 1963 The Affairs of Gidget: “And I thought my old man was a libertine. Compared to this doll, Dr. Gottfield Hofer was hard-shell Ammanite [sic].” (gay male) A term of endearment among gay men. 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A term of affection between homosexuals.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 66: “term of endearment” (drag, often pluralized and prepended with ‘the’) 2010 Page Six (“RuPaul: The contestants are ruthless this season!”): “Not only do the dolls’ drive and daring put every other reality show contestant to shame…” (trans, often pluralized and prepended with ‘the’) 2020 Twitter: “let’s be clear, ‘The Dolls’ and ‘The Girls’ is trans lingo.” 2021 Twitter: “doll is a term exclusive to trans women when will yall learn” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A doll is a beautiful trans woman. Like off the walls gorgeous. She’s stunning. She’s cunty. She is the grand dame. She looks like a literal doll. She may engage in sex work. Similar to a bimbo but smarter and faster.” 2022 Reddit (r/MtF): “…dolls meaning trans women has been a thing for a while and comes from ballroom culture. Specifically, trans women are ‘the dolls’” 2022 Transgender Map (“Transgender slang, slurs, and controversial words”): “a beautiful trans woman.” doll house n. (pl. doll houses) [en] A club, bar, or meeting place for drag queens and/or cross-dressers. doll up v. dolled up adj. Alternate forms: dolled-up dolls with balls n. [en] don’t be getting up in my world v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “Stay outta my business, my personal affairs, and my problems.” DQ n. Drag queen. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Drag Queen” Dairy queen. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “dairy queen, i.e. a drag queen who’s had breast implants.” Drama queen. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 65: “drama queen, someone who creates a fuss at the slightest opportunity” drab n. Alternate forms: DRAB, D.R.A.B. (drag) Clothing worn when one is not in drag; the ‘opposite’ of drag. Oftentimes considered to be clothing which is culturally aligned with expectations of clothing for one’s assigned gender at birth (AGAB), but not always. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “the everyday clothing worn by your birth sex – the opposite of drag.” (trans) A backronym meaning DRessed As a Boy, usually paired against drag being interpreted as a backronym for DRessed As a Girl. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Clothes considered appropriate to the individuals physical sex (not necessarily male).” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Opposite of ‘Drag’. Dressed As A Boy.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘dressed as a boy’…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “an acronym of Dressed as a boy.” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “acronym - ‘dressed as boy.’” drab, in prep. phr.


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “‘In Drab’ - Wearing clothes considered appropriate to the individuals physical sex (applies only when considered with the possibility of the individual being ‘in drag’)” drabbe, en adj. drag adj. Descendants: drag act, drag artist, drag daughter, drag king, drag queen, drag show


1887 The Referee: “I don’t like to see low coms, in drag parts.” 1909 Passing English of the Victorian Era: “Mrs Sheppard is now played by a man – Mr Charles Steyne, to wit. I don’t like to see low coms. in drag parts, but must confess that Mr Steyne is really droll, without being at all vulgar.”


1964 Last Exit to Brooklyn: “Ripping and tearing Georgettes drag clothes, her lovely dresses and silks.”


2019 Transgender: A Reference Handbook, p. 342: “Theatrically exaggerated parody performance of one of the binary genders.” drag n. (pl. drags) [en] Alternate forms: D.R.A.G., DRAG Etymology: Unknown but likely from the English drag (“to pull along a surface”). Originally attested in theatrical use, apparently to emphasize how long dresses would drag across the floor. Several alternative etymologies have been suggested. For instance, claiming descent from the Yiddish טראָגן‎ (trogn, “to wear”) or as a corruption of the term grand rag (used historically to refer to masquerade balls. Note that, in folk etymologies, it is often claimed that drag came to be because women were not allowed to be performers during certain periods in British history, specifically during the Shakespearean era. This is an oft repeated falsehood, but is a falsehood nonetheless. Descendants: activessle drag, baby drag, trans drag (originally United Kingdom, drag) Clothing and accessories which are socioculturally expected to be worn by women, but are used primarily by male-to-female crossdressers, many of whom are gay men, often in the context of theatrical performance. 1870 Reynold’s Weekly Newspaper: “We shall come in drag.” 1870 London Figaro: “Not quite so low… as going about in ‘drag’.” 1870 The Times (“The Men in Women’s Clothes”), p. 13: “I know what ‘in drag’ means; it is the slang for going about in women’s clothes.” 1874 The Slang Dictionary: Etymological, Historical, and Anecdotal, p. 149: “...feminine attire worn by men. A recent notorious impersonation case led to the publication of the word in that sense.” 1914 Vocabulary of Criminal Slang: “… Amongst female impersonators on the stage and men of dual sex instincts ‘drag’ denotes female attire donned by a male. Example: ‘All the fagots (sissies) will be dressed in drag at the ball tonight’.” 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “Elaborate feminine clothing, used for transvestist dressing by male homosexuals.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “GOING IN DRAG: Wearing a costume, usually complete with female wig, makeup, and women’s clothes.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Women’s clothes worn by a male, usually for the sake of camp, distinguished from transvestism or professional female impersonation” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 102: “To say ‘Charles is going out in drag tonight’ means that he is going out dressed in women’s clothing…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 62: “women’s clothing” (dated, gay male) A costume ball in which men, often gay men, dress as women and, more rarely, women, often lesbians, dress as men. 1887 Evening Star: “A squad of officers… raided a ‘drag’ given by a party of whites and blacks… Two of the male dancers were naked.” 1896 Evening Star: “William Dorsey Swann… at whose house… a ‘drag’ was raided about two weeks ago…” 1914 Los Angeles Times: “He said that the members sometimes spent hundreds of dollars on silk gowns, hosiery, etc., in which they dressed at sessions of this club. He said that at these ‘drags’ the ‘queer’ people have a good time, but no one could get in without being introduced by a member in good standing.” 1927 Manual of Psychiatry, 6th ed., p. 203: “A heterosexual person cannot really break into their [homosexuals’] inner circles. They have parties or ‘drags’ to which only homosexuals are admitted, and at these some generally appear in female dress.” 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “costume ball, homosexual men in women’s clothes; same sex dancing together.” 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “Also a party, dance, or costume ball where homosexual men go dressed as women, and, to a lesser extent, homosexual women dressed as men. 1942 The Company She Keeps, p. 104: “This freedom of speech of hers was a kind of masquerade of sexuality, like the rubber breasts homosexuals put on for drags…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “party” (drag) Clothing and accessories which are socioculturally expected to be worn by women. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 8: “Female attire.” (drag) Clothing and accessories which are socioculturally expected to be worn by individuals of a different gender than one’s own; loosely used as a synonym for cross-dressing. 1965 The Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 12: “Clothes or costumes of one sex worn by members of the other.” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “Dressed in a way usually identified with the opposite sex.” (trans) Backronym for DRessed As a Girl, referring to an individual wearing attire or apparel considered to be socioculturally feminine. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Clothes considered appropriate to the other sex (originally referring only to M2F but incorporated into all cross gender dressing).” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘dressed as a girl’…” (drag, ballroom) A set of attire or apparel, or otherwise a performative persona, which projects a particular image, often reflective of a given occupation or subculture; a recognizable look. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Can be applied to any recognizable clothes ‘look’.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “A coherent set of apparel that projects a particular image, eg ‘business drag’, ‘cowboy drag’, ‘femme drag’, ‘drag queen’…” (drag) A process by which an individual dresses in highly gendered clothing and adopts a highly gendered persona, usually for the purpose of performance. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “The act of dressing in gendered clothing and adopting gendered behviors [sic] as part of a performance, most often clothing and behaviors typically not associated with your gender identity.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 613: “The act of dressing in gendered clothing and adopting gendered behaviors as part of a performance. Some perform in drag for entertainment, and others as a political commentary, or for personal enjoyment.” 2017 IOM LGBTI (“Terminology Guidance - Glossary of Terms”): “Refers to men dressing as women, or vice versa, for the purposes of performance or entertainment.” 2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “Exaggerated, theatrical and/or performative gender presentation. Drag performers may use makeup, props, clothing and mannerisms to present a caricature of gender…” drag v. (third-person singular simple present drags, present participle dragging, simple past and past participle dragged) [en] (drag) To dress in feminine clothing. 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “To dress as a woman.” (drag) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “to dress in clothing of the opposite sex” drag, in prep. phr. [en]


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “GOING IN DRAG: Wearing a costume, usually complete with female wig, makeup, and women’s clothes.”


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “‘In Drag’ - Wearing clothes considered appropriate to the other sex…”


1999 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Social Services (“Appendix A: A Glossary of Transgendered Definitions”): “There are some gay men or lesbians who ‘cross-dress’ in public; this is referred to as ‘being in drag’…” drag act n. (pl. drag acts) [en] (drag) A drag performance. (drag) A drag performer drag artist n. (pl. drag artists) [en] dragazine n. (pl. dragazines) [en] Etymology: A partial and overlapping blend of ‘drag’ and ‘magazine’. A magazine for, by, or about drag performers, usually drag queens. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a magazine for or about drag queens.” 2017 Urban Dictionary: “A magazine, written for, and usually by drag queens…” drag baby n. (pl. drag babies) [en] drag ball n. (pl. drag balls) [en]


2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “They are known for slaying ‘Drag Balls,’ with fierce yet sometimes outrageous fashion and unique make-up techniques.” drag bingo n. drag boy n. (pl. drag boys) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(Jewish American) a butch lesbian, a drag king…” drag brother n. (pl. drag brothers) [en] drag brunch n. (pl. drag brunches) [en]


2015 Urban Dictionary: “an event in which talented and gorgeous queens perform for an audience while they dine on a delicious brunch and sip signature drinks. It is customary for the audience to tip the performers.” drag butch n. (pl. drag butches) [en] Alternate forms: drag-butch (pl. drag-butches) A woman considered to be butch or masculine who is said to be able to pass as male. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a butch female who passes as a heterosexual male…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a butch female who can pass for a heterosexual male.” drag daughter n. (pl. drag daughters) [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 170: “A showgirl who’s just starting out and needs some mothering.” drag diva n. (pl. drag divas) [en] A drag queen or male-to-female cross-dresser who is considered to be very attractive. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a breath-takingly attractive drag queen or transvestite.” drag dyke n. (pl. drag dykes) [en] drag face n. (pl. drag faces) [en] drag family n. (pl. drag families) [en] drag father n. (pl. drag fathers) [en] drag girl n. (pl. drag girls) [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A female impersonator.” draggy adj. drag hag n. (pl. drag hags) [en]


2006 Urban Dictionary: “A woman who loves the company of drag queens…”


2008 Urban Dictionary: “A drag queen just starting out in her ‘family’ helping her ‘mother’ and other ‘family’ members get ready, get their stuff in the car, out of the car, in the bar, helping out backstage, pick up the tips from the stage etc. in trade for being taught how to dress, act, and do makeup…”


2008 Urban Dictionary: “…A friend of a drag queen that does the same thing, but only wants friendship in return…” drag king n. (pl. drag kings) [en] Alternate forms: drag-king (pl. drag-kings) (rare, dated, drag) A man, usually cisgender and usually gay, who appears in male or masculine attire in their day-to-day appearance. (rare, dated, drag) A man, usually cisgender and usually gay, who appears in a male or masculine attire day-to-day and who takes a supportive role, often behind-the-scenes, in a drag enterprise. 2003 Journal of Homosexuality (“Lesbian Drag Kings and the Feminine Embodiment of the Masculine”), p. 81: “…gay drag kings play a supportive, often behind-the-scenes role. Serving as dressers…, seamstresses…, stage-hands…, and escorts… when tipping other performers…” A woman, usually cisgender and usually a lesbian, who appears in male, masculine, or butch attire occasionally, often in contrast to their day-to-day appearance. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “lesbian variant of ‘drag queen’; a woman who appears as a man on a temporary basis, she may or may not have any masculine expression in her usual life, sometimes appears in an exaggerated way or as part of a public performance…” A woman, usually cisgender and usually a lesbian, who dresses in clothing stereotypically associated with men. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “a woman who dresses in men’s clothing” A woman, usually cisgender and usually a lesbian, who performs a male, masculine, or butch drag persona. 2003 Journal of Homosexuality (“Lesbian Drag Kings and the Feminine Embodiment of the Masculine”), pp. 82-3: “Similar to gay drag kings, who often appear as some gay macho clone…, lesbian drag kings have adopted very masculine-appearing styles of dress and personal mannerisms… Most songs selected for their lip-syncing routines are from male (often country) and lesbian singers (such as Melissa Etheridge) and are performed with obvious masculine gesture…” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “the female version of the drag queen” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a girl who dresses like a man for the entertainment of others, not to be confused with a transexual.” 2004 Urban Dictionary: “a woman who, generally for public entertainment, dons men’s clothes and adopts a stereotypically masculine demeanor while on stage. as with drag queens, a drag king’s performance can range from a silly, overdone parody to a more natural, subtle depiction of masculinity.” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “A homosexual woman who dresses like a man and takes on a male persona for entertainment…” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “A female who dresses in male clothing for the purposes of performance. Drag kings are not transgendered.” 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “The drag king is a woman who dresses as a man. She may also fall into a number of the other categories listed above. Many drag kings [sic] also participate in pageants and perform alongside drag queens – although some prefer to keep all-woman company. Drag kings often explore ideas of dominance, power and aggression – by providing some masculine realness.” 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “One of the fastest-growing areas of drag shifts the dynamics into reverse, with female performers morphing into mustachioed, muscle shirt-wearing drag kings. While women performing in male attire goes back to at least the 1800s in the U.S., drag kings have strong-armed their way into mainstream LGBT culture over the past decade, and Atlanta’s drag king scene is one of the most vibrant in the county.” A drag performer, often a lesbian woman, who embodies a male, masculine, or butch drag persona. Such a persona is often, but not always, performative, exaggerated, hyper-masculine, and camp. 2011 Urban Dictionary: “A drag king is usually a woman who dresses, and usually acts, like a caricature man often for the purpose of entertaining or performing.” 2014 The Austin Chronicle (“‘Trans 101’ Glossary”): “(Usually female) performer who dresses in stereotypical and often exaggerated garb as men for entertainment purposes.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 613: “Someone who dresses in masculine clothing as performance. Drag kings are typically assigned female at birth, but people of all assigned sexes and gender identities can perform as drag kings.” drag king pageant n. (pl. drag king pageants) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a competition, usually hosted by lesbians, to determine which of various entrants is the most convincing masculine impersonator, transsexuals or other people who have had bodily modifications are usually barred from competing…” drag mother n. (pl. drag mothers) [en] drag pageant n. (pl. drag pageants) [en] A beauty pageant for drag performers, typically drag queens. 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “A Drag Pageant is basically a beauty pageant for Drag Queens. It involves judged categories that include gown, talent, on stage question and depending on the Pageant System, more.” drag parent n. (pl. drag parents) [en] drag performer n. (pl. drag performers) [en] drag prince n. (pl. drag princes) [en] drag princess n. (pl. drag princesses) [en] (drag) (rare, drag) 2017 Urban Dictionary: “The children’s version of a drag queen. Affectionately given as they develop their drag towards one day becoming a queen.” drag queen n. (pl. drag queens, abbr. DQ or DG) [en] Alternate forms: drag-queen (pl. drag-queens), dragqueen (pl. dragqueens) Etymology: Formed within English from the terms drag and queen. Translation(s): fopdosser [af] (dated) A female impersonator. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A professional female impersonator…” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 8: “One who makes a living doing female impersonations in a drag-show, or otherwise appears frequently in drag.” 1964 The Lavender Lexicon: Drag Queen: – … This term is also used to describe female impersonators.” 1965 The Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 12: “A professional female impersonator or one who frequently has occasion to ‘go in drag.’” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Female impersonator” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “A M2F crossdresser who employs dramatic clothes, makeup and mannerisms often for other peoples [sic] entertainment, appreciation or for its shock value.” 2004 Queer Street (“Vilja de Tanquay Exults”), p. 310: “I must be a female impersonator / A ’Dilly drag queen on the game.” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “A man who dresses as or impersonates a woman for entertainment and show purposes…” (obsolete) A sex worker or prostitute, usually a gay man, who often appears in drag or has sexual relations in drag. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “the term being transferentially used of a male homosexual who frequently or almost invariably wears women’s clothing, often for purposes of homosexual contact, posing as a female prostitute or as a loose girl, and fellating men picked up under this disguise, with the excuse that coitus is not practicable because of menstruation.” 1978 Go-Boy!, p. 18: “Lovers Lane, the sleeping quarters of the drag queens who were only too willing to spread their wares around.” An individual, usually a man and often a gay man, who frequently appears in drag, i.e. in stereotypically feminine clothing and/or accessories. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 8: “One who … otherwise appears frequently in drag.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A homosexual accustomed to wearing female attire.” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “the homosexual who wears feminine clothing.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Male homosexual who is fond of wearing women’s clothes…” 1998 The Oxford Dictionary of Slang, p. 84: “Applied to a male homosexual transvestite…” 1998 uk.gay-lesbian-bi (“Subject: Re: Gay Slang”): “A man who dresses like a woman.” 2000 Leaving Bondi: “Unless I want to chase drag queens round Long Bay [Jail].” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a gay man who dresses as a woman, and often flamboyantly exaggerates female mannerisms.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “a man who dresses in women’s clothing” 2005 Tonos Digital: Revista Electrónica de Estudios Filológicos (“Glosario de términos gays compuestos por la palabra ‘queen’ y su traducción”): “a gay man who has way too much fashion sense for the feminine gender. A man who dresses up as a woman. Usually this person performs in clubs lip-synching or singing.” A drag performer, often a gay man, who embodies a female, feminine, or femme drag persona. Such a persona is often, but not always, performative, exaggerated, hyper-feminine, and camp. 1965 How to Talk Dirty, p. 33: “The drag queen said he paid $12… for the sequins alone.” 1984 Flame: a Life on the Game, p. 53: “I wondered… whether his experiences with a thirteen year old drag queen had been too much for him.” 1985 You Wouldn’t Be Dead for Quids, p. 197: “A bloke. A rotten fuckin’ drag-queen.” 1993 Boots of Leather, p. 42: “[The police] just [took] the drag queens, the ones that were putting on the show.” 1993 Smiling in Slow Motion, p. 295: “He is unsure about the make-up, says it makes him look like a drag queen.” 1996 Drag Queen, p. 37: “Donald was donning a brand new pair of pantyhose. He hadn’t shaved in a while, and he could feel his stubble snag on the nylon. It’s not pretty when a drag queen gets careless, he thought, but it was too late to do anything about it tonight.” 1996 Sex and Thugs and Rock ’n’ Roll, p. 2: “That June of ’63 King’s Cross was… brothels, hookers, pimps, hoons, charity molls, spruikers, toffs, chats, mooks, lairs, mugs, phizgigs, drag queens, straights, shines, bent cops… tea leaves, neon, glitz.” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A man who dresses like a woman.” 2000 Guardian: “20 drag queens, 70 dancers and incandescent pyrotechnics.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “: a person, usually a gay male, who dresses up in an exaggeratedly feminine manner as a form of recreation; some women are now participating as drag queens…” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a man who dresses as a flambouyant woman in order to entertain others…” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “A homosexual man who dresses as a flamboyant woman for entertainment or personal enjoyment.” 2008 Urban Dictionary: “A man who dresses up as a woman for entertainment purposes. This man is not always homosexual or bisexual. Often they are just regular men who like living an alternate life in the evenings performing.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “a person, usually a man, who dresses, and usually acts, like a woman often for the purpose of entertaining or performing. Drag queens often identify as homosexual (androphilic) males, as opposed to crossdressers, who are most likely gynephilic males (see crossdresser, androphilic and gynephilic).” 2010 Sydney: “Hosted by wonderfully glam drag queens such as Tora Hymen.” 2011 Viva La Madness, p. 75: “Bridget looks like a female bodybuilder – hard boat, drag queen calves.” 2013 Urban Dictionary: “A man who dresses in female clothing for entertainment purposes, such as Ru Paul and Danny La Rue… Drag queens wear exaggerated costumes and makeup, and often present a caricature of the most flamboyant kind of actress or singer. Drag queens are fairly likely to be gay, unlike crossdressers who are usually hetero…” 2014 The Austin Chronicle (“‘Trans 101’ Glossary”): “(Usually male) performer who dresses in stereotypical and often exaggerated garb as women for entertainment purposes…” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 613: “Someone who dresses in feminine clothing as performance. Drag queens are typically assigned male at birth, but people of all assigned sexes and gender identities can perform as drag queens.” 2015 Baltimore Sun: “Give me Drag Queens, give me strippers, give me sass and magic!” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “A drag queen is someone of mainly any gender dresses up in extremely feminine clothing, usually for the purpose of entertainment…” 2021 Widespread Panic, p. 27: “[D]rag queens shopping for extra-long nylons.” (rare, derogatory) A gay man or lesbian who engages in any form of gender crossing. 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “A member of the gay community who expresses transgender characteristics (i.e. crossdresser)…” (rare, derogatory) A man who is considered to be a transvestic fetishist. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 102: “A ‘drag queen’ is a male who is sexually aroused by wearing women’s clothing…” (figurative, derogatory, uncommon) A general insult, often levied at trans women. 1993 How to Shoot Friends, p. 83: “To think that these drag queens have been standing in the shadows of fantasy for so long they can no longer see the daylight of reality.” 1999 Better Than Chocolate: “I’m not… a fucking drag queen… I’m in another bracket… What you see before you… is not some midnight racket… Nothing here is padded… I’ve paid a mighty fortune… A few things have been added… and one or two subtractions…” 2014 The Austin Chronicle (“‘Trans 101’ Glossary”): “Sometimes used as a derogatory term to diminish transgender women.” drag queen apology n. (drag) An empty or passive apology. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “‘I’m sorry’ in VERY passive voice” drag queen bingo n. (drag) Drag bingo which includes mostly or only drag queens in some capacity, usually as hosts of the event. 2009 Urban Dictionary: “Basically, bingo hosted by gay and cross-dressing men.” drag queen name n. (pl. drag queen names) [en] (drag) A drag name chosen for or provided by a drag queen. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a person’s drag queen name is said to be the name of their first pet coupled with the name of the first street they lived in (or their mother’s maiden name).” drag queen style n. (pl. drag queen styles) [en] drag queen wisdom n. Wisdom shared amongst drag queens, usually involving one of the drag queens themselves and a sentimentality of no regrets. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Wisdom commonly shared between drag queens, usually involving being oneself and not apologizing for it. Not to be confused with famous drag queen Wanda Wisdom.” drag queendom n. Alternate forms: drag-queendom


drag queenery n.


drag-queenish adj. drag queenism n. (rare, drag) The practice of being a drag queen. (rare, drag) A word or phrase associated with drag queens. drag queer n. (pl. drag queers) [en] (drag) A queer person who performs in, or otherwise goes in, drag. (obsolete, derogatory) A man who wears much of what would be considered drag, but does not ever participate in drag performance or engage with the drag scene, preferring the outskirts of the drag community for any of various reasons. 2005 Urban Dictionary: “Usually male, one who will wear some articals [sic] of female clothing and tons of make up, but would never have the balls to go full on drag. Many have spawned after the electroclash scene. Most tend to be either scenesters or goths. They also take themselves way too seriously.” drag quing n. (pl. drag quings) [en] Alternate forms: drag-quing (pl. drag-quings) Etymology: Formed from drag queen and drag king, with queen (qu-) and king (-ing) fused together to form quing. Usage notes: Although likely originally well-intentioned, use of this term to refer to nonbinary drag artists or performers is typically discouraged unless specifically identified as. (rare, drag, nonbinary) A nonbinary drag artist or performer. (rare, drag) A gender-nonconforming drag artist or performer. 2022 Reddit (r/Drag): “In my area there are a lot of gender nonconforming drag performers. The term that I've heard most often is ‘Drag Thing’, but ‘Drag Quing’ is a cool name incorporating both Queen and King!” drag show n. (pl. drag shows) Alternate forms: drag-show (pl. drag-shows)


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 8: “One who makes a living doing female impersonations in a drag-show, or otherwise appears frequently in drag.”


2014 Urban Dictionary: “A social event, typically at bars, where some males and females dress as the opposite gender. May also include transgender occupants as well.” drag sibling n. (pl. drag siblings) [en] drag sister n. (pl. drag sisters) [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A female impersonator who’s also my friend.”


2017 Urban Dictionary: “When you are a drag queen with fellow drag friends you would (if they are very close to you) define them as family, sometimes known as your drag sister/sisters” drag slave n. (pl. drag slaves) [en] Usage notes: Use of the term ‘slave’ in a drag or sexual context can be seen as demeaning towards enslaved persons and descendants of enslaved persons. An individual who assists a drag performer, usually a drag queen, in preparing for a drag show or other performance. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “someone who assists a drag queen in getting ready for a show.” drag son n. (pl. drag sons) [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A young gay guy, new to the gay lifestyle, who needs advice and protection.” dragster n. (pl. dragsters) [en] drag storytime n. drag style n. Alternate forms: style of drag (pl. styles of drag) A subtype or form of drag. drag thing n. (pl. drag things) [en] (rare, drag) A gender-nonconforming drag artist or performer. 2022 Reddit (r/Drag): “In my area there are a lot of gender nonconforming drag performers. The term that I've heard most often is ‘Drag Thing’, but ‘Drag Quing’ is a cool name incorporating both Queen and King!” drag time n. (drag) Said to be one or two hours later than the time provided. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “about one to two hours later than the actual time given. Drag queen slang, quoted in Darrin Hagen’s The Edmonton Queen (1997). Sometimes referred to as gay time.” dragulation n. dragulator n. dragzilla n. (pl. dragzillas) [en] (drag) (trans, derogatory) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who doesn’t pass.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who isn’t accepted as female.” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term for someone who isn’t accepted as female.” drama queen n. (pl. drama queens) [en] drawer test n. (pl. drawer tests) [en] (rare, lesbian separatist, radical feminist) A supposed test of one’s femaleness which relied upon whether an individual could remove their penis (e.g. a packer, vibrator, strap-on) and place it in a drawer in order to consider that individual female. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a test of femininity used by some feminists and lesbian separatists, to wit, any person who is able to remove her dick and put it in a drawer is welcome, also known as the ‘slam it in the drawer test’ on account of those male-to-female transsexual lesbians who insisted they were perfectly capable of putting their (still attached biological) penis into a drawer…” dress v. (third-person singular simple present dresses, present participle dressing, simple past dressed, past participle dressed or drest) [en] Usage notes: The past participle drest is considered obsolete. (intransitive) To put on clothes. (crossdressing) Ellipsis of crossdress. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “En Femme. Are you dressed tonight?” dresser n. (pl. dressers) [en] One who dresses in a particular way. (crossdressing) A crossdresser. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Crossdresser, Transvestite.” dude out v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to be read: ‘I got duded out on the street by some kids.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be read: ‘I got duded out on the street by some kids.’” 2005 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be read: ‘I got duded out on the street by some kids.’” dyke adj. Alternate forms: dike dyke n. (pl. dykes) [en] Alternate forms: dike (pl. dikes) Etymology: Unknown, but use has been attested since the 1930s. Multiple theories have been presented, including (1) origination from the phrase dyked down, meaning to be dressed up, supposedly relating to how some lesbians dressed in ways considered to be masculine, compare dike meaning ‘well-dressed man’; (2) originating from the gradual corruption of hermaphrodite → morphodite → dike → dyke (however, this theory presupposes that bulldyke originated from dyke, but bulldyke appears to predate dyke); (3) originating as an abbreviated form of bulldyke; and (4) originating from dyke as in “ditch” as a few sources from the late 19th and early 20th century record dyke as slang for ‘vulva’ and hedge of the dyke as slang for ‘pubic hair’, but this connection is broadly construed as unlikely. Of these, it is generally agreed that etymology 3 is the most likely. See bulldyke for more information. (derogatory, reclaimed) A lesbian. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “Lesbian girl.” 1935 The Underworld Speaks: “Dike, a lesbian…” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 7: “Lesbian, female homosexual.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Female homosexual.” 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Dyke: Reclaimed derogatory slang. Refers to Lesbians…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Reclaimed derogatory slang. Refers to lesbians…” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A lesbian…” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a lesbian…” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “A word used to refer to Lesbians. Originally meant to be a slur, it has been "reclaimed" by many Lesbians who might use it to identify themselves of other Lesbians. It is considered rude to use the word "Dyke" unless you self-identify as one.” 2006 Urban Dictionary: “Although originally a derogatory term for lesbians, it is now often used with pride by lesbians themselves, especially the younger and hipper lesbian crowd. Some lesbians (especially older or super-sensitive ones) still object to the term, but it is becoming increasingly common and mainsteam [sic] (at least within the gay community)…” 2008 Urban Dictionary: “a word describing a lesbian.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 613: “A slang term used to describe lesbians. Often used in a derogatory manner, especially for masculine women, but some queer women and lesbians have reclaimed the word.” (derogatory, reclaimed) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A female homosexual, especially if aggressive and masculine. Also: dyke… A Lesbian of the masculine type.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a lesbian, esp a masculine lesbian…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “butch lesbian” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a REAL butch lesbian; one with a crew cut hairstyle who wears taper legged Lees, Wolverine workboots and flannel who shouts out things like ‘hey brenda! gimme a lift my truck’s broke again!’ in a husky HUSKYASS voice.” 2004 Urban Dictionary: “… Derogitory [sic] term used to refer to a lesbian; commonly towards a lesbian with more masculine physical characteristics/mannerisms; Offensive to many people…” 2006 Urban Dictionary: “a butch/masculine lesbian” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “A masculine lesbian.” (derogatory, reclaimed) A lesbian, a bisexual woman, a pansexual woman, or a queer woman. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Dyke: Reclaimed derogatory slang. Refers… to Lesbians and Bisexual women.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Reclaimed derogatory slang. Refers to… lesbians and bisexual females.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “A word that has been reclaimed by some lesbians and queer woman as a term of empowerment…” (rare) A woman who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a woman wearing masculine clothing, especially uniforms…” (rare) A woman who is considered to be strong, mentally or physically. 2010 Urban Dictionary: “A strong, assertive woman -- regardless of sexual orientation.” (rare) A person who is assigned female at birth, who is sexually or romantically attracted to women. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A ‘female-bodied’ person or a woman who identifies with other women, and is attracted to women…” dykeball n. [en] (derogatory) Softball. 2014 Cultural Politics of Sport (“Oh you play softball? You must be a lesbian.”): “I have also heard people refer to softball as ‘dykeball’ or ‘dykes on spikes’ which at times can be frustrating because often times people who make these claims have little knowledge about the sport or those who play.” dyke bite n. (pl. dyke bites) [en] Alternate forms: dike bite, dyke-bite, dike-bite (rare, lesbian) A heterosexual woman who enjoys the company of lesbians or who has many lesbian friends. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “hetero female who likes to hang out with lesbians” (rare, lesbian) A heterosexual woman who uses the idea that she could supposedly become a lesbian as a feminist argument or as a way to insult heterosexual men. dyke daddy n. (pl. dyke daddies) [en] Alternate forms: dike daddy (pl. dike daddies) (rare, lesbian) A heterosexual man who fetishes lesbians to an excessive extent. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “A man with an excessive fascination and attraction for lesbians and who goes out of his way to be around them in hopes that he might get laid or witness lesbian activity or both.” (rare, lesbian) A gay man who enjoys the company of lesbians or who has many lesbian friends. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “A gay male who hangs mostly around lesbians and often maintains a pimp like stature.” (rare, leather, lesbian) A leatherdyke in a sexual relationship with a woman, who ageplays as the older, protective, or motherly partner in BDSM scenes with that partner. 2006 Urban Dictionary: “A leatherdyke (kinky queer woman) who does ageplay as the older, protective partner in her relationship with another adult woman…” dykedar n. [en] (uncommon, lesbian) 1994 Usenet (soc.motss): “My FedEx driver is of the female persuasion. I don’t posess [sic] a working dykedar, so I can’t say a thing about her; other than she is quite, well, I guess handsome would be the best word for it.” 1997 Usenet (soc.motss): “I discovered from this episode that I don’t have any dykedar.” 1998 Usenet (soc.motss): “On the other hand for us lesbians unless we are really butch straights don’t tend to accept our queerness. Like ‘You can’t be a lesbian, you are too pretty.’ Well Duh… Although I must admit even I have better gaydar than dykedar.” 2010 Urban Dictionary: “Dykedar is a refined version of Gaydar which only works on gay women…” dyke hag n. (pl. dyke hags) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 67: “man, usually heterosexual, who hangs around with lesbians” dykes on spikes n. [en] Alternate forms: dikes on spikes (derogatory) Female golfers. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “Female golfers…” (derogatory) The LPGA (Ladies Professional Golf Association) Tour. 2004 Urban Dictionary: “…the LGPA [sic] tour…” (derogatory) Women who play softball, regardless of sexual orientation. 1992 Sociological Focus, Vol. 25, No. 2 (“Homophobia and Women’s Sport: The Disempowerment of Athletes”), pp. 159-60: “For example, one athlete, after discussing the verbal harassment her team often endured on the practice/playing field (e.g., being called ‘dykes on spikes’ by passers by), began to discuss the stereotypes underlying such labeling.” 2005 Emily’s Journey th[r]ough English 254 (“Dykes on spikes”): “‘Dykes on spikes.’ A common term used for softball players…” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “Softball players…” 2014 Cultural Politics of Sport (“Oh you play softball? You must be a lesbian.”): “I have also heard people refer to softball as ‘dykeball’ or ‘dykes on spikes’ which at times can be frustrating because often times people who make these claims have little knowledge about the sport or those who play.” 2015 Playing Ball Like a Girl (“”): “Softball players are often referred to as ‘dykes on spikes.’” 2022 Nancy B. Kennedy: “She spoke out publicly against sexual harassment of female athletes — she once ripped the male coach of the baseball team for calling the softball players ‘dykes on spikes.’” (lesbian) Lesbians who play softball. 2003 The Observer (“Is anyone out there?”): “…once known as the Dinah Shore Classic or Dykes on Spikes, a term also used to describe lesbian softball teams…” 2011 Urban Dictionary: “Lesbians who also happen to play softball…” 2020 Instagram: “dykes on spikes” (lesbian) Lesbians who are golfers. 2018 Dictionary of Australian Analogies, Similes, & Idioms: “…Those [lesbians] that compete in golf tournaments are called ‘dykes on spikes’” (derogatory) Women who play rugby, regardless of sexual orientation. 2004 Deviant Behavior, No. 25 (“Machismo, Misogyny, and Homophobia in a Male Athletic Subculture: a Participant-Observation Study of Deviant Rituals in Collegiate Rugby”): “Women rugby players are often referred to as ‘dykes on spikes,’ fitting both the misogynistic and homophobic notions referred to throughout this research.” 2016 Gullible’s Travels: Raw & Uncut, p. 40: “She hears them whisper, ‘Hmph! Dykes on spikes’, as she and Streak walk by… This infuriates her.” dyke spike n. (pl. dyke spikes) [en] Alternate forms: dike spike (pl. dike spikes) A short, spiky hairstyle popular among butch or masculine lesbians in the mid-2000s. 2005 Urban Dictionary: “A haircut that can be on a guy or girl where the hair is shorter in the back than in the front. Its [sic] kinda like a reverse mullet but not quite, and spikier in the back.” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “when a woman who loves munching box gets a haircut that could be mistaken for a man’s if viewed from behind” 2007 Urban Dictionary: “possibly spelt dike spikes… refers to the short, spiky hair cut that lesbians tend to go for… makes them look like a male from behind” (rare) A heterosexual man who has had sexual intercourse with women who identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or queer. 2006 Urban Dictionary: “A man who has sexual intercourse with women who identify as primarily lesbian, but who are attracted to men.” (rare, lesbian) A lesbian’s strap-on. 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A strap-on being used by a dyke.” (rare, trans female) The penis of a trans woman who is a lesbian. dykes with spikes n. [en] (derogatory) Female golfers. 2009 Battleground: Sports, Vol. 1 (“Openly Gay Athletes”), p. 297: “Women who chose to enter sports such as golf, for example, were pejoratively called ‘dykes with spikes’…” 2013 Tapatalk (collegefootball): “The only golf I watch is the LPGA...... It ain't ‘Dykes with spikes’ anymore........” (uncommon, trans female) Trans women who are lesbians. 1997 Usenet (rec.music.makers.guitar): “‘Chicks with dicks and dykes with spikes..’ come on, everybody sing along!” dyking (it) n. [en] Alternate forms: diking, diking it


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “The verbal noun, diking, is often used to refer to Lesbian intercourse, especially tribady…” (obsolete, derogatory, gay male) 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “The verbal noun, diking, is … infrequently [used to refer] to the intercourse of two homosexual men with each other. This… usage is encountered only among homosexuals, and carries an overtone of derogation. dykon n. (pl. dykons) [en] (United States, lesbian) A lesbian icon. dykosaurus n. Alternate forms: dykeosaurus (uncommon, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an aggressive or very masculine lesbian…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 90: “a masculine, strong lesbian. Also… dykosaurus…” 2012 Inkhorn’s Erotonomicon: An Advanced Sexual Vocabulary for Verbivores and Vulgarians, Vol. 1, p. 74: “a butch lesbian” (rare, lesbian) An older lesbian who is considered to be wise. 2010 Urban Dictionary: “Older mature lesbian who has been around the block a few times. Well versed in all of the lesbian conventions and arts, i.e gay marriage, dykes with bikes and L Word. Enjoys cross stitching and Coronation Street. Fond of spectacle wearing.” Ee E earthy-crunchy dyke n. (pl. earthy-crunchy dykes) éclair queen n. (pl. éclair queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 68: “rich gay man” egg adj. Used in combinative forms, such as egg cracking or egg mode. egg n. (pl. eggs) [en] Translation(s): œuf [fr] A trans person who is in denial about being transgender. 2010 Crossdreamers: “Someone who is transgender but who does not know or accept it yet.” 2017 Reddit (r/egg_irl): “Memes about trans people in denial.” 2019 Know Your Meme: “‘Egg’ or ‘Egg Mode’ is an internet slang term used to describe transgender individuals who do not realize they are a transgender person yet, or are in denial about being a transgender individual.” A person who is regarded as being transgender by others but has not realized it yet themselves. 2010 Crossdreamers: “Someone who is transgender but who does not know or accept it yet.” 2017 Reddit (r/ask_transgender): “An egg is someone who is showing signs of being transgender but hasn’t come to realize it yet.” 2017 Reddit (r/egg_irl): “memes about trans people who don’t know they’re trans yet.” 2019 Know Your Meme: “‘Egg’ or ‘Egg Mode’ is an internet slang term used to describe transgender individuals who do not realize they are a transgender person yet, or are in denial about being a transgender individual.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Trans slang for a person who hasn’t realized they’re trans yet. Usually they show telltale behavior of a trans person despite not knowing, like ‘ironically’ crossdressing or writing shitty fanfiction about trans people. The word comes from the idea that they haven’t ‘cracked out of their shell’, like an egg.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A person who doesn’t realize they are transgender yet, or is in denial; an undeveloped transgender person. When they realize, it’s referred to as the ‘egg cracking.’” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A person who doesn’t realize they are transgender yet, or is in denial; an undeveloped transgender person. When they realize, it’s referred to as the ‘egg cracking.’” A trans woman who has not yet begun transitioning. 2016 BuzzFeed (“13 Words That Mean Something Totally Different To Trans People”): A person who is regarded as having a particular gender identity by others, but has not realized it yet themselves. 2019 Transgender Map (“Transgender slang, slurs, and controversial words”): “someone who is unaware, in denial, or has not come out about their gender identity.” A person who has a particular gender identity but has not revealed that identity to others, or has otherwise not yet come out. 2019 Transgender Map (“Transgender slang, slurs, and controversial words”): “someone who is unaware, in denial, or has not come out about their gender identity.” A person who is regarded as being a trans woman by others but has not realized it yet themselves. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “a transgender woman who is not out yet, and may not realize that she is a woman” egg cracking n. The moment in which an egg realizes that they are transgender. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A person who doesn’t realize they are transgender yet, or is in denial; an undeveloped transgender person. When they realize, it’s referred to as the ‘egg cracking.’” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A person who doesn’t realize they are transgender yet, or is in denial; an undeveloped transgender person. When they realize, it’s referred to as the ‘egg cracking.’” egg culture n. The culture that is said to surround the conceptualization of being an egg, or the culture ascribed to persons considered to be eggs. 2019 Reddit (r/honesttransgender): “I mean, our current diagnostic criteria are pretty bad, but egg culture is three hundred and forty three million times worse in that regard.” egg mode n. Alternate forms: eggmode Synonym for egg, being an individual who is regarded as being transgender, but has not realized it themselves. 2010 Crossdreamers: “Someone who is transgender but who does not know or accept it yet.” 2015 Emberling: “Venus’s character is an exploration of the particular yearnings that transgender girls experience prior to realizing that living openly as a girl is possible for them. (This is referred to fondly in some transgender communities as ‘eggmode.’)” 2016 Urban Dictionary: “Someone who is trans but doesn’t know it yet… Someone who is still an embryo of the trans person they will eventually hatch into.” 2016 Comics Alliance (“The Case for Superman’s Transgender Pal, Jenny Olsen”): “There’s a term in the transgender community called ‘eggmode’; parlance for transgender or nonbinary people who haven’t figured it out yet.” 2019 Know Your Meme: “‘Egg’ or ‘Egg Mode’ is an internet slang term used to describe transgender individuals who do not realize they are a transgender person yet, or are in denial about being a transgender individual.” The position of knowingly being an egg. 2018 Little Fish, p. 24: “That fits, though, she thought. Wear the same outfit day after day, your brain gets numb to how it looks or feels—Wendy shut the album. No. […] She hated analyzing the whys of [not-out] trans girls. She had always hated it, and she hated how easy it had become; the bottomless hole of egg mode.” eggy adj. (comparative eggier, superlative eggiest) Having qualities ascribed to an egg. 2017 Reddit (r/honesttransgender): “People saying that they’re newly cracked, or refer[ring] to their previous selves as eggy is so infantile and hard to read.” 2019 Reddit (r/asktransgender): “Eggy is a term branching off from an ‘egg’. The [sic] is when someone shows a lot of signs about being transgender but doesn’t know it themselves.” electro n.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “electrolysis” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “electrolysis” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “abbreviation - ‘electrolysis’ - The process of using an electrified needle to kill hair follicles on the face and body. Transgenders use this process mostly to remove beards and mustaches.” enban n. (pl. enbans or enben) [en] (rare, internet, Tumblr, nonbinary) An adult nonbinary person. 2014 Tumblr (“Ask a Non-Binary”): “Okay, enban as the nonbinary equivalent to man/woman… going once, going twice …?” 2021 Tumblr (“Nonbinary Terms 101”): “Instead of using men/women, use… Enben… Instead of using man/woman, use… Enban.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “The non-binary equivalent of woman and man, not to be confused with enby, the non-binary equivalent of girl and boy. Enben for plural.” enbian n. (pl. enbians) enby adj.


enby n. (pl. enbies) Alternate forms: enbee (pl. enbees) (internet, Tumblr, nonbinary) A nonbinary person, especially a younger nonbinary person. 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “casual shorthand for ‘nonbinary’, a cutesy way to refer to nb people. Only for use by nonbinary people, although not all nb folk may be comfortable with the term” 2019 Transgender: A Reference Handbook, p. 342: “Comes from the initials N.B. for nonbinary. Enby is now shorthand for someone who identifies outside of the gender binary.” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “A word made from the pronunciation of the acronym ‘NB’ (nonbinary); a term for nonbinary people on par with ‘boy’ and ‘girl.’ Some people may refer to nonbinary adults as enbies, but this is sometimes seen as infantilizing and is thus discouraged…” 2021 Tumblr (“Nonbinary Terms 101”): “Instead of using boy/girl, use… Enby…” enbyfriend n. (pl. enbyfriends) (uncommon, internet, nonbinary) 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “alternative term to boyfriend/girlfriend to refer to a nonbinary partner you’re dating” 2021 Tumblr (“Nonbinary Terms 101”): “Instead of using girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband, use… Enbyfriend…” endo n. (pl. endos) (trans) Endocrinologist. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “short for endocrinologist” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “short for endocrinologist” eneby n. (pl. enebies) Etymology: Total blend of enby (referring to a nonbinary person) and enemy. (rare, nonbinary) enema queen n. (pl. enema queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 68: “a man who likes giving/receiving enemas during sexual activity” enthrone v. (third-person singular simple present enthrones, present participle enthroning, simple past and past participle enthroned) estro n. Clipping of estrogen. extravadraganza n. Etymology: Overlapping blend of drag and extravaganza. (drag) A film which portrays drag queens and cross-dressing in a positive light. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “a film which features drag queens, cross-dressing or transvestitism in a positive light. For example, The Adventures of Priscilla Queen of the Desert (1994), The Iron Ladies (2000).” (United States, drag) A drag show. 2010 The Big Black Book of Very Dirty Words: “extravadraganza, n… drag queen show; American… And now, ladies and ladies, it’s time for the extravadraganza to begin!” Eve’s apple n. (pl. Eve’s apples) (uncommon, trans female) A trans woman’s laryngeal prominence, if she has not undergone thyroid chondroplasty. 2018 Urban Dictionary: “The trans female’s equivalent to an Adam’s Apple. Some trans females choose to have it removed; others have no choice but to keep it due to lack of money or fear of medical procedures; and others still wear it as a badge of pride or because it doesn’t bother them.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “The Adam’s apple of a transgender woman” evil queen n. (pl. evil queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 68: “almost any gay man” evil twin brother n. (crossdressing) Referring to oneself, if a male-to-female cross-dresser, when presenting in stereotypically masculine attire and presenting oneself as male. 2000 Annie’s Place: “Term commonly used by genetic male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in male attire and presenting as a man.” evil twin sister n. (crossdressing) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Term commonly used by male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in female attire and presenting as a woman.” ewphoria n. Alternate forms: ew-phoria Etymology: Derived as an overlapping blend between ew (an expression of disgust or nausea) and euphoria (shortening of gender euphoria, referring to a profound feeling of joy and comfort felt when one’s gender identity aligns with their external gender presentation). (uncommon, internet, trans) A complicated feeling of gender euphoria resulting from an act of misogyny, misandry, or other similar forms of sexism or genderism. 2021 Reddit (r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns): “Feeling validated through men being misogynistic is what we call Ew-phoria” 2022 Reddit (r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns): “Good old ew-phoria” 2023 Urban Dictionary: “When a trans person gets euphoria from validation but in a bad context… Like when a MtF gets cat called when walking in front of men, or when receiving unsolicited nudes from men etc…” Ff factory accessorized adj. factory equipped adj. The state of currently having a penis and testicles, which have been in place since one’s birth, i.e. the condition of being a cisgender boy or a cisgender man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a biological male, as opposed to a transsexual male…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 117: “a biological male (as opposed to a f-t-m transsexual. Also bio boy, gen man.” fag n. Etymology: Likely deriving via shortening of faggot (see below). (originally United States, pejorative, reclaimed) A gay man. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “homosexual” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 613: “A derogatory term used to describe gay men. Has been reclaimed by some people.” (United States, campus, teen) A person considered to be offensive or unpopular. (rare, trans male) Backronym of factory accessorized gay, meaning a transgender boy or a transgender man who is gay. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘factory accessorized gay’, a gay f2m…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 118: “an acronym of Factory Accessorized Gay meaning a f-t-m transsexual who is also gay.” fag drag n. (pl. fag drags) A drag king who sometimes performs a gay male identity. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a drag king who performs a gay male identity…” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 118: “a drag king who sometimes performs a gay male identity.” fag dyke n. (pl. fag dyke) Alternate forms: fag-dyke (pl. fag-dykes); fagdyke (pl. fagdykes)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a gay or bisexual f2m…” faggot n. (pl. faggots, abbr. fag) Alternate forms: faggart (pl. faggarts), fagot (pl. fagots) Etymology: As a term of abuse for gay people, the most likely descent is from use as a pejorative for women or sex workers (see below). However, a number of folk etymologies exist. One which has seen significant popularity connects the term faggot (indicating a bundle of sticks, twigs, or brushwood tied together for use as fuel) to burning of gay people at the stake as heretics in medieval Europe. While the term faggot was applied to such a bundle using in the burning of individuals as heretics, and by metonymy came to be used to refer to the method of execution of individuals in this manner, it did not refer specifically to gay people who were executed by this method. (chiefly Ireland, Scotland, England, derogatory) A woman, especially considered to be troublesome, useless, or slatternly; used often as a term of abuse or contempt. 1795 Samples of Sweethearts and Wives!: “Damn your blood, you old Faggot, where are you coming to?” 1840 New-Yorker: “So – – you infernal faggot. I’ll down with you if you don’t let me pass.” 1862 Mrs. Halliburton’s Troubles: “She… struck at me, she did, the good-for-nothing faggot!” (Southern and Southeastern England, Scotland, Northern Ireland) A child who is considered naughty or mischievous; used frequently as a term of rebuke or reproach. 1859 A Dictionary of Modern Slang, Cant, and Vulgar Words Used in the Present Day: “You little faggot, you!” 1886 A Dictionary of the Isle of Wight Dialect: “Come here, ye young faggot.” A sex worker or prostitute. 1842 The Whip and Satirist of N.Y. & Brooklyn: “The whip wants to know Who is that short faggot that euts such a swell in the street and is so very partial to Mr B” 1858 Bell’s Life in Sydney: “Twig her red ribbons! there goes a flaming faggot!” 1903 Truth: “The grocer had called her a DIRTY, LOW, STREET FAGGOT.” A man who is perceived as feminine. 1914 Vocabulary of Criminal Slang: “… Amongst female impersonators on the stage and men of dual sex instincts ‘drag’ denotes female attire donned by a male. Example: ‘All the fagots (sissies) will be dressed in drag at the ball tonight’.” 1936 The Big Money: “He wiggled his hips like a woman when he talked. The first thing Marge thought was how on earth she could ever have liked that fagot.” (originally and chiefly North America, pejorative) A gay man. 1926 The Sun Also Rises: “Abraham Lincoln was a faggot. He was in love with General Grant.” 1953 The Limerick: “The late Brigham Young was no neuter— / No faggot, no fairy, no fruiter.” 1959 Dictionary of Medical Slang and Related Esoteric Expressions, p. 63: “A male homosexual.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A fellow homosexual.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 108: “A male homosexual…” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A male homosexual. Like dyke, this term was originally used as an epithet, but has been adopted by many of the people to whom it refers. There is no general agreement about the origin of the term.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 69: “gay man” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “Derogatory term used to generalize the gay male population…” 2018 NATA (“LGBTQ+ Terminology 101”): “Occasionally used as an self-identifying affirming term by some gay men, at times in the shortened form ‘fag’.” (United States, dated, hobo) A young gay male hobo who is said to “apprentice” with an older, more experienced hobo. 1948 The Dictionary of Social Welfare, pp. 77: “An apprentice boy hobo with homosexual tendencies.” (South Africa, United States) A female-to-male crossdresser. (South Africa, United States, derogatory) A gay person. 2018 NATA (“LGBTQ+ Terminology 101”): “Derogatory term referring to a gay person…” (South Africa, United States, derogatory) A person who is perceived as being non-heterosexual. 2018 NATA (“LGBTQ+ Terminology 101”): “Derogatory term referring to… someone perceived as queer.” fag hag queen n. (pl. fag hag queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 69: “gay man who hangs around with straight women” fairy adj. Described or characterized as being related to gay men. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “fairy … A male homosexual; the term most commonly used in America. Also used adjectivally, as ‘a fairy joint.’” fairy n. (pl. fairies) One of a class of supernatural beings having human form, to whom are traditionally attributed magical powers and who are thought to interfere in human affairs. A woman likened to a fairy in possessing extraordinary or supernatural power; an enchantress. 1623 Antony & Cleopatra: “To this great Faiery [Cleopatra], Ile commend thy acts.” A young woman, often considered to be attractive. 1675 Love in the Dark: “I’m jealous of your Fairy.” 1793 Sprigs of Laurel: “She’s my darling, only dear / bewitching little fairy.” A young woman who is considered sexually promiscuous or seductive. 1889 Dead Bird: “A little brown haired fairy inside a black gauze gown is the cause of the estrangement.” 1894 Boxing World & Mirror of Life: “Walk in that vicinity [i.e. Piccadilly], and you are sure to be accosted by dozens of loose women of all nationalities; the French virago usually outstrips the others… is therefore a ban to the existence of the English fairy.” 1925 The Autobiography of a Thief: “At the ‘Cosmopoliotan Club’ I ‘picked up a fairy,’ who seemed anxious to teach me to fox-trot.” 1941 Phenomena in Crime: “Fairies, be it noted, are ladies of questionable morality.” An older woman who is considered unattractive or who is said to engage in behavior which is considered to be immoral. 1909 Passing English of the Victorian Era (gay male) An individual who is assigned male at birth (AMAB) and who is feminine in nature or performs a feminine persona, such as that of a female impersonator; especially such an individual who is sexually or romantically attracted to men. 1896 The American Journal of Psychology (“Sex and Art”): “The peculiar societies of inverts. Coffee-clatches, where the members dress themselves with aprons etc, and knit, gossip and crotchet; balls, where men adopt the ladies’ evening dress, are well known in Europe. ‘The Fairies’ of New York are said to be a similar secret organization.” 1909 Wretches of Povertyville: “This class is composed of those whose propensities, viler than animal since they have no counterpart in the animal kingdom, place them outside of any human category. They call themselves ‘fairies.’ Such a wretch … gives himself a female appelative, imitates woman’s voice and ways, and as far as he dares wears woman’s attire. He … uses rouges, powders and cosmetics and all the artifices a woman might use to enhance her charms. Corsets, high-heeled shoes and bracelets are generally worn and in his room he dons complete female attire. This effeminate creature is in love with an equally despicable wretch of his own sex.” 1989 Perverts by Official Order: “If a man was walking along the street in an effeminate manner, with his lips rouged … a man would be right in forming the opinion that that man was a ‘fairy’.” (derogatory, reclaimed, gay male) A gay man, especially one considered to be feminine. 1923 Impromptu: “He thought the male dancers must all be fairies.” 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “fairy … A male homosexual; the term most commonly used in America.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 109: “A male homosexual…” 1974 Chocolate War: “You’re a fairy. A queer. Living in the closet, hiding away.” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A male homosexual, especially one who acts or dresses in an effeminate manner…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 69: “effeminate homosexual man” 2006 Attitude: “He’s a proper pansy, a full-on g.a.y. fairy.” (rare, derogatory) A man who is interested in sexual relations with any man, regardless of sexual orientation. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Interested only in sex with any man.” A man who performs oral sex on upon other men. (rare) A man who is receptive during anal or oral intercourse with partners of any gender. A man who is considered to be feminine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a feminine man” fairy godmother n. (pl. fairy godmothers) fairy hawk n. (pl. fairy hawks) An individual who attacks and robs gay people. 2005 Cassell’s Dictionary of Slang: “fairy hawk n. [1960s+] (US gay) one who attacks (and robs) homosexuals.” fairy house n. (pl. fairy houses) A male brothel for gay men. 1981 American Madam: “Miss Carol was the partner in a fairy house; the madam there being a man who was known only as Big Nellie – Miss Big Nellie.” 2005 Cassell’s Dictionary of Slang: “fairy house n. (also fairy joint) [late 19C-1930s] (US gay) a male brothel for homosexuals…” fairy joint n. (pl. fairy joints) A male brothel for gay men. 1932 Scarlet Pansy: “Fred announced what was to be the crowning event of the evening, a visit to a ‘fairy joint’ in Christie Street.” 1939 Supreme Court Appellate Division—Second Department (“Helen Luepke”): “Q. You know now that that was a fairy joint, don’t you? … A. What is it? … Q. You know that the Farrell Hotel was a fairy joint, don’t you? … A. You say it is. That’s all I know.” 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “fairy … A male homosexual; the term most commonly used in America. Also used adjectivally, as ‘a fairy joint.’” 1953 Harvard Advocate: “What kind of joint did I walk into, a fairy joint or something?” 1964 Records and Briefs New York State Appellate Division (“Daniel G. Lewis”): “Q. Now, do you know what a fairy joint is, in popular parlance? … The Court: What? … Mr. Mason: A fairy joint… A. I guess so, yes… Q. Do you think advertising a fairy joint is in good taste? … A. No.” 1967 History of Eroticism: Our Own Time: “The Criolla was not only a fairy joint.” 2005 Cassell’s Dictionary of Slang: “fairy house n. (also fairy joint) [late 19C-1930s] (US gay) a male brothel for homosexuals…” fairy lady n. (pl. fairy ladies) Etymology: (dated, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be a bottom in the context of sexual intercourse. 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “Term used in the mid-1990’s for a lesbian bottom.” (dated, lesbian) A lesbian, especially one considered feminine. fairy-lover n. (pl. fairy-lovers) [en] Alternate forms: fairy lover (pl. fairy lovers) fairy resort n. (pl. fairy resorts) [en] fairy shaking n. Alternate forms: fairy-shaking fairy’s phonebooth n. fairy’s wand n. fancy adj. (rare, internet, agender) 2012 The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (“Definitions Master List”): “anyone who is nominally agender but displays many mental characteristics opposite to their biological sex, yet isn’t completely one way or the other” faux drag n. (drag) 2017 Toronto Star (“Craig Russell brought fame to Toronto’s gay village. The drag queens who remain keep its sparkle alive”): “A newer type is Faux drag, also known as BioQueen, where the performer is a biological female but performs as a male doing drag as a female.” faux man n. (pl. faux men) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘fake men’, lesbians, especially butch lesbians; women who masquerade as men…” faux queen n. (pl. faux queens) [en]


2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “Bio queens (or faux queens) are women who do drag. They subvert gender roles by subverting drag itself – if drag is ‘female impersonation’ what is a woman who impersonates a female? In a gay world often dominated by white cis men, the bio queen faces a different kind of challenge – curiously one that mirrors some trans* experiences – i.e., the pressure to prove herself as ‘authentic’.” 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know of”): “Bio queens, faux queens, diva queens, hyper queens and female queens are all different names for the same style of drag. Mostly known as bio queens, they are cis gender women who apply feminine drag into their art. Basically biological women who exaggerate their female features using drag queen tips and tricks. Bio queens are often associated with women of Instagram that use heavy and colourful eye makeup to exaggerate their natural features to the point where they look like they could be drag queens. Although the makeup and costumes are a large part of this style in drag, many bio queens are also performers like traditional drag queens.” 飛天貓 n. [zh] Alternate forms: fēitiānmāo (Pinyin); ㄈㄟ ㄊㄧㄢ ㄇㄠ (Zhuyin); 飞天猫 (Simplified Chinese) Etymology: fēitiānmāo sounds close to “FTM” when spoken. (trans male, humorous) A trans man. female drag queen n. (pl. female drag queens)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a woman who dresses and performs as a drag queen…” female faggery n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a collective term for women who identify with, or as, gay men; the actions and beliefs of people so identified…” female faggot n. (pl. female faggots)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a woman who passes as a man and who engages in gay identified relationships with men…” female-fail n. Alternate forms: femalefail female-fail v. (third-person singular simple present female-fails, present participle female-failing, simple past and past participle female-failed) Alternate forms: femalefail Said of a trans man, being unable to pass as a woman due to transition. 2021 Wiktionary: “Said of a trans man, to fail to pass as a female owing to a successful FTM transition.” female-failing n. Alternate forms: femalefailing female female impersonation n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “exaggeratedly feminine performances by actresses such as Mae West and Texas Guinan; Texas had given up a career as the toughest and most masculine of the screen cowgirls to become a high femme speakeasy hostess in New York…” female man n. (pl. female men)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an f2m transsexual who has not had genital surgery” female mimic n. (pl. female mimics) female queen n. (pl. female queens) (drag) 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know of”): “Bio queens, faux queens, diva queens, hyper queens and female queens are all different names for the same style of drag. Mostly known as bio queens, they are cis gender women who apply feminine drag into their art. Basically biological women who exaggerate their female features using drag queen tips and tricks. Bio queens are often associated with women of Instagram that use heavy and colourful eye makeup to exaggerate their natural features to the point where they look like they could be drag queens. Although the makeup and costumes are a large part of this style in drag, many bio queens are also performers like traditional drag queens.” femboy n. (pl. femboys)


Transfeminine Science (“An Exploration of Possibilities for Hormone Therapy in Non-Binary Transfeminine People”): “There are also individuals who seek hormonal feminization and/or demasculinization but do not actually identify as transgender. These cisgender-identified individuals often refer to themselves as ‘femboys’.” femby n. (pl. fembies) A nonbinary person who is considered to be femme or otherwise feminine. feminine impersonator n. (pl. feminine impersonators)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genetic woman who feels she is faking being female…” femme adj. Alternate forms: fem (lesbian) (LGBTQ) Considered to be very feminine or not very masculine in terms of gender expression, regardless of positionality on the gender spectrum. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Femme: 1. Feminine or effeminate dress and behavior, regardless of _sex_ or _gender identity_ …” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 70: “effeminate, feminine” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “A feminine gender expression… among LGBTQ people that typically focuses on teasing gender boundaries and challenging the idea that femininity is natural, weak, and compliant.” femme n. (pl. femmes) [en] Alternate forms: fem, feem, femmie A woman, especially one who is younger. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 113: “In show biz, however, a femme is just a woman, whether she be hetero or homo…” (gay male) A gay man who is considered to be feminine. (gay male, lesbian) 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 113: “An effeminate homosexual of either sex, in contrast to the butch…” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A lesbian or gay man who acts and dresses effeminately.” (gay male, lesbian) 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 113: “A… homosexual of either sex, in contrast to the butch, who takes the male (dominant) role…” (lesbian) 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “A female homosexual who is effeminate in her ways.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 614: “Traditionally refers to the feminine partner in a butch–femme lesbian relationship…”


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Femme: … 2. A sub-identity of lesbian or gay, based on masculine or macho dress and behavior…” (LGBTQ) A specific gender identity which is femme. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 614: “…Now a self-identity used by some people who see themselves as feminine.” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “A feminine gender… identity among LGBTQ people that typically focuses on teasing gender boundaries and challenging the idea that femininity is natural, weak, and compliant…” femme, en adj. femme finishing school n. (pl. femme finishing schools) [en] A location where trans women, drag queens, and male-to-female cross-dressers can learn to pass as a woman or about femininity generally. femme mimic n. (pl. femme mimics) [en] A non-femme individual who mimics a femme persona for the purposes of entertainment. 1964 Records and Briefs New York State Appellate Division: “Q. I call your attention to the advertisement of the 82 Club, ‘World’s Foremost Femme Mimics.’” femme name n. (pl. femme names) femme-n’-m n. (pl. femme-n’-m’s) femme pretender n. (pl. femme pretenders)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a feminine drag king who performs an exaggerated parody of masculinity, often ending the performance by exposing her breasts or otherwise contradicting the masculine performance…” femme queen n. (pl. femme queens) (ballroom) A trans woman. 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Trans woman. Categories with this description are for trans womxn only.” femmy adj. fephe n. Alternate forms: FePhe, Fifi, fifi A cisgender woman. 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “…Female Phenotype. A non-transsexual woman, the emphasis is on the typical female body morph rather than the chromosomes…” fire queen n. (pl. fire queens) fish adj. (trans female, drag, gay male) Expressing that a trans woman, male-to-female cross-dresser, or drag queen passes as, or looks like, a cisgender woman. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a compliment among some, too: ‘You look so fish.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a compliment among some, too: ‘You look so fish.’” 2005 Urban Dictionary: Fularious Street Slang Defined, p. 132: “Feminine. Mostly used by gay men to compliment feminine-looking drag queens or transgender women who appear too convincing to be able to tell they're not biologically female.” fish n. (pl. fishes) (derogatory, gay male) A heterosexual woman. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “A woman (usually excluding Lesbians).” 1963 The Homosexual and His Society: A View from Within (“A Lexicon of Homosexual Slang”): “A heterosexual woman.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A woman, usually a heterosexual.”


1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “fellatio with women.” (derogatory, gay male) Woman. 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Woman (used only by males and with strongly pejorative connotations…” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 115: “Derogatory male homosexual slang for women…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 70: “a female” 2005 Urban Dictionary: Fularious Street Slang Defined, p. 132: “A woman. Used primarily by gay men, either in a positive or derogatory way, depending on the context.” (derogatory, trans, drag) A cisgender woman. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Drag-queen slang for biological females.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a very derogatory term used by some to refer to non-TS women.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a very derogatory term used by some to refer to non-TS women.” (drag) A drag queen who passes as a very feminine cisgender woman. 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A fish is a very feminine drag queen.) fish drag n. Drag which focuses on reproduction of cisgender, heterosexual femininity, centering the idea of passing as such. 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “Yes the heart of drag is the attempt to pass as a woman, however what I call Fish Drag refers to those queens who attempt to do their painting and dressing more in the style of women than queens. When a Drag Queen paints they shade and dress to highlight and hide to give the illusion of woman on stage. Fish Queens attempt to look like a woman up close as well as on stage. Their goal is to look like a real woman, both with painting and clothing.” fish queen n. (pl. fish queens) Alternate forms: fish-queen (pl. fish-queens) A man who performs oral sexual intercourse on women. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “one who practices fellatio on women.” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “Properly, a ‘cunt-sucker’...” A gay man who purposefully associates with women in an attempt to disguise his sexual orientation. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 4: “Properly, a ‘cunt-sucker’, but in general usage applied to any homosexual who makes a point of bringing women with him where they’ll be seen by his friends, with the apparent aim of convincing himself and others he’s bisexual.” A boy or man who is considered to be feminine. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 115: “Homosexual slang for a very effeminate male.” 2005 Tonos Digital: Revista Electrónica de Estudios Filológicos (“Glosario de términos gays compuestos por la palabra ‘queen’ y su traducción”): “an effeminate boy or man.”


2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “Yes the heart of drag is the attempt to pass as a woman, however what I call Fish Drag refers to those queens who attempt to do their painting and dressing more in the style of women than queens. When a Drag Queen paints they shade and dress to highlight and hide to give the illusion of woman on stage. Fish Queens attempt to look like a woman up close as well as on stage. Their goal is to look like a real woman, both with painting and clothing.” fishy drag n. Drag which focuses on reproduction of cisgender, heterosexual femininity, centering the idea of passing as such. 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know if”): “Fishy drag is one of the most popular forms of drag. Heavily featured in RuPaul’s Drag Race, fishy queens are often what is associated with the ‘ideal’ drag queen. The word ‘fishy’ refers to a man who, once in drag, looks so much like a woman that their true gender seems fishy or suspicious. More often than not, fishy queens can fully pass as looking like a cis-gender (biological) woman. Examples of some famous fishy queens include Farrah Moan and Courtney Act.” fishy queen n. (pl. fishy queens) [en] fist queen n. (pl. fist queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 70: “a man who likes to be fisted during sex” flab queen n. (pl. flab queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 70: “a gay man who likes fat men” flamer n. (pl. flamers)


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A very flamboyant and overstated drag queen, one who flaunts gender-bending and seeks attention doing so…”


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A member of the Community with a bad attitude toward self and others, appearing intentionally unpleasant.” flaming adj. flaming queen n. (pl. flaming queens) flannel shirt dyke n. (pl. flannel shirt dykes) flavor n. Alternate forms: flavour Gender expression. fluid drag n. (pl. fluid drags) [en] (drag) 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A fluid drag is the most versatile drag queen out there. They don’t stick to just one single drag queen persona and experiment with a variety of different styles.” FNG n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a newly out f2m, esp out who has only recently joined an organization and starts asserting their opinion and throwing their weight around…” FNT


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘fucking neurotic transsexual’, a term of opprobrium referring to obsessive preoccupation with transgenderism to the point of emotional paralysis and misery…” foot queen n. (pl. foot queens) fopdosser n. (pl. fopdossers) [af] Translation(s): drag queen [en] A drag queen. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 70: “drag queen” FP n. (pl. FPs) (rare, 1970s) Shortened form of FemmePersonator. fragrance fairy n. (pl. fragrance fairies) frankendick n. (pl. frankendicks) (rare, derogatory) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(from Frankenstein’s monster) a derogatory term for the results of female to male gential [sic] surgery, so called because it is supposedly incapable of sensation or function…” free-shot bull’s eye n. fribble n. Alternate forms: fribler, fribbler A man who is considered to be sexually inadequate. A man or boy who is considered to be feminine. A gay man. A male-to-female crossdresser. A female-to-male crossdresser. A woman who is considered to be butch or masculine. A woman who is considered to be dominant. fribling adj. Alternate forms: fribbled, fribbling, fribblish frighten the horses, (to) v. frock star n. (pl. frock stars) (rare) A male rock or pop star who wears feminine clothing, either privately or as part of his act. frog queen n. (pl. frog queens) front hole n. (pl. front holes) (uncommon) A trans man or assigned female at birth (AFAB) nonbinary person’s vagina. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community, p. 384: “Front-Hole Penetration… Those of us who were assigned female at birth have a front hole, unless we have chosen to have it surgically removed via vaginectomy. Many of us have complicated feelings about using our front holes…” 2015 Female-to-Male (FtM) Transgender People’s Experiences in Australia: A National Study, p. 112: “‘I don’t have a vagina,’ he explained, ‘I have a bonus hole. Other names that don’t make me cringe are boy hole and front hole’.” frottage queen n. (pl. frottage queens) [en]


FT adj.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “full-time, living full time as a female.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “full-time, living full time as a female.” FTG n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “female to gay male transsexual…” full drag n. (drag) The state of a drag performer, usually a drag queen, being entirely in drag. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “completely decked out in women’s attire e.g. ‘Betty’s got the full drag on tonight!’” full time adj. (abbr. FT) Alternate forms: full-time full time adv. (abbr. FT) Alternate forms: full-time


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “full-time, living full time as a female.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “full-time, living full time as a female.” 2005 University of Southern California Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender (LGBT) Resource Center (“Transgender Information”): “Stages of transition that a transgender person may experience… 11. Starting to cross dress full-time (24/7).” 2006 Trans Care Gender transition (“Real Life Experience”): “Trans people and loved ones sometimes call this ‘cross-living,’ ‘living full-time,’ or ‘living 24/7.’” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “When a person lives completely in the gender roll [sic] of the psyche.” Gg gadget queen n. (pl. gadget queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 71: “gay man who loves appliances and all the latest gadgets” gaff n. (pl. gaffs)


1964 Mr. Madam: Confessions of a Male Madam, p. 17: “This may sound strange to readers who know little about nudes but many female impersonators, or femme-mimics, work au naturel—except for a gaff, a bra, body makeup, jewelry, and a wig (on their head). See! Semi-nude!!” 1996 Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual‎, p. 35: “Sissy maids may be required to wear a gaff to disguise the male genitals, and a dominant may wish a slave to wear it on a daily basis.” 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A cloth device that looks like a G-string that us showgirls use to conceal it.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A close-fitting undergarment used to conceal the male genetalia [sic] …” 2006 The Transgender Phenomenon, p. 227: “Vicky is a pre-operative MTF transsexual … Wearing feminine underwear over her gaff in bed helps her to redefine her absence of female genitalia during sex (sexuality) in terms of it being her ‘time of the month’, as she jokes to Sean [her first boyfriend].” gag v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to show extreme jealousy: ‘I was gagging when I saw how good she looked.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to show extreme jealousy: ‘I was gagging when I saw how good she looked.’”


2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “A gag is the physical emotion that comes from being shocked. For example, when someone does something that is so amazing it leaves you gasping with your jaw dropped and you’re left speechless, you’re gagged.” gagging adj.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “looking good enough to cause jealousy: ‘She is absolutely gagging now that she had her nose done.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “looking good enough to cause jealousy: ‘She is absolutely gagging now that she had her nose done.’” gai adj. (rare) 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “any non-straight attraction felt by a nonbinary person, aka another simple way for nb folk to describe their attraction in general terms” GB n. (pl. GBs) gender, to discover one’s v. To come over, or to become progressively more openly gay following exposure to the gay community. gender, to lose one’s v. To leave behind the gay community and live as heterosexual. gender benderella n. gender blender n. (pl. gender blenders) Alternate forms: gender-blender (pl. gender-blenders) gender butcher n. (pl. gender butchers) Someone who attempts to alter their gender expression, but in a way considered unattractive. gender-challenged adj. Alternate forms: gender challenged (rare) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Transgendered. Seldom used within the Community and quite disliked…” gendercrit n. (pl. gendercrits) genderfuck n. Alternate forms: gender fuck, gender-fuck, genderf*ck The practice, act, or idea of deliberately presenting, expressing, or performing one’s gender with some degree of subversion, transgression, or rebellion against gender role systems or expectations. 1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “Deliberately sending mixed messages about one's sex, usually through dress (e.g., wearing a skirt and a beard)…” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “The idea of playing with ‘gender cues’ to purposely confuse ‘standard’ or stereotypical gender expressions, usually through clothing” (derogatory) When said of a trans woman or a male-to-female crossdresser, the deliberate practice or act of subverting, transgressing, or rebelling against expectations of femininity. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “The practice of flamboyantly wearing womens [sic] attire in an inappropriate manner, often as an incomplete outfit, with no attempt to present as a woman. An example would be someone with a beard wearing an evening gown and paratrooper boots.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Used for crossdressing with contempt for any concern about passing; e.g., a male wearing a skirt, but with a beard and unshaved legs…” A person who is visibly gender nonconforming. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who appears visibly gender variant.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who appears visibly gender variant.”


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “a form of gender identity or gender expression, using parody and exaggeration to call attention to its transgression of gender roles, seeking to expose them as artificial, often by manipulating one’s appearance to create gender dissonance or ambiguity in stark opposition of the gender binary…” genderfuck v.


1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “Deliberately sending mixed messages about one's sex, usually through dress (e.g., wearing a skirt and a beard)…” genderfuck drag n. Alternate forms: genderf*ck drag


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “The practice of flamboyantly wearing womens [sic] attire in an inappropriate manner, often as an incomplete outfit, with no attempt to present as a woman. An example would be someone with a beard wearing an evening gown and paratrooper boots.” genderfucked adj. Alternate forms: gender fucked, gender-fucked


gender-gifted adj. Alternate forms: gender gifted (rare) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Transgendered. May also be used as a euphemism for any of several related conditions.” gender girl n. (pl. gender girls) A cisgender woman born with a vagina; as opposed to a drag queen, a trans woman, or a male-to-female cross-dresser. gender mimic n. (pl. gender mimics) (rare) An individual of one gender identity and expression who mimics another gender identity and expression for the purposes of entertainment. 2008 Sexual Deviance: Theory, Assessment, and Treatment: “‘Gender mimic’: A person whose biological sex and gender role are ego-syntonic but who mimics or spoofs traits of the opposite sex for entertainment or occupational purposes (e.g., a man who is a ‘drag queen’).” 2020 ACT for Gender Identity: The Comprehensive Guide: “We can have a valid and accepted identity as a gender mimic, even if neither we nor our culture legitimize us as a man or woman. American drag queens celebrate this fact by affronting cisgender norms wherever possible.” gender mimicry n. gender nazi n. (pl. gender nazis) (derogatory) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term assigned by gender-different people to gender caregivers (e.g., ‘gatekeepers’) who insist that their patients jump through a series of SoC hoops to affirm their existence as gender-different people.” (derogatory) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term applied by some gender-different people to other gender-different people who adamantly follow the SoC word-for-word, argue vehemently on its behalf and pedestal gatekeepers as modern-day saviors.” gender noise n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘What was the sticking point really for Personnel and the other people who chose to make an issue of my ‘no-tie-too-fem’ status at work was they didn’t like my ‘gender noise’.” gender oracle n. (pl. gender oracles)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person whom people consult in an attempt to determine the gender of a third person without having to actually ask the party about whom the question has arisen…” gender outlaw n. (pl. gender outlaws)


1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “(Kate Bornstein) A person who defies traditional gender roles.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who refuses to be defined by conventional definitions of man and woman…” 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Similar to genderqueer and androgyne, these terms refer to gender variations other than the traditional, dichotomous view of male and female. People who self-refer with these terms may identify and present themselves as both or alternatively male and female, as no gender, or as a gender outside the male/female binary.” gender police n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “people who feel they [have] the right and duty to enforce standards of appearance and behavior, usually non-transgendered people who attempt to force gender variant people to conform to gender stereotypes…” genderpunk adj. a 2014 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “a gender experience which is punk in nature or intensity” genderpunk n. Alternate forms: jenderpunk An individual who is gender nonconforming as a statement against traditional notions of gender. Such an individual who has a more masculine leaning presentation. gender refusenik n.


1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “Proposed by the compiler of this Dictionary as a term for people denied SRS…, whether due to lack of funds or psychological paternalism. All gender refuseniks are non-ops…, but not all non-ops are refuseniks. Also ‘gender otkaznik’ for the Slav-savvy.” gender revolutionary n. (pl. gender revolutionaries) [en]


2005 Urban Dictionary: “Any and all individuals who challenge the confines of the gender binary system - includes drag kings, drag queens, transgender, transsexual, cross dressers, and all manner of other individuals.” gender shock n. Alternate forms: gender-shock; gendershock; Gender Shock


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A temporary feeling of disorientation and sometimes discomfort reported by those who rapidly shift from one gender role to another.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the dismay or frustration of being obliged to cope with people of a different gender, a variation on ‘culture shock’” genderstraight gender terrorist n. (pl. gender terrorists)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who has the power to force other people to conform to their own ideas of gender, especially a professional who practices reparative therapy…” gendertrash Alternate forms: gender trash; gender-trash


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “transgendered people as an undesirable element, usually used in a self-deprecating way…” genetic boy n. (pl. genetic boys, abbr. GB) [en]


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Genetic Boy (GB): Colloquial term for Genetic Male…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “One classed as male from birth, regardless of one’s present sex or gender identity.” genetic girl n. (pl. genetic girls, abbr. GG) [en]


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Genetic Girl (GG): Colloquial term for Genetic Female…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “One classed as female from birth, regardless of one’s present sex or gender identity.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Genetic Girl. One who is born female. Attributed to Virginia Prince, ca. 1968. This term is almost universally used throughout the Community. In the 1970’s, this could also mean Genuine Girl, but this was ambiguous and disliked.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “genetic girl, sometimes used as a term to describe non-transsexual women.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “genetic girl, sometimes used as a term to describe non-transsexual women. Sometimes considered derogatory by women who were raised as girls from birth onwards and by some TG women who feel that chromosomes are not the defining characteristic for womanhood.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Natural born woman…” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “Used by some people to refer to non-transgender women. Some people prefer the term cisgender because it does not make any assumptions about genetics or biology.” genetoguy n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person born biologically male…” genman n. (pl. genmen)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genetic man…” gentleman butch n. [en] gentlethem n. (pl. gentlethems) [en] (derogatory) genuine girl n. (pl. genuine girls, abbr. GG) [en]


1928 Venus Castina: Famous female impersonators celestial and human, p. 279: “Throughout the Orient, this employment of effeminate boys as entertainers in preference to genuine girls, is more or less prevalent—” 1996 Cross-Port InnerView, Vol. 12, No. 5 (“Jill’s Ambrosia”), p. 5: “They were convinced the night before that I was a genuine girl.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Genetic Girl. One who is born female. Attributed to Virginia Prince, ca. 1968. This term is almost universally used throughout the Community. In the 1970’s, this could also mean Genuine Girl, but this was ambiguous and disliked.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Natural born woman…” genwoman n. (pl. genwomen) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genetic woman…” germana n. [ca] Translation(s): sister [en]; hermana [es] GG n. [en] (dated, derogatory, trans, crossdressing) Shortening of genetic girl or genuine girl, used to indicate a cisgender girl or woman. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Genetic Girl (GG): Colloquial term for Genetic Female…” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “One classed as female from birth, regardless of one’s present sex or gender identity.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Genetic Girl. One who is born female. Attributed to Virginia Prince, ca. 1968. This term is almost universally used throughout the Community. In the 1970’s, this could also mean Genuine Girl, but this was ambiguous and disliked.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘genetic girl’…” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “genetic girl, sometimes used as a term to describe non-transsexual women.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “genetic girl, sometimes used as a term to describe non-transsexual women. Sometimes considered derogatory by women who were raised as girls from birth onwards and by some TG women who feel that chromosomes are not the defining characteristic for womanhood.” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 430: “in transsexual usage, a genuine or genetic girl…” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “acronym - ‘Genetic Girl’” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Natural born woman…” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “Used by some people to refer to non-transgender women. Some people prefer the term cisgender because it does not make any assumptions about genetics or biology.” 2018 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 334: “in transsexual usage, a genuine or genetic girl…” g-girl n. (pl. g-girls)


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “Used by some people to refer to non-transgender women. Some people prefer the term cisgender because it does not make any assumptions about genetics or biology.” gigahon n. (pl. gigahons) gigapassoid n. (pl. gigapassoids) Gigi n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘genetic girl’, also ‘Gigi’…” girl adj.


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Girl: … 2. Colloquial term for _feminine_. Often used to specify gender of clothes…” girl n. (pl. girls)


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): Girl: 1. A young female…”


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A biological girl or any person who is gay, fem’nine, or open-minded.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 72: “term of endearment” girlfag n. (pl. girlfags) A woman, usually cisgender and heterosexual, who is fetishistically attracted to gay men, bisexual men, or trans men. 2003 Urban Dictionary: “A woman who is very attracted to gay/bi/trans men. She may (or may not) also feel she is (fully or partly) a ‘gay man in a woman’s body’. Girlfags identify primarily as queer, and are often attracted to more types of people than just gay/bi/trans men.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “a woman who is attracted to gay and/or bi-males, having a more open view of sex and sexuality and being desirous of the freedoms espoused by gay and/or bi-males.” 2014 Urban Dictionary: “A cisgender, heterosexual woman who fetishises gay men. The term ‘girlfag’ is a self proclaimed label, and is an offensive use of the homophobic slur ‘fag’ as they have no right whatsoever to reclaim the slur, since they are heterosexual. They also seem to enjoy using the word ‘queer’, which is also a slur they have no right to reclaim… Girlfags are incredibly homophobic and transphobic, as they see gay men as nothing more than an object to fetishize, they compare themselves to gay trans men which spreads false information, and they try to get themselves into LGBT spaces and call themselves ‘queer’ for their fetish, which is dangerous when accepted as there are a large portion of girlfags who aim to sexually abuse and even attempt to rape gay men… The male version of Girlfags are Guydykes.” (uncommon, trans) A person who is assigned female at birth, who is sexually or romantically attracted to gay or bisexual men. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “a biologically female individual who feels a strong romantic or erotic attraction towards gay males or male bisexuals or their milieu…” (rare, lesbian) A person who is assigned female at birth, who identifies as femme and as gay. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “An assigned-male-at-birth femme person who identifies at least somewhat as a girl and at least somewhat as a fag… The word ‘girlfag’ was too good to waste on cis girls fetishizing gay men, so the femmes decided to steal it.” girlcock n. (pl. girlcocks) Alternate forms: girl cock (pl. girl cocks), girl-cock (pl. girl-cocks) A woman’s clitoris. 2008 Urban Dictionary: “a girl cock is a clitoris” A trans girl or trans woman’s penis. 2012 Urban Dictionary: “The penis of a trans girl.” girldick n. (pl. girldicks) Alternate forms: girl dick (pl. girl dicks), girl-dick (pl. girl-dicks) A trans girl or trans woman’s penis. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “a dick on a pre-surgery trans girl” girlfriend n. (pl. girlfriends)


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “A biological girl or any person who is gay, fem’nine, or open-minded.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 72: “lesbian lover” (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 72: “male gay friend” girl juice n.


2006 Urban Dictionary: “An herbal elixir used, thou not exclusively, by those in the transgendered community, as an natural alternative to to help achieve feminization. Empirical evidence has shown it to be superior to HRT for breast development in both men & women.” girlmode n.


2020 Urban Dictionary: “When a trans person is presenting female. The opposite of boymode.” girlmoder n. (pl. girlmoders) girlmoding n. girl with a dick n. (pl. girls with dicks) A trans girl or trans woman who has a penis. 2017 Urban Dictionary: “When a female, or feminine looking creature has a sausage, male cock down below” glamazon n. glamour butch n. glamour queen n. (pl. glamour queens) [en] (drag) 2017 Georgia Voice (“Your guide to Atlanta’s countless sub-genres of drag”): “Despite other types of drag gaining new exposure and popularity, glamour queens remain the popular image when one envisions a drag queen: an immaculately made-up, ornately outfitted homage to femininity.” golden shower queen n. (pl. golden shower queens) [en] Alternate forms: golden-shower queen (pl. golden-shower queens)


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Golden-shower queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 72: “someone who is a urine fetishist” gold plated queen n. (pl. gold plated queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 72: “rich gay man with no taste, usually nouveau riche” gold star trans narrative n. goth queen n. (pl. goth queens) [en] (drag) 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “As the name suggests, a goth queen inherits her persona from classic horror and goth films with their dark, gloomy appearances.” GQ n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 71: “Giant Queen (Used mockingly of someone who is overtly gay)” granite butch n. (pl. granite butches) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a very stone butch…” green queen n. (pl. green queens) groin job n. (pl. groin jobs)


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a de-medicalized, casual way of describing genital surgery, without inferring that it reassigns sex. ‘Groin job’ is not popular by people who subscribe to the philosophy that being gender-different is an illness or a disorder.” gurl guydyke n. (pl. guydykes)


2009 Urban Dictionary: “The name given to a guy that likes/wants to have relationships with lesbians” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A guydyke is a man who, whether intentionally or unintentionally, attracted to lesbian women. A guydyke often pursues relationships with women only to find out that those women are not attracted to his sex. Some guydykes feel like they live a cursed existence of being attracted to a type of woman they can't have.”


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “a biologically male person who feels a strong romantic or erotic attraction towards lesbians, female bisexuals, or the culture of women loving women…” GW n. (pl. GWs)


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Genetic Female/Woman (GF/GM) [sic]: One who was born female, regardless of one’s present sex or gender identity.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “One classed as female from birth, regardless of one’s present sex or gender identity.”


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “genetic woman, sometimes used as a term to describe non-transsexual women.” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “acronym - ‘Genetic Woman’ Politically correct version of ‘GG.’” gym queen n. (pl. gym queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 73: “muscular gay man who works out at the gym, usually obsessively” Hh hair fairy n. (pl. hair fairies) half-and-half n.


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bisexual… sexually interested in both men and women… Syn: … half-and-half…” hand queen n. (pl. hand queens) [en]


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Hand queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” hatch v. (third-person singular simple present hatches, present participle hatching, simple past and past participle hatched) [en] To come out as transgender. 2017 Reddit (r/ask_transgender): “An egg is someone who is showing signs of being transgender but hasn’t come to realize it yet. ‘Egg’ because this person hasn’t ‘hatched’ yet.” 2019 Know Your Meme: “The term is best compared to the closet, a term used when referring to a state of secrecy and insecurity about one’s homosexuality, with ‘hatching’ having a similar meaning as ‘coming out’.” hatchery n. (pl. hatcheries) An individual or group that happens to be directly or indirectly involved in many transgender people’s coming out narratives, i.e. involved in “hatching eggs.” head queen n. (pl. head queens) Alternate forms: head-queen (pl. head-queens)


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 11: “Homosexual whose chief operating areas are toilets.” hefemale n. heighthon n. (pl. heighthons) hell-spark the pronoun v. (third-person singular simple present hell-sparks the pronoun, present participle hell-sparking the pronoun, simple past and past participle hell-sparked the pronoun) To use gendered pronouns in a non-traditional manner, either to cause confusion or to provoke thought. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “to deliberately use gender pronouns in such as way as to cause confusion; deliberately using pronouns in previously non-traditional ways…” hello hen n. (pl. hens) Etymology: From hen, being the female equivalent to cock. (rare) A trans girl or trans woman’s penis. 2019 Urban Dictionary: “a dick on a pre-surgery trans girl… also known as a ‘hen’ as the feminine version of a ‘cock’” herbals n. Over-the-counter herbal concoctions which claim to be able to stimulate androgenic or estrogenic hormones. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “dietary supplements purported to have feminizing effects. Most have no clinical proof they work as claimed” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “dietary supplements purported to have feminizing effects. Most have no clinical proof they work as claimed” hermana n. [ca] Translation(s): sister [en]; germana [es] hermaphrodyke n. (pl. hermaphrodykes) (rare, derogatory) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘hermaphrodite dyke’…” (rare, derogatory) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…’androgynous dyke’…” he-she n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a masculine woman of any orientation…” hetero adj. Shortening of heterosexual. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “Short for heterosexual.” hetero n. (pl. heteros) hidden queen n. (pl. hidden queens) An individual who is unable to admit, reveal, or disclose their sexual identity, which is anything other than heterosexual, to themselves and/or others, despite the fact that others may already be aware of or suspect their identity. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 99: “someone who is unable to admit their sexuality either to themselves or to others, despite the fact that other people have already guessed. Also crushed fruit, hidden queen.” hide the candy v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Thanks to my gaff, honey—a way of life!” high camp adj. high camp n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 74: “obvious and affect homosexual behaviour” (drag) 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “High Camp is the kind of drag that wants to impress – those queens who are so flawless and beautiful that they make you gag.” high drag n. Drag consisting of large-than-life portrayal of femininity (or masculinity), thereby producing its own distinct kind of femininity (or masculinity) 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “High drag is about over aggregating all the stereotypes of not just femininity but what one thinks of Drag Queens. It involves big hair, big boobs, and big hips, over the top costumes. These Queens are, for the most part, larger than life. They command attention and normally become the center of attention when they walk into a room or bar.” high femme n. high queen n. (pl. high queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 74: “an active gay man” high whore drag n. To be entirely in drag attire. 2017 Urban Dictionary: “In full drag attire” hole n. (pl. holes)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…among gay men, the anus…”


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…among f2ms, the vagina…” home-grown adj. Alternate forms: home grown


2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Physical characteristics of the transitional goal of gender appearance that come about from the use of hormones and are not surgically enhanced.” homme, en homo adj. homo n. (pl. homos)


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “Short for homosexual. Often used as a slur against gay men.” homovestite n. (pl. homovestites) [en] (rare, crossdressing, trans) 1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “A person who obsessively, compulsively and neurotically wears the clothing of zir own sex.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who obsessively, compulsively and neurotically wears the clothing of their own sex…” hon n. (pl. hons) honfidence n. hoogie n. Alternate forms: a hoogie


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Poor white trash; a redneck motherfucker.” horsewoman n. (pl. horsewomen) house n. (pl. houses) (ballroom) 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 615: “In ball culture, refers to a group to which individuals belong.” 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “An organization within the ballroom community that serves as a system of support, provides resources, and enters and throws balls. A traditional house is headed by a mother and father of the house.” house father n. (pl. house fathers)


2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Two leaders of a house who are known and respected in the ball scene. A mother or father of a house takes on a leadership role in providing support, knowledge, and camaraderie to the house’s ‘children.’” house mother n. (pl. house mothers)


2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “The queen mamas (or house mothers) run their own squadrons of drags. They have a style and their children run with it. They lead the girls in the vogue balls, help them with their make-up and fix their hair. They always have an old pair of shoes they’re willing to donate to the younger girls.”


2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “Two leaders of a house who are known and respected in the ball scene. A mother or father of a house takes on a leadership role in providing support, knowledge, and camaraderie to the house’s ‘children.’” hung like a gerbal, (to be) v. [en] (rare, derogatory) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “to have small genitalia, eg, to be ftm…” husband n. (pl. husbands) [en]


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “The aggressive (active) partner of two ‘Married’ homosexuals.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 75: “one’s lover – this term is used by a small percentage of older gay men…” hyper queen n. (pl. hyper queens) [en] (drag) 2020 Interrobang (“Types of drag you may not know of”): “Bio queens, faux queens, diva queens, hyper queens and female queens are all different names for the same style of drag. Mostly known as bio queens, they are cis gender women who apply feminine drag into their art. Basically biological women who exaggerate their female features using drag queen tips and tricks. Bio queens are often associated with women of Instagram that use heavy and colourful eye makeup to exaggerate their natural features to the point where they look like they could be drag queens. Although the makeup and costumes are a large part of this style in drag, many bio queens are also performers like traditional drag queens.” hyphenate queen n. (pl. hyphenate queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 75: “gay man with no fixed career who is often a model-actor-dancer-waiter or jack-of-all-trades” Ii ice queen n. (pl. ice queens) Alternate forms: ice-queen (pl. ice-queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 76: “man who wears diamond stud earrings”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 76: “gay man who is perceived as unapproachable” impersonation drag n. Drag which focuses on impersonation of another individual, such as Madonna, Cher, or Barbara Streisand. 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “Impersonation Drag can lead to a very lucrative career. Some of these Queens land positions with the stars they are impersonating and appear in their tours.” incognegro adj. (pejorative) 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “How to describe The Doll without her wigs and makeup.” incubator n. (pl. incubators) A location or situation which quickens an individual’s (“egg’s”) realizing that they are transgender. 2017 Reddit (r/ask_transgender): “what have you done… you’ve sent them to the incubator” in face adj.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “In drag… your face is y’makeup.” it pron. it’s y’fantasy, girl phr. Alternate forms: it’s y’fantasy, baby


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “It’s what y’think or wish or pretend could or would or did happen.” Jj Jack n. A tomboy. A woman who is an outlaw. jam adj. Heterosexual. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “a normal person, often not wise to homosexuality.” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 11: “Adjective synonymous with butch.” Jane n. A woman considered to be masculine. jean queen n. (pl. jean queens) jenderpunk n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genderfucker with a masculine expression…” Jimmy Dean queen n. (pl. Jimmy Dean queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 77: “a rebel” jockey n. A lesbian considered to be masculine and/or butch. jockstrap n. joey n. (pl. joeys) (Australian, 20th cent.) An intersex person. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…an intersexual…” A gay man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a homosexual male…” A young boy or man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a young man or boy…” A lesbian considered to be masculine or butch. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a masculine… lesbian…” A woman considered to be masculine or butch. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a masculine woman…” John n. (pl. Johns) (early to mid-1960s) A lesbian considered to be masculine or butch. John-and-Joan n. (rare, derogatory) An intersex person. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an intersexual…” (rare, derogatory) A gay man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a homosexual male…” John F. n. Alternate forms: John F Etymology: Derived as a shortening of the name of the U.S. President John F Kennedy. (rare) A term of endearment in reference to a trans man, especially one perceived as having strong leadership qualities. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…an affectionate term for a female to male transsexual, especially one with a take charge attitude…” joyfriend n. (pl. joyfriends) juice n.


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “any external hormones used to appropriate certain secondary features (either FTM or MTF).” juice cocktail n.


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “any external hormones used to appropriate certain secondary features (either FTM or MTF). Also juice cocktail” juke joint n. (United States, Black) 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Black slang for a run-down ol’ club.” Kk kai-kai adj. (United States, gay male) Describing one who enjoys anal intercourse. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 11: “NYC MBS term. As an adjective, anally-minded.” kai-kai n. Alternate forms: kai kai (drag) Sexual intercourse between two drag queens. 2009 Urban Dictionary: “When two drag queens hook up.” 2016 Urban Dictionary: “When two or more drag queens have engage in intercourse. This can be done in or out of drag.” kai-kai v. To have sexual intercourse with someone, especially anal intercourse. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 11: “NYC MBS term… As a verb, to have sex with someone.” kaki n. (gay male) Sexual relations between two gay men of the same “type”, i.e. two gay men who are bottoms or two gay men who are tops. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 121: kaki [kyky] lovemaking between two homosexuals, both of the same type, ie plug with plug and socket with socket.” kamp n. (pl. kampe) [af] Translation(s): camp [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 78: “camp” kassie trassie n. Translation(s): closet queen [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 78: “closet queen” keyboard SRS n.


2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “The act of adopting an internet screen name of a gender other than the current biological gender, but is not transsexual, does not have GID and has no intention of transitioning.” kids n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “Young gay people.” ki-ki adj. (gay male) Referring to a gay man who prefers to date gay men of the same “type”, i.e. a gay man who is a bottom preferring to date other bottoms and a gay man who is a top preferring to date other tops. 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 26: Ki-ki (adj.): (Pronounced with each ‘I’ long.) A homosexual who desires sexual relations exclusively with homosexuals of his own type and proclivity.” (gay male) Describing one who enjoys anal intercourse. 1988 Hold Tight, p. 73: “I may be more ki-ki than some of you trade.” ki-ki, to go v. ki-ki queen n. (pl. ki-ki queens) kiki adj. (dated, derogatory, lesbian) Describing a lesbian who is considered to be neither butch nor feminine. 1964 Journal to Fulfilment: “Peg laughed. ‘I’m kiki. I can be either, depending on who I’m with. Comes in handy sometimes’.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”) 1994 Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex, p. 181: “Today lesbian butch / femme is acquiring more flexibility than it had in the ’70s when I came out… The butches I met in Perky’s would have laughed an idea like that right out the door. But then, those women were heavy mothers who would have thought Beebo Brinker was a kiki bra burner.” 2012 Autostraddle (“20 Lesbian Slang Terms You've Never Heard Before”): “1940s slang for a lesbian comfortable with either a passive or aggressive partner.” 2012 Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America, p. 168: “Although the issue seldom led to violence, butches and femmes were often adamant about rejecting what they called the ‘confused’ behavior of ‘kiki’ women, those who would not choose a role… Another New England woman recalls that ‘kiki’ also referred to two butches or two femmes who were lovers. They often had to… One denizen of the Village says that already by the 1940s one was expected…” kiki n. (pl. kikis) Alternate forms: ki-ki (pl. ki-kis), KiKi (pl. KiKis) (dated) A member of a subculture of a marginalized, stigmatized, or criminalized sexual community who engages in sexual intercourse another member of that same subculture, thereby being held in contempt by others of that community. 1935 The Underworld Speaks: “Kiki, a sexual pervert who has an affair with a member of his clique, and is therefore in very bad repute.” (dated, derogatory, lesbian) A lesbian who is considered to be neither butch or femme. 1947 Gay/Lesbian Almanac, p. 626: “In New York… the expression is ‘ki-ki,’ but no-one elsewhere seems to be familiar with this peculiar term.” 1982 Maledicta, Vol. 6, No. 1-2, p. 132: “Ki-ki (lesbian who goes either way).” 1992 Call Me Lesbian: Lesbian Lives, Lesbian Theory, p. 89: “Ignored, however, in previous and current discussions of roles among Lesbians is the ‘ki-ki.’” 1992 Discourse: Berkeley Journal for Theoretical Studies in Media and Culture, Vol. 15, p. 184: “For example, Faderman views butches, femmes, and kikis as roles imitative of heterosexual models and not part of primary, unique lesbian sociosexual identities… In the 1950s and 1960s, this sexual identity is complicated by the flourishing of butch and femme roles, as well as… For their part, butches and femmes found these women ‘kiki’ – neither butch nor femme, women who didn't know what they really wanted, women who were giving in to society's expectations regarding dress or behavior…” 1993 Boots of Leather, p. 213: “‘Yeah, they called them neither-nor, ki-ki. You find that now too, double role playing’.” 1996 Frontiers, p. 48: “We joked about reversal of expectations : ‘Get a butch home and she turns over on her back.’ But from all other reports, seriousness and the placing of implicit delimitations underlay the jokes. Lorde spoke of the stigma of being ki-ki (someone who changed her erotic role of butch or fem depending on her partner) in the Greenwich Village, New York, 1950s bar scene.” 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “kiki – in the days when butch/femme ruled in the bars, this was a derogatory term for someone who was neither butch nor femme.” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “A lesbian who does not fit into the traditional butch or femme role category. This is an outdated derogatory term that was largely used several decades ago in the gay and lesbian bar scene.” 2011 Urban Dictionary: “A lesbian who is neither butch nor femme, and who is attracted to other women who are neither butch nor femme. This term was in use in the lesbian community at least through the 1970s.” 2014 Rednecks, Queers, and Country Music, p. 146: “The array of erotic personas included male fairies, rough trade, jockers, wolves, and husbands and female femmes, butches, kikis, ladies, studs, and bulldaggers.” 2016 The SAGE Encyclopedia of LGBTQ Studies, p. 174: “Lesbian and bisexual women's working-class communities were organized around butch–femme identities; an individual who did not identify within either role was referred to somewhat pejoratively as a ‘kiki.’ Butch–femme identities served as…” (dated, lesbian) A lesbian who is comfortable dating partners who consider themselves to be bottoms or tops. 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “1940s slang term for a lesbian comfortable with either a passive or aggressive partner.” 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A 1940’s term used to describe a lesbian that has no preference over a passive or aggressive partner.” (gay male) A gay man who is versatile in terms of preference being the penetrated and penetrating partner during sexual intercourse. 1960 “Father Flotsky’s Triumph”: “Kiki, you nafka, you!” 1970 American Slang (“Homosexual Slang”): “The term kiki … on the east coast … refers to an individual who functions sexually either as a passive partner or as an aggressor.” (gay male) A gay man who enjoys simultaneous oral and genital intercourse. 1965 Homosexual Generation: “Kiki: A male homosexual who indulges in the oral and genital homosexual method at the same time. Most of the fags like the rectal method best and prefer to be the receiver.” (gay male, bisexual male) A bisexual person, especially a bisexual man. 1970 American Slang (“Homosexual Slang”): “The term kiki is defined on the west coast as ‘bisexual’.” 2007 Urban Dictionary: “a man who swings both ways” (drag) Sexual intercourse between two drag queens. 2009 Urban Dictionary: “When two drag queen [sic] have sex (hook up) with each other.” 2012 Urban Dictionary: “When two drag queens have sex with each other.” 2014 Urban Dictionary: “Alternate spelling of Kai kai… The act of flamboyant fornication between drag queens whilst still in drag.” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “when two drag queens have sex in full drag” 2017 Urban Dictionary: “When drag queens have sex with each other. (Pronunciation: Kai-Kai)” (United States, drag, ballroom) A gathering of friends for the purposes of gossiping and chit-chat. 2012 “Let’s Have a Kiki”: “Let’s have a kiki / I wanna have a kiki / Lock the doors tight / Let’s have a kiki” 2012 Urban Dictionary: “A party including good music and good friends, held for the express purpose of calming nerves, reducing anxiety and stress and generally fighting ennui. May involve locked doors, tea and salacious gossip.” 2012 Urban Dictionary: “A kiki is a party for calming all your nerves, spilling tea and dishing just desserts one may deserve. And though the sun is rising, few may choose to leave.” 2012 Urban Dictionary: “Gossiping, talking shit, or any other casual chatting, typically between two gay men. Can also be used as a noun to refer to the latest gossip.” 2013 Urban Dictionary: “A sleepover for gay guys” 2016 “Pray & Slay”: “Get on my knees and have a kiki with Jesus” 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “A kiki is a low-key function, sometimes including dancing and friendly competition. Always fun, never serious…” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “a slang term in gay culture referring to friends gathering to spill the tea, or simply just engage in casual conversation.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “A Kiki is a party for calming all your nerves. We’re spilling tea and dishing just desserts when they deserve. And though the sun is rising, few may choose to leave. So shade that lid and we’ll all bid adieu to your ennui. Let’s have a Kiki.” (LGBTQ) Small talk, chit-chat, or gossip. 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “A term used for gossip, small talk, chatting, or a heart to heart.” (rare) A heterosexual boy or man who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to lesbians. 2016 Urban Dictionary: “A straight man/boy that is in love with lesbians” kiki v. (third-person singular simple present kikis, present participle kiki-ing, simple past and past participle kikied) (US) To meet with one’s friends without any predefined agenda or goals. 2005 Urban Dictionary: “Kiki is also a verb, like to party or to get overly excited catching up with your girlfriends.” 2009 Urban Dictionary: “gossiping, chatting about shallow things, being silly with friends” 2010 Stonewall: The Riots That Sparked the Gay Revolution, p. 130: “We spent a whole lot of time kiki’ing around—fooling around.” 2016 Superficial: More Adventure from the Andy Cohen Diaries: “Went home, changed for my show, kikied with Bruce and walked over to the apartment for my weekly meeting and Sally was just walking into the building from Sirius.” 2019 Glamour (“How Two Women Turned $12 Into the Curvy Con, the Biggest Plus-Size Event at Fashion Week”): “‘I still had my corporate job, so we would talk on GChat all day while I was at work,’ says Olisa. (She’s still based in New York; Garner Valentine has since relocated to Georgia. Both are in their 30s.) ‘To the outside world, I was working diligently, but I was really kiki-ing with my friend.’” killer queen n. (pl. killer queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 22: “When in combat, he, along with other soldiers, is spoken of as being a killer queen (late ’60s).”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 78: “a gay man in the permanent defence forces” king n. (pl. kings) A lesbian. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Same as dike.” A lesbian who is perceived as being very masculine or very butch. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 177: “A very masculine lesbian; a bull dyke.” kinging n. king it v.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “to be a drag king…” know my T v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Knowing where my candy’s hidden; knowing that I even have candy.” קוֹקְסִינֶל (koksinél) n. (pl. indef. קוֹקְסִינֶלִים‎, fem. counterpart קוֹקְסִינֶלִית‎) [he] Etymology: From קוקסינל, the Hebrew transliteration of French Coccinelle (“Ladybug”), the stage name of famous French singer and trans woman Jacqueline Charlotte Dufresnoy, who visited Israel during the 1960s. (derogatory, trans) A trans woman, drag queen, gay man, or a man considered to be feminine. 跨兒 n. [zh] Alternate forms: kuà'ér (Pinyin); ㄎㄨㄚˋ ㄦˊ (Zhuyin); 跨儿 (Simplified Chinese) Etymology: From 跨 (kuà, meaning to step across, to cross over, etc., itself also used as shorthand for trans, transgender, or gender transitioning) and the diminutive suffix 兒 (ér, meaning a child, one’s own child, or an adolescent; usually implies a sense of maleness). Usage notes: Used almost exclusively in Mainland China. (informal, trans) A trans person. kyky n. (gay male) Sexual relations between two gay men of the same “type”, i.e. two gay men who are bottoms or two gay men who are tops. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 121: kaki [kyky] lovemaking between two homosexuals, both of the same type, ie plug with plug and socket with socket.” Ll label queen n. (pl. label queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 79: “pretentious gay man” ladyboy n. (pl. ladyboys) Alternate forms: lady boy (pl. lady boys)


2008 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “Thought to have originated in Thailand where feminine boys in the various clubs in Thailand dress as women and provide sexual favors to the clientele. They are very convincing and usually their true gender is only revealed when undressed.” ladystick n. (pl. ladysticks) lean cuisine queen n. (pl. lean cuisine queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 79: “gay man on a permanent slimming diet” legendary adj.


2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “Nowadays, anything our favorite pop star does is legendary. But in ballroom, one could only be legendary through hard work and talent. Legendary meant you put in the effort to win your trophies, that you were the best of the best.” lesbian drag queen n. (pl. lesbian drag queens) lesbian stowaway n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an f2m who joins the lesbian community and tries to be a lesbian because he doesn’t know what else to do” lesvian n. (pl. lesvians) (rare, derogatory) A lesbian who is said to have masculine characteristics so as to appear to have gone through some of the processes associated with virilization. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a virilized lesbian” letting in n.


2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “The process of inviting someone into your personal space and sharing your diverse SOGIESC with them; may more accurately represent the experiences of those in circumstances where it is unsafe to ‘come out.’” levis queen n. (pl. levis queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “levis queen homosexual with a jeans fetish.” li’l Debbie snackin’ cake pumps n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Shoes with less than a three-and-a-half-inch heel.” lipstick butch n. (pl. lipstick butches) living openly adv.


2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Describes LGBTQ+ people who are comfortably out about their sexual orientation or gender identity – where and when it feels appropriate to them.” locker room queen n. (pl. locker room queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 80: “gay man who joins a gym primarily to hang about in the change rooms and get thrills from seeing other, usually straight, men in the showers and sauna”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 80: “gay man who hangs about gym locker rooms for the purpose of having sex” Lola n. (rare) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A crossdresser, transvestite, or drag queen. Not commonly used since the 1980’s. From a popular 1970’s song.” lopitoffame n. (pl. lopitoffamies) [en] (rare, humorous, trans female) Gender-affirming penectomy. low camp n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 80: “tacky drag”


2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “While High Camp is the apotheosis of the drag illusion, Low Camp is when the illusion draws attention to its own artificial nature. Low Camp includes pastiches of celebrities, drag that blurs gender roles, and drag that moves beyond mere impersonation of the opposite gender to something else entirely.” low drag n. low femme n. low queen n. (pl. low queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 80: “a passive gay man” lower surgery n. (pl. lower surgeries) Mm m4t ma’am v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “To be referred to as female, usually when you want to be: ‘I got ma’amed at the store today.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “To be referred to as female, usually when you want to be: ‘I got ma’amed at the store today.’” macho trap n. (pl. macho traps) magazine queen n. (pl. magazine queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 81: “gay man who reads glossy magazines avidly” まいぼつ n. [ja] Alternate forms: maibotsu (Romanji); 埋没 (Kanji) A complete burial, that is, a burial of the whole body often in a ceremonial manner. (trans) The state of living as one’s true gender. まいぼつする n. [ja] Alternate forms: maibotsu suru (Romanji); 埋没する (Kanji) To be completely buried, that is, as a full body and often in a ceremonial manner. (trans) To live as one’s true gender. mail-fail n. Alternate forms: mailfail mail-fail v. Alternate forms: mailfail mail-failing v. Alternate forms: mailfailing main queen n. (pl. main queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 81: “attractive gay man, much in demand sexually” mammary mint n. (pl. mammary mints) man cave n. (pl. man caves) mandyke n. (pl. mandykes) Alternate forms: man-dyke (pl. man-dykes) A masculine or butch woman. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a masculine woman of any orientation…” A woman whose behavior is perceived to be stereotypically masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a woman who takes a male cultural role while not necessarily passing as male…” mangina n. (pl. manginas) Etymology: Overlapping blend of man and vagina. (rare, gay male) An anus, often of a gay or bisexual man. 2001 Nifty Erotic Stories Archive (“A Few Good Men 17”): “Pushing my legs even further up, he brought my butthole into a position that he could easily drive into at an even greater angle. From there, he put an end to my dick dance and proceeded to deep dick me into fucking oblivion. After a couple minutes of slow and deep fucking, he sped up to fully enjoy the pleasures of my mangina.” (United States, derogatory, campus) A man, usually heterosexual, who is perceived to be feminine, or to have qualities perceived as feminine, such as being reticent, reserved, fearful, touchy, or overly emotional in given situations. 2004 Campus Slang: “mangina – male who is afraid or reserved.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Derisive term for a man’s feminine side - especially when he’s picky, touchy, or emotional about something seemingly minor… A weak willed man…” (derogatory) A man who is considered to be submissive to a dominant or domineering woman. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A man totally controlled by a woman…” (rare, gay male) A gay man who is considered to be a bottom in the context of anal intercourse specifically. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “The partner that takes it in the anus in a male homosexual relationship…” (rare) A male sex worker or prostitute. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A male prostitute, gay or straight…” (rare, derogatory) A person who is perceived as male and who has a penis and testicles, who desires to have a vulva and vagina solely for sexual purposes. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A male looking persons [sic] who desires to change his genitals into female for no other reason than sex.” (rare, trans male) The vulva and vagina of a trans man. (derogatory) A man who is considered to be a feminist. manmode n. Alternate forms: man mode, man-mode manmode v. (third-person singular simple present manmodes, present participle manmoding, simple past and past participle manmoded) manmoder n. (pl. manmoders) Alternate forms: man moder (pl. man moders); man-moder (pl. man-moders) manpussy n. (pl. manpussies) Alternate forms: man-pussy (pl. man-pussies) The anus of a man, usually of a gay man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the anus, esp in a male…” A man, when considered as a sex object. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a male considered as a sex object, esp a catamite…” The anus of a trans man. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…the anus, esp in a transman…” Marjorie n. A gay man who is considered to be affected, flirtatious, flamboyant, and/or feminine. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “homosexual who is affected, flirty, very effeminate, ‘sweet and lovely’.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 81: “margarine” Mary Kay girl n. (pl. Mary Kay girls) [en] (derogatory) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term made by some gender-different people to describe others who may be perceived as crossdressers; as having a deficiency in in fashion or makeup skills; or simply poorly-transparent, transgendered or transsexual people…” MBM n. mean queen n. (pl. mean queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 82: “a difficult gay man” ménage à nyaa n. [en] Etymology: Formed as an overlapping of two terms. First, the English term ménage à trois, a borrowing from the French term ménage à trois (“household of three”), referring to a threesome. Second, the English term nyaa, meaning a girl or woman’s exclamation of happiness or hyperactivity, used almost exclusively on the internet. This itself is a borrowing of the Japanese ニャー, referring to the sound a cat makes, equivalent to the English meow. The use of nyaa itself derives from the heavy presence of kemonomimi (獣耳, “animal ears”) in anime and manga, including of nekomusume (猫娘, “catgirl”). Such anime and manga are digested commonly in North America and have been a mainstay of the U.S. American cultural appetite since the late 1990s, although it is stereotypically assumed that trans women consume more anime and manga than cisgender people do. (rare, internet, trans female) A threesome between trans women. metamorph n. (pl. metamorphs)


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Used by some people who choose not to identify as transsexuals, to express their belief they are not changing their gender, but changing their body to reflect their inner feelings and gender identity.” midshit n. (pl. midshits) mile high queen n. (pl. mile high queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 82: “gay man who has sex in aircraft while the aircraft is in flight” Miss Crystal Meth n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “A powdered form of speed that, once-upon-a-time, gave y’mama a run for her money.” Miss Thang n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Me.” Miss Thing n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “You.” mister sister n. (pl. mister sisters) [en] みすだんでぃ n. [ja] Alternate forms: misu dandi (Romanji); ミスダンディ (Katakana) Etymology: Pseudo-anglicism (wasei eigo, 和製英語) formed from miss + dandy. (dated, derogatory) A trans man. みすたーれでぃ n. [ja] Alternate forms: misutā redi (Romanji); ミスターレディ (Katakana) mitten queen n. (pl. mitten queens) [en] Mixter


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 616: “A gender neutral version of using Mr. or Miss.” mof adj. [af] (South Africa, farming) Describing an individual animal or livestock which is considered to be unsuited for South African conditions, usually due to cross-breeding with imported animals. (South Africa, derogatory, slang) Said of a man, who is perceived as feminine. mof n. [af] Etymology: Transferred use of the Dutch mof, a derogatory term used originally to refer to Germans, and later expanded to all foreigners or immigrants. The Dutch mof itself is formed from the German Muff, used chiefly in Northern Germany to refer to a stench or moldy smell. This, in turn, is a backformation of the verb muffen, meaning to stink or to have a moldy smell. See also mof (adj.). (South Africa, farming) An imported animal, especially one used as livestock. 1910 The East London Dispatch: “A cross-breed from a yellow mof and the second generation was a light yellow.” 1913 Africanderisms: “Mof, An imported animal; mofschaap, a merino sheep; mofbeest, an imported bull or cow.” moffette n. [af] (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A lesbian. moffie adj. [af] (South Africa, obsolete) Describing an individual animal or livestock which is considered to be unsuited for South African conditions, usually due to cross-breeding with imported animals. 1948 Kaffirs Are Lively: “The official delivered a homily on the dangers of moffie cattle – the Afrikaans word for soft breeds, unsuited for the tough African heat and veld, which derive from crossing with English stock.” (South Africa, slang) Said of an individual, usually a man, who is seen as lacking in toughness or physical strength. 1990 Wake Up Singing: “What kind of moffie headmaster doesn’t jack the boys?” 1991 Style: “‘You!’ the sergeant-major screamed at him… ‘You with the moffie clothes…’” moffie adj. [en] (South Africa, slang) Describing an individual animal or livestock which is considered to be unsuited for South African conditions, usually due to cross-breeding with imported animals. 1948 Kaffirs Are Lively: “The official delivered a homily on the dangers of moffie cattle – the Afrikaans word for soft breeds, unsuited for the tough African heat and veld, which derive from crossing with English stock.” (South Africa, slang) Said of an individual, usually a man, who is seen as lacking in toughness or physical strength. (South Africa, derogatory, slang) Said of a man who is perceived as feminine. (South Africa, derogatory, slang) Of or relating to a gay man. (South Africa, derogatory, slang) Of or relating to a male-to-female crossdresser. 1954 Drum: “‘Madame’ (as Joey is known on the stage) leads a troupe of brilliant Coloured female impersonators who perform their popular ‘Moffee Concerts” to packed houses.” moffie n. (pl. moffies) [af] Etymology: Unknown. Said by some to derive from the term mofskaap (also mofschaap), a merino sheep. It appears that this theory derives from a mistranslation of mofskaap as “castrated sheep,” with that origin related to the stereotype that gay men are not masculine. More likely is derivation from mof, said of livestock which are considered to be unsuited for South African conditions, usually due to cross-breeding with imported animals. See mof and moffie (adj.) above for more information. From there, the term mutated into moffie and then was used to refer to individuals said to lack toughness. This translated later into a sense of unmanliness, which then was transferred to gay men, and later to male-to-female crossdressers. Another theory suggests abbreviation of the Afrikaans term moffiedaai, a dialectal variant or hermafrodiet (“hermaphrodite”). Alternate forms: moffee (pl. moffees) (South Africa) A hermaphroditic animal or an animal possessing characteristics sexed in relationship to production of spermatozoa and oocytes. 1983 Daily Dispatch: “A kind of fish species in which you can’t tell the difference between male and female. I think the South African word is moffie.” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A man who is considered to be feminine. (South Africa, pejorative, slang) A gay man who is considered to be feminine. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 82: “effeminate gay man – generally with pejorative connotations” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A gay man. 1977 Drum: “Moffies… have been engaged in meticulous research to trace their ancestors right back to the days of Van Riebeeck…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 82: “gay man” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A man who is perceived to be weak in terms of spirit or in terms of physical strength. moffie n. (pl. moffies) [en] Etymology: Unknown. One theory proposes derivation from the Dutch slang mofrodiet (“hermaphrodite”). Another poses potential descent from the British nautical jargon mophy (“a delicate well-groomed youth”) as well as mollie (alternate form molly), referring generally to a feminine gay man. Yet another considers direct descent from the Afrikaans moffie, itself deriving from mofskaap, mof, or moffiedaai. See moffie [af] above for more information. Other unsubstantiated theories which are almost certainly untrue are derivation from the Afrikaans moffie meaning “mitten” or from the English mauve, which became associated with being gay in the 1890s (with that decade known as the Mauve Decade). (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A male-to-female crossdresser. 1960 The Goddam White Man: “Moffies. They don’t like women but they like women’s clothes… But Achmed was not a proper moffie; he just liked fooling with boys.” 2010 IRIN On Line: “The so-called moffies, or transvestites.” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A man who is considered to be feminine. (South Africa, pejorative, slang) A gay man who is considered to be feminine. 1977 Quarry ’77: “Uncle Achmet saw two moffies holding hands… in Loop Street. The sight of the two effeminate young men, dressed in quasi-feminine clothing, caused the old man considerable disquiet.” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A gay man. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 137: “(Cape Town gay sl, fr sl moff = hermaphrodite) homosexual…” 1997 Boyhood: “There are rumours that Theo is a moffie, a queer.” 2011 IOL News: “The boy claimed he was forced to perform oral sex to adults. ‘It tasted bad. I wanted to throw up, but my grandfather (accused) said I must not be a moffie (gay)’.” (South Africa, derogatory, slang) A gay person. 2011 IOL News: “I am heterosexual! … Let’s say that i lied and that i told you that I’m a lesbian, a ‘faggot’, a ‘moffie’, ‘is’tabane’, and a ‘tom boy’.” moffiedom n. [af] (South African, derogatory) 1977 Drum: “Moffies… have been engaged in meticulous research to trace their ancestors right back to the days of Van Riebeeck. Jackie Heyns gives… an exclusive insight into the early days of moffiedom.” 1982 Sunday Times: “I would like to lodge with object towards the use of the word ‘moffiedom’.” 1990 Staffrider: “Moffiedom is a flourishing and flamboyant part of the Cape lifestyle.” moffiegevaar n. [af] Etymology: From moffie and gevaar (“danger”). Literally translated as “moffie peril” or “homosexual peril”. (South African, derogatory) 1990 Weekend Mail: “Rooigevaar, Swartgevaar and even Moffiegevaar.” molly n. (pl. mollies) [en]


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 195: “The occasionally heard use of molly to mean a male homosexual is from Miss Molly, an 18th-Century term referring to homosexuals.” (plural) 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 35: “boob[ie]s 1. prominent female breasts… Syn: … mollies (Brit gay sl)…” mones n. [en] Alternate forms: ’mones


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Slang for hormones.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “hormones” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “hormones” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “abbreviation - ‘hormones’” 2010 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Re: Can tucking make your genitalia shrink?”): “I have heard some stuff about tucking not being too good for fertility, but as transexual women, this often won’t bother us as the mones do this anyhow.” mop v. (United States, gay male, ballroom) 2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “Mopping is another way of saying stealing or robbing. Balls are built around glamour and fantasy, but for the poor queer people of color who competed in them, expensive accessories were out of reach… When people want to participate in a ball but don’t have the clothes, they mop.” morphodite n. (pl. morphodites) [en] Alternate forms: morphrodite (pl. morphrodites), morphydite (pl. morphydites) mother n. (pl. mothers) [en] Descendants: drag mother, house mother A madam, a bawd, a procuress, a brothel-keeper. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 197: “A madam or brothel-keeper…” A public house landlady or similar. One’s wife or spouse. (United States, Black) A married woman. (United States, Black) The senior member of a pimp’s group of sex workers or prostitutes. (United States, Black) A man who is considered to be feminine. (United States, Black) A gay man. (United States, gay male) 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 13: “Male who has brought out subject. Also used humorously in conversation or correspondence (see daughter).” (United States, gay male) A term used self-referentially by a gay man who is considered to be feminine. mother superior n. (pl. mother superiors) Alternate forms: Mother Superior (pl. Mother Superiors) A madam, a bawd, a procuress, a brothel-keeper. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 202: “A madam or brothel-keeper…” An older, more experienced gay man, especially one who is open about their sexual orientation. Mr. Man n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Fine, good-looking, and firm.” MtM n. [en] muff v. [en] (trans female) Sexual penetration of the inguinal canal either by one’s finger or by pushing the testicle back into it, as practiced among some trans women. muffing n. [en] むねつぶし n. [ja] Alternate forms: munetsubushi (Romanji);ムネツブシ (Katakana); 胸潰し (Kanji) Translation(s): binder [en] A binder. muscle queen n. (pl. muscle queens) [en] 木桶飯 n. [zh] Alternate forms: mùtǒngfàn (Pinyin); ㄇㄨˋ ㄊㄨㄥˇ ㄈㄢˋ (Zhuyin); 木桶饭 (Simplified Chinese) Etymology: mùtǒngfàn sounds close to “MTF” when spoken. Rice and side dishes (飯), served in, and occasionally cooked in, a wooden bin (木桶). (trans female, humorous) A trans woman. my T n. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Knowing where my candy’s hidden; knowing that I even have candy.” my tea n. Nn なべしゃつ n. [ja] Alternate forms: nabeshatsu (Romanji); ナベシャツ (Katakana) Translation(s): binder [en] A binder. nance n.


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 205: “A male homosexual…” nancy n. (pl. nancies) Alternate forms: Nancy (pl. Nancies)


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 205: “A male homosexual…”


1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “An effeminate man…”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 84: “nothing, no” nancy boy n. (pl. nancy boys) Alternate forms: nancy-boy (pl. nancy-boys); nancyboy (pl. nancyboys); Nancy Boy (pl. Nancy Boys); Nancy boy (pl. Nancy boys) A boy or man who is considered to be feminine. 1959 Dictionary of Medical Slang and Related Esoteric Expressions, p. 125: “An effeminate male.” 1973 The Routledge Dictionary of Historical Slang: “…Also an effeminate man…” A boy or man who is considered to be a bottom in the context of anal intercourse. 1973 The Routledge Dictionary of Historical Slang: “A catamite…” A gay man who is considered to be a bottom in the context of anal intercourse 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 84: “a passive gay man” A boy or man who is thought to be, or is, gay. necronym n. (pl. necronyms) nellyectomy n. Any of an imaginary set of medical procedures that could be carried out on a man in order to make him more camp or feminine. neodrag n. neo-pinkpill n. (incel) new woman n. (pl. new women) A feminist. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(circa 1900 US) a feminist” A trans woman who has had vaginoplasty. night queen n. (pl. night queens) [en] no fats/fems phr.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 84: “no over-weight, no queens” no fats, femmes or flamers phr. no-ho adj. Alternate forms: no ho


2004 Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, p. 39: “This is even more true for the newer and more radical genders that youth are starting to explore, such as… no-ho tranny boys (no-hormones)…” no-man’s land of sex n. no-op adj.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Usually refers to a transsexual who has transitioned socially, but will not seek sex reassignment surgery.” no-op n. nonbinary passing n. nonguynary adj. non-equity queen n. (pl. non-equity queens, abbr. NEQ) nonguynary non n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a non-transgendered person…”


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “alternately, a non-operative transgendered person, a transgendered person who does not intend to have surgery…” non-op adj.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Usually refers to a transsexual who has transitioned socially, but will not seek sex reassignment surgery.” non-op n. (pl. non-ops) (trans female) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who lives as female but does not plan to have SRS.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who lives as female but does not plan to have SRS.” (trans) 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “transsexual who has not and will not have sex reassignment surgery. May also refer to transgendersists [sic] and autogynephiliacs…” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A trans-identified person who has received Sexual Reassignment Surgery/Sex Confirmation Surgery.” not ’less y’mama says go phr.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Not unless I give y’permission.” にゅーはーふ n. [ja] Alternate forms: nyūhāfu (Romanji); ニューハーフ (Katakana) Etymology: Pseudo-anglicism (wasei eigo, 和製英語) formed from new + half. The suggestion being that male-to-female crossdressers and trans women are half-male and half-female. (derogatory) A male-to-female cross-dresser. (derogatory, reclaimed, trans female) A trans woman. Oo œuf n. (pl. œufs) [fr] Translation(s): egg [en] (zoology) An approximately spherical or ellipsoidal organic vessel produced by many arthropods, vertebrates (namely most fish, amphibians, reptiles, birds, and monotremes), and molluscs that houses the embryo within its membrane or shell during early stages of development. (cytology) The smaller, non-motile gamete produced in anisogamous organisms, better known as the ovum. (trans) A person who is regarded as being transgender by others but has not realized it yet themselves. oldshit n. (pl. oldshits) old tom n. Alternate forms: Old Tom (United States) A lesbian. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 205: “A lesbian…” (United States) A sex worker catering to lesbian clientele. (United States, lesbian) An older lesbian. on E prep. phr. (trans female) on T prep. phr. (trans male) 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “When a person takes the hormone testosterone.” おかま n. [ja] Alternate forms: okama (Romanji); オカマ (Katakana); 御釜 (Kanji) A pot. A volcanic caldera. (dated) Of a heterosexual man, one’s wife. (archaic) A female servant. (slang) An individual’s buttocks, particularly those of a man. (derogatory, reclaimed, gay male) A gay man. (derogatory) A man who is said to speak or behave in a feminine manner. おなべ n. [ja] Alternate forms: onabe (Romanji); オナベ (Katakana); 御鍋 (Kanji) Etymology: Originally polite phrasing of なべ (nabe, “pot”), a shortening of なべ物 (nabemono, “hot pot”). Usage notes: While reclaimed (or even neutrally used outside of the community), おなべ is still considered derogatory when referring to female-to-male crossdressers and trans men. Polite term for a pot. (derogatory, reclaimed) A lesbian. (derogatory, reclaimed) A lesbian who is perceived to be butch or masculine. (derogatory) A female-to-male crossdresser. (derogatory) A trans man. オネエ n. [ja] Alternate forms: onē (Romanji); オネェ (Katakana) (derogatory, reclaimed) A gay man who is considered to be feminine. (derogatory, reclaimed) A drag queen or a male-to-female cross-dresser. (derogatory, reclaimed) A trans woman. one joke n. one of tomorrow’s men adj.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “A young male child with gayish or effem’nate tendencies.” opera queen n. (pl. opera queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 86: “gay man who knows a lot about opera and never misses a production” Oprah queen n. (pl. Oprah queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 86: “gay man who is sensitive and very touchy, feely, who indulges in warm, fuzzy moments” orch n.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “short for orchiedectomy” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “short for orchiedectomy” orchie n. (pl. orchies) Alternate forms: orchy


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “short for orchiedectomy” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “short for orchiedectomy” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “abbreviation - ‘bilateral orchidectomy’ - aka castration. The surgical procedure that removes the testicles of male to female transsexuals.” OTF other hole n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the vagina, especially among gay f2ms…” out adj.


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “(to be) Out: To be open about one's sexual identity with someone or in a situation…”


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “living openly about one’s TS status”


2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “Refers to varying degrees of being open about one’s sexual orientation and/or sex identity or gender identity.” out v.


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Out [someone]: 1. To disclose a second person's sexual identity to a third person, especially without the second person’s permission…” (reflexive) 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Out [someone]: … 2. To disclose one's own sexual identity, sometimes without choosing to…” outed adj.


2017 IOM LGBTI (“Terminology Guidance - Glossary of Terms”): “Describes an individual’s sex, sexual orientation or gender identity being made public against their will or without their knowledge, often for malicious purposes” 2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “A person’s SOGIESC being made public without their consent or knowledge, often for malicious purposes.” outing n.


2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Exposing someone’s LGBTQ+ identity to others without their permission…” outie n. (pl. outies) outta face adj.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 171: “...outta drag… your face is y’makeup.” ovin n. (rare) 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “a person of any gender identity (including agender), DSAB, or sexual orientation who is euphoric about and wants to be identified as having these anatomical features: breasts, a uterus, and a vagina” Pp pack v. package n. (pl. packages) packer n. (pl. packers) packing n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a genitally female person wearing a strap on dildo or prosthetic phallus…” pageant queen n. (pl. pageant queens) [en]


2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “Pageant queens love to compete. You’ll catch them at every competition – and they always mean business. Expect flawless lipsyncs, fierce looks and a walk-in wardrobe that’d make Carrie Bradshaw gag. Pageant queens typically have big looks and even bigger hair.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A pageant queen is one that shines under the spotlight. They take drag to extreme heights and invest in everything they can to land on top of the competitions they join.” pansy n. (pl. pansies) [en]


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 216: “A male homosexual…”


1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “An effeminate gay man, usually used derogatorily. The term has been in use at least since the 1920’s.”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 87: “a passive gay man” panty doll n. (pl. panty dolls) [en] A male-to-female cross-dresser who finds wearing feminine underwear to be especially cathartic. paraculture n.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Sometimes used to denote the Transgender Community, as a euphemism for the term ‘subculture’.” part time adj. (abbr. PT) Alternate forms: part-time


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “part-time, living part time as a female” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “part-time, living part time as a female” party friend n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “A friend to socialize with only; a partner in crime in the club and bar scene.” pass v. (third-person singular simple present passes, present participle passing, simple past and past participle passed) (originally United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 87: “to pretend to be heterosexual in mainstream society in order to avoid social/family sanction, or in order to retain one’s job” (trans) 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “To be able to successfully assume the gender role opposite of physical sex when interacting with society.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “To successfully appear in public in one’s chosen gender role without arousing attention or suspicion.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “To be accepted without question or suspicion in your chosen gender.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “To be accepted without question or suspicion in your chosen gender. The term has a problematic history and connotation…” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “To portray the appearance of a specific gender convincingly.” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “To be able to generally come across as one’s current gender to strangers…” passable adj.


2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Having the ability to portray the appearance of a specific gender convincingly.” passing n. [en] Translation(s): ぱっしんぐ [ja]


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “To be able to successfully assume the gender role opposite of physical sex when interacting with society.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “The ability to be accepted as a member of the sex you are transitioning into.”


2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “Perceived as cisgender or heterosexual (also called straight-passing) by others…” passing man n. (pl. passing men) passing woman n. (pl. passing women) ぱっしんぐ n. [ja] Alternate forms: passhingu (Romanji); パッシング (Katakana) Etymology: Calque of the English term passing. Translation(s): passing [en] A flashing of headlights. (trans) Said of a binary trans person, to be perceived as cisgender; i.e. for a trans man to be perceived as a cisgender man or a trans woman to be perceived as a cisgender woman. (tennis) A passing shot. passing privilege n.


2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “the belief that those who ‘pass’ enjoy greater acceptance in society.” passoid n. (pl. passoids) pasty n. (pl. pasties) Alternate forms: pasties (usu. pluralized) 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 217: “Tiny pieces of decorative cloth that are pasted over the nipples by female erotic dancers…” Paula Barry n. [af] Etymology: Gayle originating from the name of drag queen Paula Barry, about whom little could be discerned, other than what is reported in Ken Cage’s Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens, i.e. that Paula Barry was a “notorious drag queen who used to live in Mayfair, Johannesburg, in the 1950s”. (South Africa) A male-to-female crossdresser. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 87: “transvestite” pay-off queen n. (pl. pay-off queens) PC dyke n. (pl. PC dykes) peak trans peeled queen n. (pl. peeled queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 87: “circumcised gay man” penis origami n. Perils-of-Pauline queen n. (pl. Perils-of-Pauline queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 87: “gay man who seeks thrills and likes danger in sexual activity” pharmasexual pinkpill n. (internet, incel) A notional pill said to be taken by those assigned male at birth (AMAB) who have been unsuccessful romantically or sexually in some capacity, who supposedly believe that transitioning and living as a trans woman will somehow provide more success at those areas of life. pinkpill v. (internet, incel) pig in a wig n. (pl. pigs in wigs) ping, (to) v. A variant of gaydar, in which a transgender person or a cross-dresser detects another transgender person or cross-dresser in public. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “one transgendered person detecting another transgendered person…” pixie n. (pl. pixies) A gay man. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “pixie … A homosexual male. The term is factitious; note its similarity to fairy in literal meaning.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 88: “gay man” plumbing n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “the uro-genital tract; the genitals” poison queen n. (pl. poison queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 88: “gay man who trades malicious and vicious gossip” pooner n. (pl. pooners) post-op adj. Alternate forms: post op.


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Post operative (after SRS) transsexual. May not be considered a transsexual at this point.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Postoperative. A transsexual who has completed sex reassignment surgery.” 2004 click4porno.net: “Thumbs of post op tranny in hardcore action. Click POST OP TRANNY and see all movies and pictures.” post-op n. (pl. post-ops)


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Post operative (after SRS) transsexual. May not be considered a transsexual at this point.” 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “post-op — post operative transsexual, one who has completed all of the surgeries he or she intends to have.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “had SRS. Sometimes used as an objectifying adjective by transfans: ‘Post-ops don’t intereste [sic] me at all.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “had SRS. Sometimes used as an objectifying adjective by transfans: ‘Post-ops don’t intereste [sic] me at all.’” 2007 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “Transsexuals who have had surgical procedures to make their body as congruent as possible with their preferred sex. For MTF transsexuals this is generally considered to be after Genital surgery (GRS, orchiectomy, and/or penectomy), for FTM transsexuals it is generally considered to be after top surgery.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “transsexual who has had sex reassignment surgery…” potato queen n. (pl. potato queens) [en] (United States, derogatory) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 89: “man who likes sex only with white men” poufbunny n. (pl. poufbunnies)


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “One who enjoys petticoats, crinolines and any kind of bouffant fashion.” poundcake queen n. (pl. poundcake queens) pour (the) tea (over it) v. (third-person singular simple present pours (the) tea (over it), present participle pouring (the) tea (over it), simple past and past participle poured (the) tea (over it))


1989 Gay Community News, Vol. 17, No. 13 (“A man called ‘Breeze’”): “If I was alive / back in that / Tex*ass redneck town / they’d still ‘pour tea’ / about the one called ‘Breeze’.” 1992 Bay Area Reporter, Vol. 22, No. 27 (“Elton, Wronged”), p. 27: “Pouring the Tea… But get this. After this bio was published in England, John invited Norman to tea to…” 1996 Kick!, Vol. 2, No. 13 (“That Fine Ass Nigga On 13th & H Streets”): “We all knew, that no matter what else or who else we’d done that week or where else we’d been, we’d somehow meet up at Tracks to pour tea over it, talk about it and dance to it…” 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Tell The Doll the truth, or dish the dirt!” 2004 ScotsGay, No. 59 (“Topping and Butch”): “‘Camp humour and satire sit together perfectly,’ grins Andrew ‘Butch’ Simmons as he pours the tea, ‘our song ‘Never Mind’ is an example.’” pre-op adj. (not comparable) Alternate forms: preop Happening before a surgical operation, shortening of preoperative. Having not yet been operated upon, shortening of preoperative. (dated, trans) Describing a trans person who is planning on undergoing, or otherwise wants to or intends on undergoing, gender-affirming surgery. 1976 Transvestites & Transsexuals: “I don’t want to be thought of as a ‘pre-op’ transsexual, or a ‘homo in drag’.” 1986 Los Angeles Times: “A… call for models: ‘physical prodigies of all kinds, … dwarfs, giants, … pre-op transsexuals, bearded women, active or retired sideshow performers… etc.’” 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Pre-operative transsexual (Pre-op TS): “One who is actively planning to switch physical sexes, mostly to relieve _gender dysphoria_. Probably, but not necessarily, _cross dresses_, takes _hormone therapy_, and gets _electrolysis_. (See _transsexual._)” 1993 Lesbian and Gay Studies Reader: “The term ‘transsexual’ is used to describe persons who are either ‘pre-op’ or ‘post-op’–that is, whether or not they have undergone penectomy, hysterectomy, phallo- or vaginoplasty.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Pre operative (before SRS) transsexual. Normally implies the individual is planning SRS…” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Preoperative. A transsexual who has not had sex reassignment surgery.” pre-op n. (pl. pre-ops) A preoperative patient or procedure. 1971 AORN Journal: “Preops–a communication technic… Our staff proposed to the hospital administration the inception of preoperative visits to each patient scheduled for surgery.” An area in a hospital for patients awaiting surgery.


1991 North Dakota Quarterly: “She took him down to… lower Manhattan to see the preoperative transvestites… the ‘pre-ops’ as she called them, … strutting along 12th Avenue.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Pre operative (before SRS) transsexual. Normally implies the individual is planning SRS…” 1996 Performing Arts Journal: “The ideal figure of Venus as a pre-op transsexual… Another gorgeous pre-op ushers her into existence.” 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “pre-op — pre-operative transsexual, one who has not yet had any surgeries but intends to do so.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “haven’t had SRS, but plans to. Sometimes used as an objectifying adjective by transfans: ‘I only like pre-ops.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “haven’t had SRS, but plans to. Sometimes used as an objectifying adjective by transfans: ‘I only like pre-ops.’” 2005 Runner’s World: “She was still a pre-op, anatomically male transsexual; nothing below the neck had been surgically altered.” 2005 Time Out New York: “Roberta Close… is by far the most famous of her homeland’s travestis, having won the title of Miss Gay Brazil while still a pre-op.” 2007 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “Transsexuals who desire to to make their body as congruent as possible with their preferred sex, but have not yet had the surgical procedures for whatever reason.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “transsexual who has not had sex reassignment surgey [sic]…” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A trans-identified person who has not received Sexual Reassignment Surgery; implies that the person does intend to receive such surgical procedures” 2017 Bad Boy Boogie: “‘Did her time pre-op’.” princess n. (pl. princesses) A female member of a royal family other than the queen, especially a daughter or granddaughter of a monarch. c. 1385 Knight’s Tale: “To speke of roial lynage and richesse Thogh that she were a queene or a princesse.” 1872 The Princess and the Goblin: “She did not cry long, however, for she was as brave as could be expected of a princess of her age.” 1872 The Princess and the Goblin: “She did not cry long, however, for she was as brave as could be expected of a princess of her age.” (archaic) A female sovereign or ruler, a queen. a. 1425 Mandeville’s Travels: “When þe prince was deed, he [sc. Machomete] wedded þe princess…” The female spouse of a prince. 1447 Legendys of hooly wummen: “Olibrius hyr profryd his wyf to be And that she shuld be clepyd a pryncesse.” A female, or by extension anything personified as feminine, that resembles a princess in pre-eminence or authority. c. 1390 Minor Poems Vernon MS: “Heil puyred princesse of paramour..Þou prey for vs to þi sone so fre.” (slang) A sex worker or prostitute. 1705/1707 Hudibras Redivivus: “A Princess next to her dear Bully / Mov’d most Majestically slowly; / … / She stretch’d her self most wond’rous wide, / To show what Room there was between / Those Legs, where many a Spark had been].” A form of address to a woman or girl, especially when used as a term of affection or endearment. 1709 Modern Prophets: “Ah!—parbleiu my Princess, my Queen, vat you please.” 1952 From Here To Eternity: “Look who’s heah. Hello, Princess. I thought you had retired already.” (originally and chiefly United States) A young woman, usually wealthy, whose behavior reflects her status as overindulged or pampered, especially one who is perceived as arrogant, uncaring, vain, spoiled, or selfish. 1966 What’s Jewish Girl?: “A Jewish Princess always has a gala Sweet Sixteen party.” (gay) A feminine gay man who is considered relatively youthful in age or mannerisms. 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 37: “Princess (n.): A very young homosexual.” 1979 Maledicta: “Princess (younger than a queen) is camp, and jailbait and forbidden fruit are hardly applicable in countries where the age of consent is very low.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 89: “young, effeminate gay man, not old enough to be a queen yet…” (lesbian) A lesbian who is considered relatively youthful in age or mannerisms. (gay) A Black gay man. (lesbian) A Black lesbian. (BDSM) A person who is submissive in the context of a BDSM scene or relationship. 1989 The Language of Sadomasochism: “Dominant… seeks beautiful, naughty Princess for loving relationship, incorporating sensible, erotic spanking.” privy queen n. (pl. privy queens) Alternate forms: privy-queen (pl. privy-queens) (gay male) A gay man who is said to seek out sexual encounters in and around public restrooms. 1965 Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 37: “Privy Queen (n.): A male homosexual who frequents public toilets in search of trade.” pronoun game n. The act of referring to individuals via “opposite”-gendered pronouns or nouns (i.e. swapping ‘ma’am’ for ‘sir’, ‘she’ for ‘he’, etc.). pshrink n.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “therapist” 2003 iXor.com (“creepy psychiatrists in movies”): “my pshrink looks like disney heroes ken berry and dean jones. is that evil?” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “therapist” 2023 Reddit (r/MtF): “Really struggling with something my pshrink said” psych adj. Shortened form of psychiatric. 1963 Sweet Daddy, p. 56: “I hear docs specially psych docs make a fortune.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a… psychiatrist: ‘I got my psych letters.’” Shortened form of psychological. 1977 The Animal Factory, p. 128: “Man, I should get a good psych report… I’m the most normal person in this madhouse.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a psychologist… : ‘I got my psych letters.’” Shortened form of psychedelic. psych n. (United States, campus) Psychology, as a course. 1922 Ottowa Campus: “I take three kinds of psych.” (United States, campus) Psychiatry, as a course. (Australia) Superstition. (originally United States) A psychiatrist. Psychology, as a discipline. 2000 Stalker: “When Cindy had been heavily into psych.” (United States) A psychiatric patient. (New Zealand, prison) An inmate serving a murder sentence. 2001 Boobslang: A Lexicographical Study of the Argot of New Zealand Prison Inmates, the Period 1996-2000: “psych n. 1 an inmate in prison for murder.” PT adj.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “part-time, living part time as a female” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “part-time, living part time as a female” PTA n. Alternate forms: P.T.A.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Party, Talk, and Alcohol; associated with the agenda of the S.L.U.W.W.” pump v. (third-person singular simple present pumps, present participle pumping, simple past and past participle pumped)


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to be injected with free silicone, a cheap but illegal way to change your body shape.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be injected with free silicone, a cheap but illegal way to change your body shape.” pumping n. A silicone injection. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 618: “A slang term for silicone injection, which entails the injection of silicone into certain parts of the body for cosmetic enhancement (i.e., lips, buttocks, hips).” punk n. A young female sex worker or prostitute. An adolescent boy. (United Kingdom, underworld) One’s girlfriend. (United States) A young criminal or member of a street gang. (United States, prison) A young male inmate used for sexual intercourse by other inmates. (United States) A tramp’s younger companion, especially in a sexual context. (United States) A coward or weakling.


1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “younger adolescent boy, allows men to take liberties with him for small amounts of money; beginning of ‘trade’.” (United States) A gay man, especially one who is younger. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 240: “…in American underworld slang; or, outside prison, a young homosexual.” 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Black slang for… gay boy.” (United States) A male sex worker or prostitute. (United States) A man who is considered to be feminine. 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Black slang for sissy…” punk v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to be read: ‘Somebody punked me at the bar last night.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be read: ‘Somebody punked me at the bar last night.’” purge n.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “To attempt to suppress cross-gender identity or desires by discarding all items such as clothing, cosmetics, literature, and ceasing contact with the Community.” purge v.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “To attempt to suppress cross-gender identity or desires by discarding all items such as clothing, cosmetics, literature, and ceasing contact with the Community.” pussy stunting n. put a cooking down v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “To cook a feast that entails a lotta time and a lotta love.” Qq 棄名 n. [zh] Alternate forms: qìmíng (Pinyin); ㄑㄧˋ ㄇㄧㄥˊ (Zhuyin); 弃名 (Simplified Chinese) Translation(s): deadname [en] (trans) deadname. quarantrans n. (rare, early 2020s, internet, trans) An individual who began transitioning or came out as transgender during the COVID-19 shelter-in-place order, or shortly afterward during the COVID-19 pandemic. queen n. (pl. queens) Alternate forms: quean (pl. queans) A gay man, especially one who is considered to be stereotypically feminine, usually in a sexual context, i.e. the penetrated partner during anal intercourse or the individual providing oral intercourse. 1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “A male homosexual, especially one of the effeminate type, and a pedicant or fellator. The term [queen] is not applied to virile homosexuals or to pedicators…” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 13: “Used with various connotations, like belle, such as… any homosexual…” 1961 Sex from A to Z: A Modern Approach to All Aspects of Human Sex Life, p. 319: “Fairy; a male homosexual who casts himself in the female role.” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “when used by itself usually indicates an effeminate homosexual…” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Effeminate male homosexual” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “An effeminate gay man.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “a gay man who is extremely effeminate”


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 13: “Used with various connotations, like belle, such as… a passé belle…”


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 13: “Used with various connotations, like belle, such as… a very mad belle.


1941 Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns (“Language of Homosexuality: An American Glossary”): “There are many combining forms, such as flaming queen, tea-room queen, railroad queen.” 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, pp. 13-4: “This popular and common word is found as a suffix (—Queen) in innumerable compounds, to denote a homosexual specializing in any activity.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “used with another noun to indicate place of residence, profession or personality” A gay man, regardless of any other individual qualities. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “A male homosexual.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A homosexual. This is the most commonly used designation for themselves and for each other.” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 243: “A male homosexual…” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A male homosexual.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “designation among gay men for one another”


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Leader of a group of female homosexuals.” A boy or man who is considered to be feminine. 2005 Tonos Digital: Revista Electrónica de Estudios Filológicos (“Glosario de términos gays compuestos por la palabra ‘queen’ y su traducción”): “an effeminate boy or man.” Abbreviated form of drag queen. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A drag queen.” A globalized term referring to an individual assigned male at birth or otherwise raised as male who portrays a female gender identity or a feminine gender expression, in relationship to the sociocultural landscape in which they were raised. 2008 To Be Who I Am: Report of the Inquiry into Discrimination Experienced by Transgender People: “Another term for someone born with a male body who has a female gender identity.” queen bee n. (pl. queen bees) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “wealthy older gay man who surrounds himself with pretty young gay men, and holds court” queen bitch n. (pl. queen bitches) queen for a day n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “straight married man who frequents health clubs or public toilets for sex with other men, before returning home to his wife and children.” queen kong n. (pl. queen kongs)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a large, hairy-breasted woman…” a 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a female to male transsexual who is taking testosterone but has not yet had a breast reduction…” a 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…an intersexed person who has breasts and body hair…” queen mama n. (pl. queen mamas) (drag) 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “The queen mamas (or house mothers) run their own squadrons of drags. They have a style and their children run with it. They lead the girls in the vogue balls, help them with their make-up and fix their hair. They always have an old pair of shoes they’re willing to donate to the younger girls.” queen of clubs n. queen of denial n. queen of scotch n. Alternate forms: Queen of Scotch


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “a gay alcoholic” Queen of Sheba n. queen of spades n. queen out v. queen (it) up v.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “act in an ostentatiously effeminate manner” queen without a country n. queenly adj. queens’ Christmas n.


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bitch… —es’ Christmas… Halloween… Syn: queens’ Christmas.” queen’s tank n. queen’s vernacular n. queeny adj. Of men, feminine. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang: “effeminate.” queer adj. (derogatory, reclaimed) Gay, when referring to men specifically. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “anything or anyone homosexual.” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “Homosexual, usually meaning reference to men…” (derogatory, reclaimed) Gay or lesbian. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 244: “Used either as a noun or an adjective, homosexual…” 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “Homosexual, usually meaning reference to men…” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “be gay” (derogatory, gay male) Referring to sexual activities beyond the group-defined norm. (rare, reclaimed) An umbrella term relating to any of various fluid, multiple, overlapping, or interactive identities, especially those related to stigmatized or minoritized groups or persons. 1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Queer: … 2. Sometimes used for an even wider spectrum of marginalized or radicalized groups and individuals.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Sometimes used for an even wider spectrum of marginalized or radicalized groups and individuals.” 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “A term often used to express fluid identities and orientations that are counter to the mainstream…”


1992 Usenet (soc.motss): “Queer: 1. Reclaimed derogatory slang for the sexual minority community (eg. _Queer Nation_.) Not accepted by all the sexual minority community, especially older members.” 1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Reclaimed derogatory slang for the sexual minority community (e.g. Queer Nation.) Not accepted by all the sexual minority community, especially older members.” (LGBTQ, reclaimed) Having a sexual identity, gender modality, or gender identity which does not correspond to, or that challenges, cisheteronormative ideas of sexuality or gender. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “an overarching term for anyone outside gender norms, including gays, lesbians, bisexuals, as well as TS women.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “an overarching term for anyone outside gender norms, including gays, lesbians, bisexuals, as well as TS women.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Umbrella term for people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, transsexual, intersexual, genderqueer, or of any other non-heterosexual sexuality, sexual anatomy, or gender identity…” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “An umbrella term to refer to all LGBTIQ people” 2014 The Austin Chronicle (“‘Trans 101’ Glossary”): “Reclaimed term to include a sensibility as well as indication of gender/sexual nonconforming status…” 2017 IOM LGBTI (“Terminology Guidance - Glossary of Terms”): “Traditionally a negative term, queer has been re-appropriated by some LGBTI people to describe themselves. It is considered inclusive of a wide range of sexual orientations and gender identities.” 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “…an umbrella term for non-heteroromantic-heterosexual and/or non-cisgender identities…” 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Often used interchangeably with LGBTQ+ or as a catch-all to include many people who do not identify as exclusively straight and/or folks who have non-binary or genderexpansive identities…” 2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “Traditionally a negative term, queer has been reclaimed by some people and is considered inclusive of a wide range of diverse sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. It may be used as an umbrella term for people with diverse SOGIESC, or as an alternative to the phrase ‘people with diverse SOGIESC’ or the acronym LGBT. Queer is used by many people who feel they do not conform to a given society’s economic, social and political norms based on their sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression.” (reclaimed) Referring to a specific sexual orientation or identity which is queer. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “…a sexual orientation, which advocates breaking binary thinking and seeing both sexual orientation and gender identity as potentially fluid.” (reclaimed) Referring to a specific gender identity which is queer. (reclaimed) A political label and identity related to both historical and contemporary socio-cultural marginalization and minoritization in the context of a cisheteropatriarchal society and which is intricately tied with one’s social class and status. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A political statement… which advocates breaking binary thinking…” 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “…often used as a political statement to reject white, cis/heteronormative, exorsexist, fatphobic, ableist lgbt+ politics/activism…” (reclaimed) A simplified label utilized when one’s gender or sexual identity is perceived as uncommon, difficult to explain, or otherwise complex. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A simple label to explain a complex set of sexual behaviors and desires. For example, a person who is attracted to multiple genders may identify as queer.” (reclaimed) An intentionally vague label for one’s gender or sexual identity. 2018 Tumblr (“Glossary (prod at me through the inbox if you think this list needs to be added to/ altered)”): “…meant to be inclusive and intentionally vague…” queer n. (pl. queers) (derogatory, reclaimed) A gay man. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 90: “a gay man” (derogatory) A gay person who is considered to be of lower class. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “A homosexual, usually of low class and habits.” (derogatory) A gay man who is considered to be feminine. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Effeminate gay man…” (derogatory, reclaimed) A gay man or a lesbian. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 244: “Used either as a noun or an adjective, homosexual…” (derogatory, gay male) A person whose sexual inclinations go beyond the group-defined norm. queer v. queerer adj.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “transgendered” queer queen n. (pl. queer queens) A lesbian. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a lesbian…” A trans woman. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a m2f transsexual…”

Rr radar v. (rare, internet) 1996 Androgyny RAQ (“The Angel’s Dictionary”): “Used by the author to describe the stuttering of pronouns or honorifics owing to gender confusion. Named for Radar O’Reilly’s invariable ‘sir, ma'am, sir’ when addressing Major Hoolihan. Also suggests the scanning motion of the eyes that often accompanies the stutter.” radical drag n.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 91: “dressing in women’s clothing while not attempting to pass oneself off as a woman, including wearing beards and moustaches or, more provocatively, exposing one’s genitals, so there is no doubt that one is a male” railroad queen n. (pl. railroad queens) [en] rapehon n. (pl. rapehons) [en] re-op n. read n. (pl. reads) [en]


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 618: “Also sometimes used as slang for a verbal attack or taunting (i.e., ‘Wow, she told her off—that was a read!’)” read, (to) v. Etymology: A shortening of the phrase to read the riot act (variant: read the riot law), meaning to tell off severely and threateningly. The phrase referred to how the 1715 Riot Act would be read before unruly crowds before attacking with police or troops if they refused to calm down and disperse. (Irish) Of a priest, to censure. 1961 Teems of Times and Happy Returns, p. 178: “You will be expelled from the school and your family’s name read from the pulpit on Sunday.” 1993 Shawlies, Echo Boys, the Marsh and the Lanes, p. 83: “You wouldn’t back-answer the parish priest. Oh no. He’d read you from the pulpit. (US Black, campus) To reprimand. 1952 From Here to Eternity, p. 353: “‘Don’t bawl, for Christ sake.’ ‘Then why read me off? I’m not bawling’.” 1982 Patriot Game, p. 5: She got all mad again and came in and started reading out Mrs. Tobin and Bishop Doherty told her to shut up, there was no need to make a big deal out a small matter.” (Black and Latine LGBTQ community, ballroom, drag, trans) To call attention to another’s flaws, usually in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner. 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 169: “read 1. to tell somebody off – but good.” 1997 Framing Culture: Africanism, Sexuality and Performance, p. 186: “Snapping, we are told, comes from reading, or exposing hidden flaws in a person’s life, and out of reading comes shade…” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to insult someone, as in, ‘I had to read her after she was acting shady.’” 2003 Performance: Media and Technology, p. 179: “CB: ‘So, one time I read him and we were standing downstairs at the front desk in the drom and I read him and there was this little bell…’ In the first example, the interviewee [CB] used snapping to read his white friend in a playful way…” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to insult someone, as in, ‘I had to read her after she was acting shady.’” 2013 Queer Looks, p. 114: “[One] assumes that such language contests are racially motivated—black folks talking back to white folks. However, the ball world makes it clear that blacks can read each other too.” read, to be v. (present participle being read, past participle been read, first-person present indicative singular am read, first-person present indicative plural are read, second-person present indicative singular are read, second-person present indicative plural are read, third-person present indicative singular is read, third-person present indicative plural are read, first-person preterite indicative singular was read, first-person preterite indicative plural were read, second-person preterite indicative singular were read, second-person preterite indicative plural were read, third-person preterite indicative singular was read, third person preterite indicative plural were read) (Black and Latine LGBTQ community, ballroom, drag, trans) To have one’s flaws called attention to by another, usually in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner. (cross-dressing) To determine that someone who is cross-dressing is of a different gender category than previously supposed. 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 81: “when a cross-dresser is recognized by a member of the public as not belonging to the sex which he/she is dressed as.” (trans) To recognize that someone might be transgender; to identify someone, previously thought to be cisgender, as transgender. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to be recognized as transsexual, esp. by a non TS.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to be recognized as transsexual, esp. by a non TS.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 612: “When a person is identified as trans while attempting to present as their affirmed gender (also known as being ‘read’).” real girl n. (pl. real girls) (derogatory) A cisgender woman or girl. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A very strongly disliked term within the Community.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a very loaded term used to describe non-transsexual women. Considered highly offensive.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a very loaded term used to describe non-transsexual women. Considered highly offensive.” realness n. (trans) 1999 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Social Services (“Appendix A: A Glossary of Transgendered Definitions”): “Realness: Is a street-term that many youth use to remark on how authentic one appears to be.” (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “The ability to blend into a group that is not necessarily one’s own. For example, if a category calls for ‘executive realness,’ contestants will be expected to serve their best rich CEO look.” real woman n. (pl. real women) (derogatory) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A very strongly disliked term within the Community.” reaming queen n. (pl. reaming queens) [en]


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “Reaming queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” recast male n. (pl. recast males)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a female to male transsexual…” repfuel repressor n. (pl. repressors) reverse clocking n. Clocking whether or not one has been clocked. RFD queen n. (pl. RFD queens) Alternate forms: R.F.D. queen (pl. R.F.D. queen) rice queen n. (pl. rice queens) [en] (United States, derogatory, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 91: “man who likes having sex with oriental men” rim queen n. (pl. rim queens) [en] road queen n. (pl. road queen) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 91: “hitchhiker who will have sex in exchange for a lift” Roger n. (derogatory) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “A post-SRS transsexual woman who does not pass and has given up trying to pass…” rotten egg n. (pl. rotten eggs) [en] rubber queen n. (pl. rubber queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 92: “gay man who likes to wear rubber or latex clothing during sex” Ss sailor queen n. (pl. sailor queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 23: “An impecunious young sailor, bored and restive, will sell himself to pier angelies (camp, kwn SF, ’70s = sailor queens).” saint n. (pl. saints) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a highly respected leader in the f2m community…” salad queen n. (pl. salad queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “man who enjoys rimming as part of his sexual activity” same-gender loving n. (abbr. SGL) Alternate forms: same-gender loving, same-gender-loving Etymology: Coined by activist Cleo Manago. (Chiefly and originally United States, Black) 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 618: “A self-identity used by some people attracted to those of the same gender. More frequently used in communities of color.” 2017 IOM LGBTI (“Terminology Guidance - Glossary of Terms”): “A phrase used in queer communities of color as an alternative to LGB. It was coined by activist Cleo Manago to better reflect the culture and experiences of persons of African descent.” 2020 University of Northern Iowa (“LGBTQ+ Glossary of Living Language”): “Coined for African-American use by Cleo Manago in the 1990s: an Afrocentric term some prefer to use instead of lesbian, gay or bisexual to express attraction to and love of people of the same gender.” 2021 UNHCR (“Glossary of Terms”): “A phrase used in some queer communities of color. It was coined by activist Cleo Manago to better reflect the culture and experiences of people of African descent.” sapatrans n. [pt-BR] Alternate forms: sapatrava Etymology: Overlapping blend of sapatão (literally “big shoe,” but also derogatory slang for a lesbian) and trans. (Brazil, trans female) A trans lesbian. (Brazil, travesti) A lesbian travesti. sari queen n. (pl. sari queens) (derogatory) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “Indian gay man” sash queen n. (pl. sash queens) scene queen n. (pl. scene queens) Schrödinger's trans woman n. (rare, internet, Twitter, trans female) A phenomenon wherein trans women are held to simultaneously contradictory standards by transphobic individuals. 2017 Twitter: “Schrödinger’s Trans Woman… ‘Homosexual man in denial’.. and ..’Invading womens spaces to sexually assault women.’ … ‘Not trying hard enough to be a woman’... and.. ‘conforming to gender stereotypes of femininity.’ … ‘Most trans people desist’... and …’why is everyone suddenly trans’” 2021 Twitter: “Schrodingers Trans Woman… When a trans woman is somehow simultaneously ‘a man’ but still being mansplained to” 2022 Twitter: “Schrödinger’s Trans Woman: A phenomenon in where a transphobe will always assume the person they are arguing with is a trans woman, or where they will find clockable traits in any picture they are shown with the assumption that the person is a trans woman.” screaming queen n. (pl. screaming queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “an obvious homosexual”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “gay man who speaks loudly in public places in an affected, camp manner, usually for the purpose of drawing attention to himself” screen queen n. (pl. screen queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “man who knows all about movies and movie stars” sea-fairy n. (pl. sea-fairies) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “beach bitch… Syn: sea-fairy (pej, fr seafarer)…” seafood queen n. (pl. seafood queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 93: “gay man who picks up sailors for sexual purposes” second puberty n.


2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “The physiological process a transsexual’s body goes through during transition.” second self n. secret sister n. (pl. secret sisters) [en] A drag queen or cross-dresser who keeps their cross-dressing as private as possible. secular preacher n. (pl. secular preachers) [en]


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a f2m who is an effective public speaker but not a minister, not necessarily Christian…” serve (it) v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “‘It’ is beauty, and if y’strut it well enough to catch The Doll’s eye, baby, y’earn her highest compliment.” (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “To bring it to the floor at 110 percent…” serve a look v. (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “To serve a look means you are not only wearing the outfit but you are giving a strut and bringing attitude.” serve face v. (ballroom) 2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “For example, to ‘serve face’ means you are showing every element of your face.” serve it on a platter v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “‘It’ is beauty, and if y’strut it well enough to catch The Doll’s eye, baby, y’earn her highest compliment.” shade n.


2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “Today, when celebrities unfollow each other on social, we call it shade. But it’s really much more than that. True shade is about the art form of a calculated, often backhanded insult.” shapeshifter n. (pl. shapeshifters) Alternate forms: shape shifter (pl. shape shifters)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a person who is capable of altering their cultural appearance to either male or female; a person who has had medical procedures to change their physical characteristics, esp a transsexual who has had sex reassignment…” An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves… Other similar terms on the FTM spectrum include … ‘Shapeshifter’...”


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Used by some people who choose not to identify as transsexuals, to express their belief they are not changing their gender, but changing their body to reflect their inner feelings and gender identity.” shaver n. (pl. shavers) A trans woman who shaves off her body and leg hair. s/he pron. she-he shell queen n. (pl. shell queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “beach bitch… Syn: …shell queen (obs, fr sl shell = bikini bathing suit)…” she-male n. (pl. she-males) Alternate forms: shemale (pl. shemales) (uncommon, derogatory) A drag queen who is seen as promiscuous. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Sometimes used as a dysphemism for ‘drag queen’ but often implies a degree of promiscuity. (pornography, derogatory) A trans woman who has not undergone gender-affirming vaginoplasty, with an implication of sexual objectification. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “‘Chicks with dicks.’ There is a strong degree of dislike for this term in the Community.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a sexualized term popularized in pornography for a TG who has not had surgery.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a sexualized term popularized in pornography for a transgendered woman who has not had surgery. Often considered highly offensive…” 2008 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “[shemale] is a usually derogatory term for a person who appears to be female, possessing both breasts and male genitalia. The term, along with tranny, ladyboy and others, is often used in sex industries to refer to a pre-operative transsexual who have [sic] not had sex reassignment surgery; although the industry is known to advertise catering to customer’s interests…” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “I will only use it to describe a transgenderists [sic] as a target in sexual fantasies…” (uncommon, derogatory) An intersex person. 2008 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “Less frequently, it is used to describe intersex people.” (uncommon, pornography, derogatory) A person who is assigned male at birth, who is considered as having both masculine and feminine sexual characteristics, regardless of identity. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A genetic male who has physical characteristics of both male and female…” (pornography, derogatory) A trans woman, with an implication of sexual objectification. 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “An *offensive term* used to refer to MTF trans individuals by the sex/porn industries to objectify, exotify and eroticize the trans body” she-man n. (pl. she-men) (derogatory) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “female to male transgendered people…” 神樂坂 n. [zh] Etymology: Orthographic borrowing from the Japanese surname 神楽坂 (Kagurazaka). The surname may originate from the Kagurazaka neighborhood in Tokyo, likely named as such around the 1820s, in the Edo Period. Supposedly the name originates from the shrines which echoed through the streets, with 神楽 (kagura, referring to sacred dancing and music performed at Shinto ceremonies) and 坂 (zaka, referring to hillside farmland or a slope or hill). Kagurazaka was (and is) known as a 花街 (hanamachi, “flower town”), where geisha (芸者) live and work. The usage by male-to-female crossdressers and trans women may be connected to a misunderstanding of Kagurazaka’s reputation, as geisha have stereotypically (and almost exclusively falsely) been connected with sex work, or is may have been a correct understanding of geisha as performing artists with distinct appearances (or it may be entirely unconnected). Usage online is said to have originally begun as a result of Google+’s strict username policy, before later being popularized by Taiwanese male-to-female crossdresser Unrei Kagurazaka (romanization uncertain; unable to find resources regarding this individual; rendered as 神楽坂雯麗 in Chinese). This use then later spread to mainland China. The Kagurazaka neighborhood in Tokyo, Japan. Orthographic borrowing of the Japanese surname 神楽坂 (Kagurazaka). Popular username (or part of username) utilized by male-to-female crossdressers and trans persons assigned male at birth in China for their online personas. she/they crisis n. (rare, internet, TikTok) Critical introspection of oneself in relationship to one’s gender identity, specifically externalized in relationship to pronoun use; usually involving a person assigned female at birth (AFAB) who had previously identified as female and used she/her pronouns, extending into utilizing they/them pronouns and identifying under the nonbinary umbrella or still questioning gender. shim n. (dated) A gay man who is considered to be feminine; by extension, a gay man who is considered to be a bottom. 1998 The Oxford Dictionary of Slang, p. 84: “…Also applied to an effeminate or passive male homosexual…” (derogatory) shit-and-piss queen n. (pl. shit-and-piss queens)


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 261: “One who obtains sexual gratification from urine and feces, technically known as a coprophile…” shoulderhon n. (pl. shoulderhons) show girl n. (pl. show girls) Alternate forms: showgirl (pl. showgirls)


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “A drag queen.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who performs drag shows” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who performs drag shows” shrimp queen n. (pl. shrimp queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 94: “man who likes sucking toes as part of his sexual activity” sidesaddle queen n. (pl. sidesaddle queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bisexual… sexually interested in both men and women… Syn: … sidesaddle queen (kwn LA, late ’50s: ‘Get lost! Sidesaddle queens were all the rage last week’)…” sil n.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “abbreviation for silicone” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “abbreviation for injectable silicone” sir v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “To be referred to as male, usually when you don’t want to be: ‘I got sirred at the store today.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “To be referred to as male, usually when you don’t want to be: ‘I got sirred at the store today.’” sissy n. (pl. sissies) Alternate forms: sissie


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 94: “a passive gay man” (dated, derogatory, medical) A child who was assigned male at birth who has been diagnosed with gender identity disorder. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A term codified by the mental health community for bioloigcally [sic] male children with gender identity disorder (in the sense of displaying feminine behavior).” sissy boy n. (pl. sissy boys) (dated, derogatory, medical) A child who was assigned male at birth who has been diagnosed with gender identity disorder. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “A term codified by the mental health community for bioloigcally [sic] male children with gender identity disorder (in the sense of displaying feminine behavior).” sissy-maid n. (pl. sissy-maids) sister n. (pl. sisters) [en] Translation(s): germana [ca]; hermana [es] (gay male) A gay man. 1948 The Dictionary of Social Welfare, p. 183: “A male homosexual.” 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “A homosexual.” (gay male) 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 15: “An intimate friend and confidant who is not a lover.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 94: “gay male friend” (gay male) Used by a gay man to refer to another gay man. 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A fellow homosexual.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Fellow homosexual” (crossdressing) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Term commonly used by male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in female attire and presenting as a woman.” sister boy n. (pl. sister boys) [en] A gay man. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 263: “A male homosexual…” sister with a shifter n. (pl. sisters with shifters) [en] sistuh n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “Everybody’s favorite sibling, me; but sometimes, you.” six months HRT hair n. sixty-nine queen n. (pl. sixty-nine queens) [en] Alternate forms: 69 queen (pl. 69 queens)


1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “69 queen… (All of the above are fairly well self-explanatory.)” size queen n. (pl. size queens) [en]


1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “A gay man who is especially interested in partners with large penises.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 94: “gay man who is obsessed with large, bigger than average penises” skag drag n. Alternate forms: skagdrag; skag-drag


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “The practice of flamboyantly wearing womens [sic] attire in an inappropriate manner, often as an incomplete outfit, with no attempt to present as a woman. An example would be someone with a beard wearing an evening gown and paratrooper boots.” A rough-and-ready attempt to put on drag, the result being that one’s masculine characteristics are either purposefully or accidentally not well hidden. 2016 Huffington Post (“Styles of Drag”): “Skag or Bear Drag depending on who you speak to is a style of drag where the queens do not attempt to hide their male appearance. In Columbus Ohio it normally involves big burly men with facial hair dressing in drag with make up but they don't shave their facial hair. Just imagine a big 300 lb man full beard and full face in a dress. They will typically reveal a big old hairy bear belly as well. Done correctly skag/bear drag is quite hilarious. If you have never seen it I highly recommend it.” skin queen n. (pl. skin queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 94: “man who likes uncircumcised penises” skin transvestite n. (pl. skin transvestites) S.L.U.W.W. n.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “[The] Savannah League of Uptown White Women; a li’l club that a couple of my friends and me started to honor the belief that all of us is entitled to spend our days sitting up under hairdryers, going to lunch, and riding round town shopping—all at somebody else’s expense.” slush queen n. (pl. slush queens) sluts with nuts n. smell it v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “To have a whiff of my perfume—a special blend of strawberry-vinegar and water.” smut queen n. (pl. smut queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 95: “gay man who likes pornography” snap queen n. (pl. snap queens) [en] snow queen n. (pl. snow queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 95: “gay man who uses cocaine” snot nose queen n. (pl. snot nose queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 95: “pretentious gay man” snowball queen n. (pl. snowball queens) [en] soft butch n. (pl. soft butches) [en] A butch lesbian who is considered to be comparatively less butch or masculine than other butch lesbians. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a butch lesbian who is, perhaps, not so stereotypically masculine as a stone butch” some kinda adv.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “The Doll’s own personal adverb.” spill my tea v. Alternate forms: spill my T To come out or be outed as transgender. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to have your identity divulged by someone: ‘Someone I used to work with spilled my T at my new job.’” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to have your identity divulged by someone: ‘Someone I used to work with spilled my T at my new job.’” spill the tea (third-person singular simple present spills the tea, present participle spilling the tea, simple past and past participle spilled the tea or spilt the tea) Alternate forms: spill the T


2012 Atlanta Tastemaker, Vol. 2, No. 4 (“What Gets Him in the Mood?”): “[Do you know what type of music turns your man on? Meet 3 guys who spill the tea on their fav tunes]” 2012 CARE, No. 18, p. 18 (“Should I Worry That He Earns Less Money?”): “They are up in your business because you invited them in by spilling the tea on what you and your man earn.” 2013 DBQ Magazine, Vol. 3, No. 1, p. 9 (“A Fun Quick Read”): “…she makes good on her promise to out her celebrity husband in the media by going on the top nationally syndicated radio talk show of Neicy Ross, an even more tacky version of Wendy Williams, and spills the tea on her man in delicious detail…” 2013 Brink Magazine, No. 26, p. 17 (“The Ones To Watch”): “Four different entrepreneurs and talents spill the tea on success, failure and lessons learned.” 2013 Strathmore News, Vol. 27, No. 2, p. 7 (“Flo Man”): “Ok, spill the tea Marcus: who was your first Valentine?” 2014 In Magazine, p. 13 (“Social Media Animal”): “My living room is called the Interior Illusions Lounge (which is the name of the room where contestants on the show “spill the tea” after showing their runway looks to RuPaul).” 2014 Gay Life, p. 5 (“Spring Is in the Air”): “Carlton, former GLCCB board member and longtime supporter of the Center, will be ‘spilling the tea’ in a monthly column, All T, No Shade.” 2014 CEO Magazine, p. 15 (“Behind the Scenes: CEO’s Holiday Photo Shoot”): “We tried to get Mrs. Roberson's recipe – but the PR & Marketing Expert would not spill the tea.” spiro n. spirogirl n. (pl. spirogirls) spit-drag n. Cross-dressing as a joke, often a male wearing high drag and sporting a moustache or beard. spokesherm n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a hermaphroditic spokesperson…” spokestran n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a transgendered spokesperson…” spooked adj.


1999 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Social Services (“Appendix A: A Glossary of Transgendered Definitions”): “Spooked: Is a street-term for the moment when someone finds out that an individual is not biologically the gender that they were presenting.” station queen n. (pl. station queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 96: “man who cruises at railway stations, particularly Park Station in Johannesburg in the 1970s and 1980s” stealth adj.


1990 The TV-TS Tapestry, No. 56 (“Who Speaks for the Transsexual?”), p. 9: “However, the transsexual community, labeled by some ‘The Stealth Transsexuals’, does not desire to go it alone, to be recognized as an entity and fight the establishment, or to relinquish the anonymity that once attained is not easily surrendered.” 1995 Cross-Port InnerView (“POST-OPinion”), p. 9: “In the words of Riki Anne, I’ve become a ‘stealth transsexual,’ a respected member of the community!? How did this happen? Is it desirable?”


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Living and passing in society in the opposite gender role, with absolutely no contact with the Community, and no knowledge of such by friends, coworkers, associates, etc.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “A term used to describe transgender individuals who do not disclose their trans status in their public lives.” 2021 Medium (“Gender Identities and Terminology: A Not-So-Basic Guide”): “Concealing one’s transgender status while fully living and passing as their current gender…”


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Highly closeted, giving no hint of being transgendered to friends, spouse, etc.” stealth adv. stealth n. A trans individual, usually a trans woman, who is perceived enough as a cisgender woman by cisgender people, so as to be able to live as one. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who passes well enough to live without divulging her TS status.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who is accepted as female well enough to live without divulging her TS status.” The state of a trans woman or a trans man who is generally perceived as a cis woman or cis man, respectively, by cisgender people. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Passing without being noticed.” The state of a trans individual who avoids coming out, either before transitioning or after transitioning, to others, usually for safety purposes. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Staying in the closet to keep and/or protect jobs, families or for self-preservation.” The state of a trans woman or a trans man who is generally perceived as a cis woman or cis man, respectively, even in the presence of other trans people. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Being unknown as transgendered even to other transgenders.” The state of a trans woman or a trans man who is generally perceived as a cis woman or cis man, respectively, to choose to not tell others about their status as transgender, for any reason. 2014 TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly (“Child”), p. 58: “Some of these children may elect to be stealth (maintain total privacy about their gender histories) as adults…” 2015 LGBTQI Terminology, p. 15: “– This term [stealth] refers to when a person chooses to be secretive in the public sphere about their gender history, either after transitioning or while successful [sic] passing.” 2016 BBC News (“Transgender terminology: 10 phrases you need to know”): “‘To be stealth means living your life as male or female and not letting anyone know that you have physically transitioned…’” 2018 The University of Connecticut Rainbow Center’s LGBTQIA+ Dictionary: “This term [stealth] refers to when a person chooses to be secretive in the public sphere about their gender history, either after transitioning or while successfully passing.” stealthcare stealth mode n.


1997 Understanding, Knowing, and Telling Transgender Realities, p. 165: “Participants often found themselves in the trap of wanting to connect with others, but being dissuaded because they felt guarded or were in the closet or stealth mode (passing and fitting in undetected).” 1999 Femme Mirror, Vol. 24, No. 4 (“In My View”): “What I attempt to do is not to ‘pass’ as a female, but to move through society in a stealth mode.” 1999 Transgender Community News, Vol. 13, No. 2 (“Coming Out…”), p. 25: “Considerable discussion and openness about feelings and options are essential in order to work this out, especially if the transgendered person had been hoping to transition and eventually operate in ‘stealth’ mode.” 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “Many [trans men] live in ‘stealth mode’ - that is, they live as men and not part of the queer community.” 2015 The Empty Closet, Vol. 1, No. 495 (“Both Sides Now: Above Average”), p. 24: “After a year of living in stealth mode below the radar I was ready to really step out and beyond most of that first year’s novelty. Where was support for me and my age group?”


2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 197: “a transgendered person who lives full-time in their preferred gender and does not reveal their birth sex to anyone.” stealth transsexual n. (pl. stealth transsexuals)


1990 The TV-TS Tapestry, No. 56 (“Who Speaks for the Transsexual?”), p. 9: “However, the transsexual community, labeled by some ‘The Stealth Transsexuals’, does not desire to go it alone, to be recognized as an entity and fight the establishment, or to relinquish the anonymity that once attained is not easily surrendered.” 1995 Cross-Port InnerView (“POST-OPinion”), p. 9: “In the words of Riki Anne, I’ve become a ‘stealth transsexual,’ a respected member of the community!? How did this happen? Is it desirable?”


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a transsexual who passes as a genetic man or woman…” steam queen n. (pl. steam queens) [en]


1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 28: “steam daddy[queen] middle-aged homosexual spending most of his time in the cloudy steamroom of a baths…” Stepford Wife requirement n. sticky rice queen n. (pl. sticky rice queens) [en] stipple v. (third-person singular simple present stipples, present participle stippling, simple past and past participle stippled) A way of altering one’s appearance used by some drag kings and trans men whereby a beard is created by dotting the chin with an eyebrow pencil. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an illusion of a beard created by dotting the chin using an eyebrow pencil or other marker…” stone butch n. (pl. stone butches) A butch, usually a butch lesbian, who does not like their partner touching their genitalia during sexual intercourse. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “…A butch can be sexually stone, as in, not being able to permit herself to be touched on the genitals for sex…” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a masculine lesbian who maintains male appearance and role even to the point of refusing to remove clothes during sex…” 2012 A Femme in NYC (“Butch Femme Dictionary”): “a butch that prefers not to have their genitals touched by her or his partner.” A, usually queer, woman who presents in an extremely masculine or butch manner. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a very masculine woman, usually to the point that she is mistaken for a man frequently…” 2018 PinkNews (“Lesbian slang dictionary: The big queer lingo glossary”): “A queer woman who presents extremely masculine.” A person who was assigned female at birth who presents in an extremely masculine or butch manner; such an individual may or may not identify themselves as transgender. 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “Most masculine of the Butches. They may pass as male without actually trying. May identify as transgender, that is identifying outside of the gender usually associated with females and will often be seen as male by the outside world. Does all or most of the above in masculine gender expressions. May or may not be sexually aggressive…” 2018 Refinery29 (“17 Lesbian Slang Terms Every Baby Gay Needs To Learn”): “Someone who presents extremely masculine. A stone butch might or might not identify as transgender.” 2021 HER (“The Official Lesbian Slang Glossary from HER”): “Womxn who is strongly masculine in character and dress. Displays female butchness or traditional ‘masculinity’ as opposed to a high femme.” stone femme n. (pl. stone femmes) A femme, usually a femme lesbian in a relationship with a stone butch, who does not like to touch their partner during sexual intercourse, instead preferring to be considered a bottom during most or all sexual activity. 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “A femme lesbian who never tries to flip or ‘melt’ her Stone Butch lover, but prefers to pleasure her lover by taking a passive role in sex.” 2012 A Femme in NYC (“Butch Femme Dictionary”): “A femme who is a bottom during sex and doesn’t want to touch her partner anywhere during sex.” A femme, usually a femme lesbian, who does not like to be touched either generally or under sexual or romantic circumstances; often such a person is considered to be a top during sexual intercourse. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “…a femme lesbian who does not like to be touched, much like a stone butch…” 2007 lesbian dating & relationships (“A bit of Lesbian Terminology”): “... A second definition is a femme lesbian who does not like to be touched, much like a stone butch.” 2012 A Femme in NYC (“Butch Femme Dictionary”): “A femme who doesn’t like her genitals to be touched and tops her sexual partners.” A femme, usually a femme lesbian, who adapts to their partners’ level of comfort regarding touch under sexual or romantic circumstances; such an individual often almost exclusively dates very masculine butches or stone butches. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a femme lesbian who never tries to flip or ‘melt’ her stone butch lover, but prefers to pleasure her lover by taking a passive role in sex…” 2012 A Femme in NYC (“Butch Femme Dictionary”): “A femme who enjoys sex, adapts to her partners’ level of comfort when touching them, and only dates very masculine butches and stone butches.” straight adj.


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 16: “Synonym for jam, butch, et al.”


1994 The Gender Home Page (“Transgender, Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Glossary and Acronym List”): “Colloquial for heterosexual/non-transgendered…” strapadictomy n. (pl. strapadictomies) [en] Etymology: When sounded out, rendered as strap + a + dick (penis) + to + me, literally describing a phalloplasty procedure. (rare, humorous, trans male) Gender-affirming phalloplasty. 2004 Ben Trovato’s Guide to Everything, p. 51: “…what sometimes happens is that your girl gets carried away and gushes endlessly about your prowess in bed, the one area in which the best friend cannot compete. Well, not without having a strapadictomy first. 2018 Reddit (r/Jokes): “What’s the medical term for a female-to-male sex change operation? Strapadictomy.” street fairy n. (pl. street fairies) street queen n. (pl. street queens) stud n. (pl. studs)


1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 279: “A male who has demonstrated uncommon virility; a cocksman…” A woman who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(1950s Black American English) a masculine woman…” A lesbian who is considered to be butch or masculine. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(1950s Black American English) … a butch lesbian…” A queer woman, usually a woman or color, who is sexually dominant and often butch. 2018 PinkNews (“Lesbian slang dictionary: The big queer lingo glossary”): “A dominant queer woman who is usually butch.” 2018 Refinery29 (“17 Lesbian Slang Terms Every Baby Gay Needs To Learn”): “A queer woman, usually a woman of color, who's dominant during sex. Studs are often also butch.” study v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “To know of where I speak, girlfriend.” stuffing n. superculture n. (rare, 1970s) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Short-lived euphemism for subculture. Seldom used since the 1970’s” super straight adj. Alternate forms: super-straight; superstraight surf and turf n. Alternate forms: surf & turf. sushi queen n. (pl. sushi queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 96: “gay man who likes to hang about with fag hags” swan n. (pl. swans) A trans man who has not undergone bottom surgery but plans on doing so. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…an ftm that has not had genital surgery” switch n. (pl. switches)


(leather, BDSM) 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “one who is both a top and a bottom in the leather sense, and switches back and forth.” (lesbian) 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “…one who is butch sometimes and femme sometimes, and andro sometimes.” switch-hitter n. (pl. switch-hitters) Alternate forms: switch hitter (pl. switch hitters) A bisexual person. 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 282: “A bisexual…” 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 32: “bisexual… sexually interested in both men and women… Syn: … switch-hitter…”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 97: “someone who switches between active and passive, from one sexual encounter to the next” Tt T Testosterone. The truth 1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “The truth.” Information, especially in the form of gossip. t4t Alternate forms: T4T


2019 Urban Dictionary: “T4T means ‘ trans for trans ‘ basically a transgender person interested in other trans people romantically/sexually” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “‘Trans for trans’ slang for a trans person that is looking to date/hook up with other trans people.” 2022 Urban Dictionary: “When a trans person only likes to date or prefers to date other trans people” taco queen n. (pl. taco queens) [en] (derogatory) 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “bean queen… 2. anglo who sticks to Mexican boys. Syn: … taco queen…” 糖 n. [zh] Alternate forms: táng (Pinyin); ㄊㄤˊ (Zhuyin); 糖 (Simplified Chinese) Sugar. Candy or sweets. (obsolete) Food which has been preserved in alcohol or in alcohol dregs. (organic chemistry) A saccharide or a carbohydrate. (internet, figurative) Something or someone that is loveable, likable, or cute. (trans) Oral medications used as part of gender-affirming hormone therapy. tandoori queen n. (pl. tandoori queens) [en] A gay man, usually white, who fetishizes East Indian men.

2006 Urban Dictionary: “a gay man, usually a white guy, who is only attracted to East Indian men.”

tantrum queen n. (pl. tantrum queens) [en] (United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 98: “someone who habitually overreacts, usually negatively” T-bird n. (pl. T-birds) [en] A woman who is attracted to trans people. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a woman erotically attracted to transsexuals…” t-boy n. (pl. t-boys) [en] t-boy swag n. [en] T-community n. [en] Alternate forms: t-community; T-Community; T Community


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “The segment of society made up of those who are in one way or another transgendered. The term ‘Community’ (capitalized) is used in this text to denote this.” tea n. The truth. Information, especially in the form of gossip. 2019 True T Pittsburgh (“The Ballroom Glossary: A list of terms you should know.”): “In pop culture, the ‘tea’ is the news, the scoop, the latest gossip…” tea-room queen n. (pl. tea-room queens) Alternate forms: tearoom queen (pl. tearoom queens), tea room queen (pl. tea room queens), T-room queen (pl. T-room queens) A gay man who frequents public toilets for the purposes of sexual contact. 1965 The Guild Dictionary of Homosexual Terms, p. 44: “The homosexual male who frequents public toilets for the purpose of ‘pickup up’ persons for erotic or homosexual purposes.” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “the deviant who loiters in a men's room (tea-room) for the purpose of making a sexual contact. It is another working expression and has no particular coloration.” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Male who frequents toilets for the purpose of making a pick-up” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 283: “A ‘tearoom queen’ is a homosexual who cruises the public lavatories…” 2007 Urban Dictionary: “(also T-Room Queen) A male homosexual who seeks sordid trysts with other males in a public toilet (t-room).” techno-winkte n. (rare, appropriative, trans female) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a male to female person who has decided that it’s okay to continue using tools or electronic devices after transitioning to a female role; a butch m2f…” teen queen n. (pl. teen queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 98: “man who likes having sex with teenagers” tell the story v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “Give The Doll the dirt, child!” tell my T v.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 172: “Knowing where my candy’s hidden; knowing that I even have candy.” TERFdom n. TERFspeak n. Jargon utilized primarily by gender-critical persons or trans-exclusionary radical feminists. TERFy adj. terrorist drag n. (pl. terrorist drags) Alternate forms: terrorist-drag (drag) 2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “A.K.A. ‘terrorist-drag,’ tranimal drag deconstructs fashion and makeup, often using found objects, elements of surrealism and mixes of performance art, punk rock, racial and social issues. These drag queens often purposely use unkempt wigs and clothing. Most still hide male attributes, but don’t necessarily shave or tuck , creating a constant push and pull between the genders.” (drag) 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A tranimal (also known as a terrorist drag) dissects makeup and fashion styles, often using elements of surrealism and mix it with social issues, punk rock, and performance art.)” testojunkie n. (pl. testojunkies) T-friendly adj.


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Said of an organization, business, community, workplace, etc. when they either actively encourage participation/business/etc. by transgendered individuals, or have no objection to [the] same.” T-fuck n. Sexual intercourse with a cross-dresser. T-fucker n. (pl. T-fuckers) TG Alternate forms: tg


2005 Urban Dictionary: “Abbreviation of ‘transgender’.” t-girl n. (pl. t-girls) Alternate forms: tgirl (pl. tgirls), T-girl (pl. T-girls)


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a transgendered female. There are mixed feelings regarding the use of this term.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a transgendered female. There are mixed feelings regarding the use of this term.” 2003 Urban Dictionary: “A male by birth who is either dressing as or living as a female.” 2005 Urban Dictionary: “Also written as ‘tgirl’. Simply another term for transexuals. Also known as chicks with dicks.” 2006 Urban Dictionary: “The abbreviation for ‘Transexual Girl’” 2007 Urban Dictionary: “A chick with a dick.” 2011 Urban Dictionary: “1) A transgender person who was born biologically male but identifies as being a female. Usually a t-girl has undergone breast implant surgery or takes hormones to grow the breasts, but will retain the penis. IE: A chick with a dick… 2) One who wishes to be considered by society as a member of the opposite sex. Their personal identification and psychological configuration is that of the opposite sex. They prefer to act and dress like a woman.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “A term some people use to describe transgender women, especially when comparing them to cisgender women…” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “Transgender female.” 2015 Urban Dictionary: “T-Girl (short for Trans-Girl) is the generally accepted "polite" way of referring to Transgendered or Transsexual Girls. It is a general term that covers a wide range of people; Cross Dressers, Transvestites and Pre or Post Op Transsexuals may all be referred to as T-Girls without too much risk of offending anyone. Many people however, are not bothered about causing offense to other people, and may refer to such people in a derogatory fashion using words or phrases such as Shemale, Tranny, He-She or Chick with a Dick.” t-girled, to be v.


2018 Urban Dictionary: “When you are fooled by a picture or video of a woman who is a pre/post op transexual.” TG boy n. (pl. TG boys) TG girl n. (pl. TG girls) t-gurl n. (pl. t-gurls) t-guy n. (pl. t-guys) that’s y’world phr.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 173: “That’s y’business.” theatre queen n. (pl. theatre queens) them v. (third-person singular simple present thems, present participle themming, simple past and past participle themmed) thembo n. (pl. thembos) themme fatale (pl. themme fatales) Alternate forms: them fatale (pl. them fatales) (rare) A nonbinary person who is attractive and seductive, often to the detriment of those who become sexually or romantically involved with them; a nonbinary femme fatale. 2018 Urban Dictionary: “A non-binary femme fatale.” (rare) A person who uses they/them pronouns who is attractive and seductive, often to the detriment of those who become sexually or romantically involved with them. therapy queen n. (pl. therapy queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 98: “gay man who is continually undergoing psychological treatment” they v. (third-person singular simple present theys, present participle theying, simple past and past participle theyed) theybe (pl. theybes) theybo (pl. theybos) theyboss (pl. theybosses) theyby (pl. theybies) A child who is raising without an attributed gender, assigned gender, or gender of rearing. theydies and gentlethems (derogatory) 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A gender-neutral way of saying ‘ladies and gentlemen’ that is actually fairly insulting.” theydy n. (pl. theydies) (derogatory) 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Gender neutral / non-binary version of ‘ladies.’” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “the gender neutral version of ‘lady’” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A term cis people think all nonbinary people enjoy; a term cis people with two brain cells use since they can’t think of any other gender neutral term. Most non-binary people can’t stand it as it is condescending and demeaning.” theyfab (derogatory) 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A term to mock AFAB Non-Binary people-- simply a trender” theyfriend n. (pl. theyfriends)


2015 Urban Dictionary: “Much like boyfriend or girlfriend, ‘theyfriend’ is a gender neutral term that can be used for your genderfluid/agender/etc significant other that uses neutral pronouns.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A partner whose preferred pronouns are they/them, thus the terms "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" are inappropriate.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “a theyfriend is not a girlfriend and not a boyfriend. it refers to your significant other that goes by they/ them.” theymab (derogatory) theysbian (pl. theysbians) they/them pussy n. (pl. they/them pussies) throw shade v.


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to read (as in insult)” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to read (as in insult)” thussy n. (pl. thussies) [en] Etymology: Total blend of they (or them) and pussy. Note that the alternate form þussy uses a thorn which resembles a combination of a b (as in bussy) and a p (as in pussy). Alternate forms: þussy (pl. þussies) The vulva or vagina of a nonbinary person. 2020 Twitter: “Fuck a cis man, I want some thussy” 2020 Twitter: “Dykes on tiktok learn to raise one eyebrow and think they’re god’s gift to pussies and thussies everywhere” 2021 Twitter: “Asking my non-binary shorty for some thussy” 2022 Twitter: “*trying to get some thussy* omg babe ur so right their flags DO mean death” The vulva or vagina of a person who uses they/them pronouns. 2020 Twitter: “cis men think they can respect ur pronouns their way into some thussy” 2022 Twitter: “Good evening to all they/thems, hope y’all are popping y’all’s thussies and or playing stardew valley” 2022 Twitter: “I be going to Brooklyn like we ain’t got perfectly good they/them thussy in Manhattan” 2022 On the Tip of My Tongue: The Perfect Word for Every Life Moment: “They/them genitals are also penetrating the world of lexicons. Though I curdle at the word pussy, my tympanic membrane appears not to mind thussy.” TIF Tijuana queen n. (pl. Tijuana queens) (derogatory) 1972 The Queens’ Vernacular, p. 29: “bean queen… 1. Mexican homosexual… Tijuana queen (said of one especially trashy)” TIM tit-tac (pl. tit-tacs) Etymology: Blend of tit (as in breast) and Tic Tac. Alternate forms: Tit Tac (pl. Tit Tacs) titty skittle n. (pl. titty skittles) Usage notes: Usually used in the plural form.


2010 Urban Dictionary: “hormone pills to grow (larger) breasts, sometimes used by mtf transexuals” 2012 We Are Anonymous: “Kayla even used the nickname for the little blue pills sold as Estrofem: titty skittles.” 2018 Twitter: “After six months of researching options for non-binary amab folk who want titty skittles without the titty, I am OFF TO MY FIRST HORMONE APPOINTMENT” 2019 Reddit (r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns): “My girlfriend's 1 year on titty skittle was yesterday!!!,” 2019 Reddit (r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns): “Guess who finally got on the titty skittles? This girl right here! This was a long wait.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “Another word used for trans women going on HRT. They usually refer to oestrogen pills.” 2019 Urban Dictionary: “A word used by trans girls referring to the pills that they usually take in their transition. It’s mostly used as a meme.” 2020 Transgender Studies Quarterly (“Egg Theory’s Early Style”), p. 388: “Trans people I knew—the cultists! —had insisted that the ‘titty skittles’ would make my breasts grow.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A euphemism, used mockingly or derogatorily, for the hormone therapy a man takes to grow large female-like breasts. The hormone therapy typically consists of Estrogen and Antiandrogen pills (hence the ‘skittles’ metaphor), however the hormones may also be delivered transdermal via patch or injection.” 2021 Usenet (rec.radio.shortwave): “I DREAM OF A WORLD WHERE ONE DAY ALL GOATS CAN HOLD THEIR HEADS UP HIGH AND BLEAT A SONG OF JOY BECAUSE THEIR PRIVATES MATCH THEIR GENDER IDENTITY AND EVERYONE IS OK WITH THAT PLUS THEY GET FREE GOVERNMENT TITTY SKITTLES” 2022 Twitter: “I'm misses estradiol / I'm misses E / I'm misses titty skittle / I'm misses HRT… Friends call me girlmiser / Whatever I touch / turns to girls in my clutch / I’m just too much” 2022 Reddit (r/MtF): “I got my titty Skittles! 💥🎊🎉🍈🍈” 2022 Twitter: “Yes, I know… Thinking about this is scary… Believe me, I was there every day of every month leading up to when I personally finally popped a titty skittle… I'm just saying, this has been the best decision I've literally ever made & I regret not making it sooner… Just saying.” TITWB phr.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘trapped in the wrong body’” T-male n. (pl. T-males) Tom Thumb queen n. (pl. Tom Thumb queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “gay man with a small penis” Tootsie n. (rare) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Crossdresser or transvestite. From a popular 1980’s film of the same name. Not currently in common usage.” top adj. Of or relating to the chest area or one’s breasts. top n. (pl. tops) [en] (originally United States, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “gay man who prefers to penetrate his partner during anal intercourse” In the context of anal, oral, or vaginal sexual intercourse, the individual who tends to be, or otherwise prefers being, the one who penetrates.


1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “…in general, the partner in sex who is active, or giving…” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 210: “One who prefers the active, aggressive role in sex…” (leather, BDSM) 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “…in the Leather Community, a sadist, dom, domme, or dominatrix; the one who takes charge of the scene…” top surgery n. (pl. top surgeries) [en] Torah queen n. (pl. Torah queens) [en] (United States, derogatory, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “man who likes having sex with Jewish men” T-party n. (pl. T-parties) Alternate forms: T-Party (pl. T-Parties)


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “A social gathering of members of the Community.” T-person n. (pl. T-people, T-persons)


2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Members of the Community.” TRA n. (pl. TRAs) trach shave n. (pl. trach shaves) Alternate names: trache shave (pl. trache shaves); treac shave (pl. treac shaves)


2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a procedure for removing cartilage from the Adam’s apple” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a procedure for removing cartilage from the Adam’s apple” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “‘Thyroid cartilage shaving’ Having the Adam’s apple surgically reduced or removed.” Tracy n. [zu] (South Africa, township, gay male) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “(Zulu) hermaphrodite [Township gay slang]” trade n. (gay male) A man, usually gay, who is considered to be a top in the context of oral sexual intercourse and who usually does not reciprocate such sexual interaction. 1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide: “General term for one who wants to be ‘blown’ without reciprocating, and with no commercial implication per se…” 1965 Sexology (“The Language of the Homosexual”): “the inserter in the sex act of fellatio…” 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Heterosexual male who makes himself available to homosexual males for fellatio” (gay male) A gay man who is considered to be a bottom in the context of oral or anal sexual intercourse. 1964 Homosexuality and Citizenship in Florida (“Glossary of Homosexual Terms and Deviate Acts”): “People who like to be passive partners in sexual relations with homosexuals; one-sided affairs.” 1965 Fact (“A Glossary of Homosexual Slang”): “A passive homosexual.” A male sex worker or prostitute who services gay men. 1933 “Glossary of Homosexual Terms.”: “one who will permit homosexual to have sex relations with him, usually for money…” 1972 Playboy’s Book of Forbidden Words, p. 289: “Male prostitutes who service homosexuals for money while claiming to be straight (heterosexual) themselves…” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 211: “a male prostitute (but specifically and historically, one who is paid to make himself available to be serviced—fellated—by gay men). (originally United States, gay male) A casual or random sexual encounter. 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “one night stand, sexual partner for a one-off experience” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 211: “…random sexual encounters…” An individual who is sexually available. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 211: “…one available for sex…” (gay male) A, usually casual, male sexual partner of another man, regardless of identity. 2010 Word of the Gay (“#32 ‘trade’”): “the male sexual partner of another man; depending upon the circumstance may identify as straight, bisexual, or gay; individual may also receive payment after sexual acts are performed” (gay male) A straight-acting or very masculine man, often one still closeted, will engage in sexual intercourse with another man occasionally. 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “Straight-acting/masculine (but still potentially closeted), and/or occasionally bisexual man who will engage in intercourse. Good for a one night stand.” trade queen n. (pl. trade queens) Alternate names: trade-queen (pl. trade-queens)


1949 The Gay Girl’s Guide, p. 17: “One who prefers merely to ‘do for trade’.” traggot n. (pl. traggots) tran n. tranarchist n. (pl. tranarchists) trancentric adj.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a focus on transsexuals to the exclusion of non-transsexual transgendered people and/or non-transgendered significant others…” trancestor n. (pl. trancestors) tranimal n. (pl. tranimals) (drag) 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “Tranimals are less interested in looking ‘fishy’ and more interested in fucking with your minds. Their look is intentionally bust-up, DIY and trashy. These queens often wear tights and fabric over their faces – which allows them to keep a beard through the week and play ‘trans terrorist’ at the weekend.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A tranimal (also known as a terrorist drag) dissects makeup and fashion styles, often using elements of surrealism and mix it with social issues, punk rock, and performance art.)” tranimal drag n. Etymology: Portmanteau of tranimal and drag. (drag) Drag which is deconstructionist in nature, combining found objects, surrealist aesthetic, and elements of performance art and punk rock, and acknowledgments toward contemporary sociopolitical issues. 2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “A.K.A. ‘terrorist-drag,’ tranimal drag deconstructs fashion and makeup, often using found objects, elements of surrealism and mixes of performance art, punk rock, racial and social issues. These drag queens often purposely use unkempt wigs and clothing. Most still hide male attributes, but don’t necessarily shave or tuck , creating a constant push and pull between the genders.” tranma n. (pl. tranmas) tranner trannier than thou (abbr. T3 or TTT) Alternate forms: trans-er than thou trannifag n. (pl. trannifags) Alternate forms: tranny fag (pl. tranny fags) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who is androgynous in terms of gender expression. 2010 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Mental Health (“Butch/Femme, F2M, Pregnant Man, Tranny-Boi: Gender Issues in the Lesbian Community”): “Tomboy is an old term, which need not even have transgender connotations, but trannifag (or tranny fag)... [is a] much newer term[].” tranny n.


1995 Sex Inc: True Tales from the Australian Sex Industry, p. 15: “This is tranny country. And in the hierarchy of the transexual prostitute, La Toya… is the equivalent of the supermodel.”


2010 Running the Books, p. 139: “The cops, the lawyers, the typing lady, the tranny hookers.” tranny n. (pl. trannies) Alternate forms: trannie (dated, derogatory, crossdressing) A cross-dresser, usually a male-to-female cross-dresser. 1979 King of Sea: “I came back through downtown; the streets were wet from the night’s rain, deserted, even the trannies on Hotel Street had gone home, there was just one red-eyed drunk in a doorway.” 1990 Gay Times: “By 11pm they seem drunkenly immune to the influx of trannies, trendies, and other creatures of the night.” 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Transvestite…” 2005 Urban Dictionary: Fularious Street Slang Defined: “Transvestite…” 2007 Mo’ Urban Dictionary: Ridonkulous Street Slang, p. 215: “Transvestite.” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 1005: “a… transvestite…” 2008 Susan’s Place Transgender Resources (“Terms and definitions”): “A short form used to refer to Transvestites. While some who identify as such feel the term is derogatory many do not.” 2018 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 806: “a… transvestite…” (rare, derogatory, trans) A trans person, usually a trans woman, who has not undergone feminizing genitoplasty. 1999 Powder, p. 396: “He made Michael Caine’s psycho-tranny in Dressed to Kill sound cuddly.” 2000 Girls in Love, p. 131: “‘Clock all those trannies!’ says Magda, giving me a nudge. I blink and take another look. Magda's right, they're boys under all the blusher.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “Belittling word for ‘transsexual.’” (derogatory, reclaimed, trans) A trans person, often a trans woman. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “…Transgenderist, or Transsexual.” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “(also ‘trannie’) a transsexual…” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a term used by some TG women to describe other TG women. Often considered offensive if used by a non-TG” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a term used by some TG women to describe other TG women. Often considered offensive if used by a non-TG” 2005 Urban Dictionary: Fularious Street Slang Defined: “...transsexual.” 2007 Mo’ Urban Dictionary: Ridonkulous Street Slang, p. 215: “Transsexual.” 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Tranny… Short for transgender. Some people consider this term derogatory. 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 1005: “a transsexual…” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “abbreviation - ‘transgender’” 2009 This Week in Texas Magazine, Vol. 2, No. 42 (“‘it’s a man, momma’.”), p. 17: “I’m in the military. I am insanely crazy about trannies…” 2013 UC Berkeley Gender Equity Resource Center (“Definition of Terms”): “A derogatory term used to refer to a trans-identified person. Sometimes a term reclaimed by trans* people for empowerment.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “A derogatory term for transgender people, commonly for transgender women. Some trans people have reclaimed the term to describe themselves.” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “Considered a derogatory slur to describe trans people.” 2018 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 806: “a transsexual…” 2021 Widespread Panic, p. 43: “‘You fucked a tranny, which makes you more queer than me’.” tranny boi n. (pl. tranny bois) Alternate forms: tranny-boi (pl. tranny-bois), tranni-boi (pl. tranni-bois) (trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who identifies as masculine-of-center (MOC). 2006 Transgender Rights, p. 35: “The second part, which concerns issues of child custody and visitation, is relevant to all transgender persons: whether the parent is an effeminate man, tranny boi, drag queen or king, or transsexual, a gender nonconforming parent faces a host of risks and biases when a court is attempting to determine what form of parent-child relationship, if any, that person is permitted to maintain.” 2007 San Francisco Bay Times (“Who’s The Fairest Twink of Them All?”): “‘Young women who once called themselves butch now call themselves tranny bois, and these tranny bois are mostly dating each other,’ [Jennifer] Vanasco, a self-identified femme, wrote in a provocative column from a couple of years ago.” 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Boi/Tranny Boi… Another term for someone born female who feels that this is not an accurate or complete description of themselves.” (trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, who is androgynous in terms of gender expression. 2010 Journal of Gay & Lesbian Mental Health (“Butch/Femme, F2M, Pregnant Man, Tranny-Boi: Gender Issues in the Lesbian Community”): “When I first started hearing about tranni-bois and transgender, describing people I used to call androgynous, I was behind in the language and had to educate myself so I could work effectively with my patients.” tranny chaser n. (pl. tranny chasers) Alternate forms: trannie chaser (pl. trannie chasers), tranny-chaser (pl. tranny-chasers) Usage notes: (derogatory) A person, usually a man, who is attracted to trans people, often trans women, in a fetishistic manner. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Transphile, admirer.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a derogatory term used to describe someone who is attracted to TGs.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a derogatory term used to describe someone who is attracted to TGs…” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “One attracted to transsexuals.” 2008 The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, p. 335: “Tranny-chaser… Refers to someone who is attracted to and/or seeks out sex or relationships with transgender people. Some people consider this term derogatory.” 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “A person who seeks transsexuals as sexual companions over genetically male or female partners.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “(derogatory) see transfan.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “A derogatory term that describes those who actively seek out transgender people for sexual or romantic purposes. Often used to describe self-identified straight men who seek out transgender women and fetishize them. Implies a negative motive on the part of the pursuer, or that desiring trans people is a negative thing, which makes this term controversial in trans communities.” (derogatory) A person, usually a man, who is attracted to crossdressers, often male-to-female crossdressers, in a fetishistic manner. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “(derogatory) see transfan.” trannydom n. (pejorative, uncommon, trans, crossdressing) The culture and world of cross-dressers and transgender people. 1999 Reflections International: The TV & TS Magazine, No. 17, p. 3: “So you see, I do have a life beyond trannydom.” 2006 Tranz-Mania, p. 4: “... a phenomenon that promoted and accelerated the growth of trannydom via the net. 2010 Days Before The Yoke, p. 179: “PH Anna Warhola is on-the-edge trannydom. In her performance for Anna Conda’s fundraiser running for District 6 Supervisor, she was a middle-aged Dom in stiletto heels…” tranny fag n. (pl. tranny fags) Alternate forms: tranny-fag (pl. tranny-fags), trannie fag (pl. trannie fags), trannie-fag (pl. trannie-fags), trannyfag (pl. trannyfags)


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “One who is a gay female-to-male transsexual. Did you get that?! …” tranny hawk n. (pl. tranny hawks) Alternate forms: tranny-hawk (pl. tranny-hawks), trannyhawk (pl. trannyhawks)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a man erotically attracted to transsexuals…” trannymaxxing n. (pejorative, internet, incel) tranpa n. (pl. tranpas) (rare, trans) transamorous adj.


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “A term that describes those who are attracted to transgender people. Preferred to the term tranny chaser.” trans bash v. Alternate forms: transbash


transbian adj. (trans female, informal) Describing something which is transgender and lesbian in nature. 2019 Transgressive: A Trans Woman on Gender, Feminism, and Politics, p. 235: “During this time, I’ve developed a theory about trans lesbian (transbian) relationships: they are strange loops, our sexual orientation endlessly flipping back and forth in transphobes’ minds like a liar’s paradox: gay, straight, gay again, now straight, gay, and so on.” transbian n. (pl. transbians) (trans female, informal) A transgender lesbian. 2003 Literature Compass, Vol. 1, No. 1 (“Queer Empathy: or, Reading/Writing the Queer in Victorian Poetry”), p. 8: “Lesley Hall has intimated that she regards him as a classic transvestite, though I prefer to read him as a possible transbian, like Swinburne.” 2004 Victorian Poetry, Vol. 42, No. 1 (“Period Pains: The Changing Body of Victorian Poetry”), p. 74: “That is to say, the erotic direction of his verse, in all its sado-masochism, seems to move in quest of female/lesbian sexuality, the feminine as desired by the female, in a way that is strongly suggestive of the transbian (a male who undergoes sex change to female, not in order to pursue an erotic desire for the male, but rather, for the female: ‘transbian’ is a more precise term than ‘male lesbian’).” 2010 Autumn Changes: Part III, p. 930: “Our trans meeting at the clinic breaks up, after a discussion about transbians.” 2011 Blue Life, Pink Hair: What It’s Like Being The Pink Sheep Of The Family, p. 186: “To give an opinionated answer, I’d say no, I do not think that there is a trend toward all transsexuals becoming transbians.” 2014 Philadelphia Gay News, p. 19 (“City defends treatment of trans worker”): “The complaints run the gamut – that Burnett ‘grunted’ too loudly when defecating, that she spoke with her mouth full during lunch, that she was lazy, that she referred to a transgender lesbian as a ‘transbian,’ …” 2015 Los and Found: Transgender Elders’ Journey Toward Authenticity: A Constructionist Grounded Theory Study, p. 140: “As an example, one of the respondents, Renee, a 69-year-old transwoman self identified as a ‘transbian.’” 2018 The Methodological Dilemma Revisited: Creative, Critical and Collaborative Approaches to Qualitative Research for a New Era (“Refusing To Check The Box: Participatory inqueery at the radical rim”): “(Queer, a Transbian, GNC, Transfemme trying to figure it out, In process, White)” 2018 Montréal Writes (“Women Problems”), p. 16: “So, I’m a butch transbian, so by most standards I’m literally just a cis-het dude-” trans boy n. (pl. trans boys) Alternate forms: trans-boy (pl. trans-boys), transboy (pl. transboys) (trans male) 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “Terms used by younger trans people to describe themselves.” trans broken arm syndrome n. Alternate forms: Trans Broken Arm Syndrome (trans, informal) The tendency of medical providers to center transness when caring for transgender patients, typically by connecting unrelated medical conditions or symptoms to aspects of gender transition, or asking for information about medical transition that is not relevant to a transgender patient’s needs. 2015 PinkNews (“Feature: The dangers of trans broken arm syndrome”): “Then there’s the phenomenon known as Trans Broken Arm Syndrome… It’s when healthcare providers assume that all medical issues are a result of a person being trans. Everything – from mental health problems to, yes, broken arms.” 2018, Understanding Trans Health: Discourse, Power and Possibility, p. 111: “Trans Broken Arm Syndrome appears to be most common among mental health service providers, many of whom appear to regard trans people’s mental health as relevant only in terms of or in relation to transition.” 2019 Men in Place: Trans Masculinity, Race, and Sexuality in America: “This phenomenon is widespread and colloquially referred to as ‘trans broken arm syndrome,’ meaning that a trans person seeking care for a broken arm is grilled by physicians and medical staff about their transgender history and, perhaps at the same time, the broken arm is somehow blamed on their being transgender.” 2019 Person-Centred Counselling for Trans and Gender Diverse People: A Practical Guide, p. 200: “In the physical healthcare field, the term for this is ‘trans broken arm syndrome’, where any ailment, even a broken arm, is traced back to someone's trans status.” 2019 They/Them/Their: A Guide to Nonbinary and Genderqueer Identities, p. 217: “It would also reduce the incidence of ‘trans broken arm syndrome’, where doctors attribute every ailment we have to our transition, even completely unrelated things like the flu or a broken limb.” 2019 Working with Transgender Young People and their Families: A Critical Developmental Approach, p. 126: “Research by Pullen Sansfaçon et al. (2018) with transgender young people also reports on cisgenderism by commission in the form of what has been termed ‘trans broken arm syndrome’.” 2020 Trans and Autistic: Stories from Life at the Intersection, p. 167: “Article in PinkNews that discusses the phenomenon of ‘trans broken arm syndrome,’ in which healthcare practitioners blame unrelated healthcare issues on one's transgender status, and fail to treat, or insufficiently treat, the presenting issue.” 2020 Feeling Medicine: How the Pelvic Exam Shapes Medical Training, p. 246: “I have been involved in medical education research on training medical students about transgender patients (Underman et al. 2016), and the evidence on ‘trans broken arm syndrome’ is overwhelming.” 2020 Integrative Health Nursing Interventions for Vulnerable Populations, p. 104: “Not doing so is known as the ‘trans broken arm syndrome,’ in which a transgender patient presents with an issue such as a broken arm, but the provider asks questions related to gender-affirming surgery history which has no relevance to healthcare at hand.” 2021 The SAGE Encyclopedia of Trans Studies: “Trans people have used the term trans broken arm syndrome to refer to how health care providers tend to attribute any injury or illness to a patient's trans status no matter how irrelevant.” 2021 LGBTQ+Health: An Issue of Primary Care: Clinics in Office Practice (“LGBTQ-Affirmative Behavioral Health Services in Primary Care”): “Additionally, transgender patients navigate ‘trans broken arm syndrome’ in medical appointments, wherein providers casually misattribute unrelated medical problems to their gender identity or aspects of their transition.” transbutch adj. (trans) Describing an individual who was assigned female at birth, whose gender identity and/or expression is between, or otherwise fluctuates between butch and transmasculine. 2006 Trans/forming Feminisms: Trans/feminist Voices Speak Out (“Queen Femmes Loving FTMs: Towards An Erotic Transgendered Ethics”), p. 113: “Does my femme feminist identity shape my lovers transbutch identity?” transbutch n. (pl. transbutches) Alternate forms: trans-butch (pl. trans-butches), trans butch (pl. trans butches) (trans) An individual who was assigned female at birth, whose gender identity and/or expression is between, or otherwise fluctuates between butch and transmasculine. 2001 Handbook of Interview Research: Context and Method: “According to Halberstam, there are aristocratic European cross-dressing women of the 1920s, butch lesbians, dykes, drag kings, tomboys, black butch-in-the-hood rappers, trans-butches, tribades, gender inverts, stone butches, female-to-male transsexuals (FTMs), and raging bull dykes.” 2003 Violence and the Body: Race, Gender, and the State, p. 290: “In this video, Lee and Hurwitz construct a finely calibrated landscape of a transmasculinity made up of heterosexual FTMs, queer-identified FTMs, gay male FTMs, transfags, and transbutches, although none of these terms is mutually exclusive.” 2014 TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, Vol. 2, No. 1-2 (“Transbutch”): “Transbutches embody a third space (with others) between the uncritical celebration of ‘womanhood’ and its rejection entirely.” 2020 Female Husbands: A Trans History, p. 260: “This group bares resemblance to some who identify as transmen, transbutches, and butches in the present.” 2020 The Ignatian, Vol. 32 (“Shifting the Borders: My Transbutch Herstory”), p. 70: “I know so many transbutches who remain in the dark and I wanted to let them know it's ok to be themselves.” (trans female) A transgender lesbian who is butch. trans catcher n. (pl. trans catchers)


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person erotically attracted to transsexuals…” transcengender n.


2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who transcends gender, an elaboration of transgender…” trans curious Alternate forms: trans-curious Etymology: From trans + curious, patterned off of bicurious. (trans) 2016 Wiktionary: “Interested in one’s potential transgenderism.” transdar n. (trans) 1996 bit.listserv.words-l (“Re: Independence Day - The movie): “I found out about 20 minutes into the workshop that at least six of the men in attendance had been born women. Not one of them had twigged my ‘transdar.’” 1998 soc.support.transgendered (“Is Linda Tripp a TS?”): “The first time a [sic] saw a clip of Clinton accuser Linda Tripp during this Monica Lewinsky brouhaha, my transdar went off. I clocked her as TS, even though she’s (probably) genetic.” 2000 soc.support.transgendered (“Re: everyone flame me, I deserve it.”): “My hearing isn’t that great, but my transdar immediately zoned in on him.” 2002 soc.support.transgendered (“Re: Pathetic”): “Is it my fault that the publics [sic] ‘transdar’ is more sharply honed and being stealth has become harder?” 2013 Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution: “As is the case with the gaydar (or transdar), this recognition requires two main components: practice, and the constant, quiet presence of the option.” 2013 Blind to Sameness: Sexpectations and the Social Construction of Male and Female Bodies, p. 59: “Other respondents offered similar descriptions of transdar as a keen understanding of the most important sex cues.” transdetector n. (uncommon, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an internal system whereby a person believes they are able to spot transgendered people, a gaydar for t folk…” trans drag n. (pl. trans drags) Alternate forms: transdrag (pl. transdrags) (drag) A trans woman who performs as a drag queen. 2014 Vada Magazine (“A fool’s guide to drag ‘types’”): “The trans drags are queens who also identify as trans women – sometimes they began as drag queens, and other times they came to drag later. They present as women in their daily lives – and at night, like the bio queens, doll themselves up to create something even more fabulous. Like bio queens, they layer their female selves with a second helping of womanhood, giving you two fish for the price of one. Many trans drags joined the drag community as a safe space to explore their gender identity and consider themselves firm allies of drag queens.” 2020 Charismatico (“Top 11 Drag Queen Styles Used Today”): “A transdrag is a drag queen that has already started her transition from male to female, but yet is still performing in drag shows. While not all transdrags make a full transition, some take the next step to complete their female looks like undergoing breast implants and plastic surgery.” (drag) A trans person who is a drag performer. (drag, trans) Drag which is performed by a trans person. transdrag queen n. (pl. transdrag queens) (trans female, drag) A trans woman who is a drag queen. 2014 Queerty (“The 11 Most Common Drag Queen Styles”): “A transdrag queen is a queen that still performs as a drag queen although she has begun a gender transition from male to female. Although not all of these queens fully transition, many begin taking transitional steps to further their female look, including breast implants and growing out their hair.” (trans, drag) A trans person who is a drag queen. trans dyke n. (pl. trans dykes) Alternate forms: transdyke (pl. transdykes); transdike (pl. transdikes) (trans female) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a bisexual or lesbian transsexual…” (trans female) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “A lesbian male-to-female transsexual. Get that too?! …” 2013 Excluded: Making Feminism and Queer Movements More Inclusive: “The first was a rather confusing comment that seemed to legitimize queer women’s fears of ‘accidentally’ becoming attracted to a trans dyke—a sort of lesbian version of The Crying Game syndrome, I suppose.” 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “Terms used by some trans people who also identify as gay or lesbian.” transface transfag n. (pl. transfags) Alternate forms: trans fag (pl. trans fags), trans-fag (pl. trans-fags) A trans man who is gay. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a gay FTM” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 205: “a person who is both gay and f-t-m transsexual.” 2008 Word of the Gay (“#26 transfag/tryke”): “a person who is both both gay and female-to-male (f-t-m) transsexual…” A trans man who is gay or bisexual. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a gay or bisexual female to male transsexual…” A trans man who is attracted to, often dates, or often has romantic or sexual relations with other trans men. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…also an f2m who is erotically attracted to f2ms…” An individual who was assigned female at birth, whose gender identity and/or expression is between, or otherwise fluctuates between butch and transmasculine. 2003 Violence and the Body: Race, Gender, and the State, p. 290: “In this video, Lee and Hurwitz construct a finely calibrated landscape of a transmasculinity made up of heterosexual FTMs, queer-identified FTMs, gay male FTMs, transfags, and transbutches, although none of these terms is mutually exclusive.” A trans person who is gay or lesbian. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “Terms used by some trans people who also identify as gay or lesbian.” transfan n. (pl. transfans) Alternate forms: trans-fan (pl. trans-fans), trans fan (pl. trans fans) (uncommon) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who is erotically attracted to transsexuals, a person who has a fetish for transsexuals…” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “someone who is attracted to TGs.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “someone who is attracted to TGs.” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “man with a sexual preference for preoperative male-to-female transsexuals , transgenderists…” (rare) 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “man with a sexual preference for … crossdressers…” transfag drag n. Alternate forms: trans fag drag (drag, trans male) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “an f2m drag queen…” transfashion n. (trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “to change the appearance of; transgendered fashions” transfem adj. Alternate forms: transfemme transfem n. Alternate forms: transfemme


2018 The Methodological Dilemma Revisited: Creative, Critical and Collaborative Approaches to Qualitative Research for a New Era (“Refusing To Check The Box: Participatory inqueery at the radical rim”): “(Queer, a Transbian, GNC, Transfemme trying to figure it out, In process, White)” transfic (internet, fanfiction, trans) trans girl n. (pl. trans girls) (trans female) 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “Terms used by younger trans people to describe themselves.” transgressively gendered adj. (trans, gender nonconforming) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “transgendered; gender variant; nonconforming gender…” trans guy n. (pl. trans guys)


2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 619: “Terms used by younger trans people to describe themselves.” trans hag n. (pl. trans hags) trans healthcare trolley problem n. transhet Alternate forms: trans-het, trans het trans-identified female n. (pl. trans-identified females, abbr. TIF) trans-identified male n. (pl. trans-identified males, abbr. TIM) trans imposter syndrome n. Alternate forms: transgender imposter syndrome transie n. (pl. transies) Alternate forms: transy (trans) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Short-lived slang for a member of the T* community. Has been replaced by the term ‘tranny’ in most cases.” 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “a term used by some TG women to describe other TG women. Often considered offensive if used by a non-TG” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “a term used by some TG women to describe other TG women. Often considered offensive if used by a non-TG” trans kid n. (pl. trans kids) Alternate forms: transkid (pl. transkids), trans-kid (pl. trans-kids) (dated, derogatory, trans female) 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “Non-technical term for M2F androphilic transsexual, used mostly for political reasons to have a non-clincal [sic] way to refer to androphilic transsexuals as a population rather then [sic] a condition…” trans king n. (pl. trans kings) (trans male) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “by analogy with drag king, a handsome or well dressed transgendered man, can be any orienation [sic]…” transmed transnatural adj. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “to transition without use of surgery or hormones, the use of exercise, herbs, and other non-medical forms of enhancing the desired gender…” transparency n. (rare, trans) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “[not congruent with ‘passing’] [ed. note: this is a concept proposed by a reader and not a term I’ve heard used] The state by which a gender-different person possesses passing privilege, but doesn’t try to cover the fact that they are gender-different (i.e., not creating false stories about childhood, or subscribing to the ‘ex-transsexual’ ideology), or doesn’t exploit their passing privilege to try to fit into a certain social expectation of ‘women’ or ‘men’. Where ‘passing’ infers an effort of ‘suppressing oneself’,’acting’ or ‘trying’ to be a certain presentation…” transparent n. (pl. transparents) (trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a transgendered parent…” 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a parent of a transgendered child…” transpire n. (pl. transpires) Etymology: Total blending of transgender and vampire. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “transgendered people who only come out at night…” transploitation n. transploitation film n. (pl. transploitation films) transsensual adj.


2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “see transfan.” transtesticle n. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a jerk, a person who behaves offensively towards transgendered people” trans time n. Alternate forms: trans-time


transtrender n. (pl. transtrenders) (derogatory, trans) trans triple crown n.


trans until graduation (abbr. TUG) Alternate forms: transgender until graduation


transversity n. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “‘transgendered diversity’” trans virginity n. (rare, trans) Referring to an individual who has not engaged in sexual intercourse since realizing they were transgender. (rare, trans) Referring to an individual who has not engaged in sexual intercourse since transitioning medically or socially. (rare, trans) Referring to an individual who has not engaged in sexual intercourse since undergoing any of various gender-affirming genitoplasty surgeries. trans widow n. (pl. trans widows) Alternate forms: transwidow (pl. transwidows), trans-widow (pl. trans-widows) (derogatory, rare) A cisgender wife or ex-wife of a trans woman who married them before they came out as a trans woman. transition goal n. (pl. transition goals) (trans) transyada n. (pl. transyadas) (rare, internet) 2012 The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (“Definitions Master List”): “(loosely) a person who identifies outside the gender binary (i.e., not strictly as male or female)…” (rare, internet) 2012 The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (“Definitions Master List”): “Those which don’t fit into the gender binary, and who hang out in the ‘transwhatever’ thread or their own Yada Forum.” trantie n. (pl. tranties) Alternate forms: trauntie (pl. traunties) tranwa n. (pl. tranwas) trap n. (pl. traps) trassie n. (South Africa, pejorative) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 99: “pejorative term for a gay, usually effeminate, man” triple T adj. (derogatory, rare, trans) troon n. (pl. troons) (derogatory, internet, Something Awful, 4chan) A transgender person who posts on the Something Awful forums, with the implication that that person is awful, due to association with those forums. 2008 Something Awful: “It’s a transgender goon. Usually an awful person too.” 2017 Reddit (r/GenderCynical): “The term originated on Something Awful, a website whose users call themselves ‘goons’. Troon = trans + goon. It has since spread to websites like 4chan.” 2018 Twitter: “to be specific it [troon] refers to trans people who are or were posters on the Something Awful forums (posters there are called goons) / right wing way too online people have all sorts of conspiracy theories about that site” (pejorative, internet) A transgender woman. 2017 Urban Dictionary: “A transphobic slur referring to a trans woman. The word Troon used to mean ‘an ugly woman who looks like a man.’ However, over time the word has been co-opted by the Alt-Right and turned into a particularly nasty slur against trans women. To the Alt-Right, all trans women are troons.” 2018 Twitter: “Apparently ‘troon’ means ‘transgender goon.’ That is, we have a voice or opinion and express it. The ‘goon’ certainly seems gendered, so this is especially a slur for trans women.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: : “A derogatory term, usually applied to transgender women, that implies both that they are their assigned gender at birth and that they are misappropriating transgender identities; similarly to the word ‘trender.’ A portmanteau of ‘trans’ and ‘goon.’ It’s an extremely online word and it’s origins can be traced back to Something Awful forums.” (pejorative, internet) A cisgender woman who is said to be unattractive or to look like a man. 2017 Urban Dictionary: “The word Troon used to mean ‘an ugly woman who looks like a man.’” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “An ugly woman who looks like a man.” (pejorative, internet) A transgender person. 2018 Twitter: “Apparently ‘troon’ means ‘transgender goon.’ That is, we have a voice or opinion and express it. The ‘goon’ certainly seems gendered, so this is especially a slur for trans women.” 2020, Gemma Stone: “Other notable examples in this category include troon. Which is actually quite an old slur for trans people amongst dedicated transphobes. It largely fell out of use thanks to being an obvious slur, however it is making a come back on social media as dedicated transphobia becomes more mainstream.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “Another word for a transexual paraphile (trannies).” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A derogatory term, usually applied to transgender women, that implies both that they are their assigned gender at birth and that they are misappropriating transgender identities; similarly to the word ‘trender.’ A portmanteau of ‘trans’ and ‘goon.’ It’s an extremely online word and it’s origins can be traced back to Something Awful forums.” (pejorative, internet, Kiwi Farms, Ovarit, Mumsnet) A transgender woman who is judged by a transphobic individual or group to be a cisgender man, with the suggestion that the individual is appropriating transness in order to avoid judgment from criminal behavior, aggressive behavior, or any other behavior seemed to be unsavory. 2018 Tumblr (“My Time and Efforts Belong To Women”): “Troon = transgender loon (lunatic)… I use it to describe a tran - usually a man, sometimes a fujoshi - who is spouting deluded self-aggrandizing shit and/or blatant lies/misinformation” 2018 Kiwi Farms: “Troons are ugly because they put literally zero effort into their appearance, and a big reason for that is because they are men.” 2020 Urban Dictionary: “Portmanteau of the words ‘Transgender’ and ‘Goon’, signifying/accusatory term to denote, mostly male individuals, that appropriate the Transgender identity in order to shield themselves from criticism or past bad/criminal behaviour.” 2021 Urban Dictionary: “A derogatory term, usually applied to transgender women, that implies both that they are their assigned gender at birth and that they are misappropriating transgender identities; similarly to the word ‘trender.’ A portmanteau of ‘trans’ and ‘goon.’ It’s an extremely online word and it’s origins can be traced back to Something Awful forums.” (pejorative, internet) A transgender person who is said to be unattractive; a transgender person who is said not to pass. 2019 Reddit (r/asktransgender): “Yeah, it’s usually used in reference to a non passing trans person, and it’s usually always used in a derogatory manner.” (pejorative, internet) A transgender woman who is believed to be a fetishist or autogynephile. 2019 Reddit (r/asktransgender): “‘Troon’, applied properly, refers to that segment of the populace that consists of autogynephiles rather than those who are genuinely transgender.” (pejorative, internet) A transgender woman who is said to be unattractive or to look like a cisgender man; a transgender woman who is said not to pass. 2020 Urban Dictionary: “Used some times to describe trans women who don’t pass.” (pejorative, internet, Ovarit, Mumsnet) A cisgender man who is considered to be violent or to have a criminal record. 2020, Clare Flourish (“Ovarit and Transphobia”): “I had to look up ‘troon’- it mixes the words ‘tranny’ and ‘goon’, used to mean violent man.” troonacy n. (rare, internet) trooncel n. (pl. trooncels) (rare, internet, incel) troonology n. (pejorative, internet, Kiwi Farms) Transgender studies, transgender individuals’ lived experience and reality, transgender thought or culture, or transness generally, usually from the point of view of an unhealthy obsession with transgender people. 2016 Kiwi Farms: “The Pans use ‘they’ because ‘they’ are all the genders at once, if I remember my troonology. 'They' want you to address all of ‘their’ ‘genders’ (schizophrenia.)” 2020 Kiwi Farms: “Troonology; where every man gets a period” (pejorative, internet, Kiwi Farms) The study of transness, usually from the point of view of an unhealthy obsession with transgender people. troonologist n. (pl. troonologists) (pejorative, internet) A transphobic person who claims to study transness, usually from the point of view of an unhealthy obsession with transgender people. troon out v. (third-person singular simple present troons out, present participle trooning out, simple past and past participle trooned out) (pejorative, internet, Kiwi Farms) The process of gender transition, usually in reference to the transition process for transgender women, from the transphobic point of view that individuals who undergo such processes will always be their assigned gender at birth. 2017 Kiwi Farms: “They become full-blown narcissists when they get older, and because they were never told anything negative about themselves, when they troon out, they think they are the toast of the town and look like super models.” 2018 Kiwi Farms: “On top of the fact that they also tend to thinking that trooning out gives them permission to act like a total creep, they usually don’t have very much going for them.” truck n. (rare, trans) 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “synonym for brick” truegendered adj. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a person who may violate social expectations of gender but who does not perceive themselves as transgendered; a person who is being true to their own vision of who they are with regard to gender identity…” truscum n. truscummy adj. trutrans adj. tryke n. (pl. trykes) (derogatory, uncommon, reclaimed, trans female) A trans woman who is a lesbian. 1997 GeoCities (“A Brief Dictionary of Queer Slang and Culture”): “a contraction of transsexual dyke, meaning a male to female transsexual who is a lesbian.” 2002 Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang, p. 206: “a m-t-f transsexual who is also a lesbian.” 2004 Queer Theory, Gender Theory: An Instant Primer, p. 39: “This is even more true for the newer and more radical genders that youth are starting to explore, such as… trykes (transsexual dykes)…” 2005 Bullets & Butterflies: Queer Spoken Word Poetry, p. 117: “…faggots dykes and trykes who have not found the ability or the words…” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “A lesbian male-to-female transsexual. Get that too?! (AKA tryke)” 2008 Word of the Gay (“#26 transfag/tryke”): “a person who is a male-to-female (m-t-f) transsexual and is also a lesbian.” 2009 Social Services with Transgendered Youth, p. 6: “”By using the words ‘transgender’ and/or ‘trans,’ this chapter looks for a common language, communities, and purposes and is not seeking to erase any of the diverse identities of those individuals who identify themselves and/or are see as androgyne, bi-gendered, …, tryke, TS, two-spirited, and the like. 2020 GenderQueer: Voices from Beyond the Sexual Binary, p. 237: “I mention an idea for Tryke T-shirts. ‘They’d say ‘Trykes like dykes’ on the front,’ I explain, and ‘Dykes like Trykes’ on the back. I wonder if anyone would wear them?” TS adj. TS n. TS girl n. (pl. TS girls) TS in a box n. (derogatory, rare, trans) A trans person who has not taken social or medical steps to transition. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “A person who refers to him/herself as a transsexual but has not taken any steps towards transition.” tttt n. (rare, internet, 4chan, trans) The /lgbt/ board on the website 4chan. 2022 Twitter: “tttt has fried my brain. im sitting at dinner w family and thinking about how grandma is a cishon” tuck n. (drag, trans) An instance of concealing one’s penis and testicles so that they are not visible to others through one’s clothing. tuck v. (drag, trans) To conceal one’s penis and testicles so that they are not visible to others through one’s clothing. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to conceal the genitals by tucking them between the legs.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to conceal the genitals by tucking them between the legs.” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 214: “To pull together and turn in to secure; hiding one’s penis in an outfit where it might show.” 2008 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 1013: “In transsexual usage, to tape your penis onto your groin to avoid any telltale bulge which might tip off someone as to your genetic sex…” 2015 Vocal (“LGBTQ Slang Everyone Should Know”): “To conceal male genitals by tucking them between the legs.” 2018 The Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang and Unconventional English, p. 813: “In transsexual usage, to tape your penis onto your groin to avoid any telltale bulge which might tip off someone as to your genetic sex…” tucking n. (drag, trans) Any of several techniques used to maintain a tuck. 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Any of several techniques used to hide or disguise the external male organs under close-fitting garments.” (drag, trans) The process of maintaining a tuck. 2014 Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, p. 620: “The process of rearranging the penis and testicles in a way that avoids the appearance of a bulge.” tucknology n. (rare, drag, trans) The method(s) or process(es) by which an individual conceals one’s penis and testicles so that they are not visible to others through clothing. 2009 Word of the Gay (“#30 ‘tucknology’”): “the practice (techniques and processes) that deal with tucking male genetalia [sic].” (rare, drag, trans) The study of tucking. 2009 Word of the Gay (“#30 ‘tucknology’”): “the study of tucking and/or binding male genitalia, for the purposes of making them appear to be female.” tucute Tupperware queen n. (pl. Tupperware queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 100: “gay man who is considered to be false” turnabout n. A trans person who has undergone gender-affirming surgery, usually referring to genitoplasty. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 212: “A person of one sex who has undergone surgical procedures to become the opposite sex… (AKA turnabout…” Twiggy queen n. (pl. Twiggy queens) [en] Etymology: From the 1960s British cultural icon Lesley Lawson, widely known by the nickname Twiggy.


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 100: “painfully thin gay man who is continually slimming” twin brother n. (crossdressing) Referring to oneself, if a male-to-female cross-dresser, when presenting in stereotypically masculine attire and presenting oneself as male. 2000 Annie’s Place: “Term commonly used by genetic male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in male attire and presenting as a man.” twinkhon n. (pl. twinkhons) (rare, internet, 4chan, trans) twin sister n. (crossdressing) 2000 Annie’s Place (“Annotated Glossary of Terms”): “Term commonly used by male crossdressers to refer to themselves when dressed in female attire and presenting as a woman.” twisted queen n. (pl. twisted queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 100: “gay man who is temporarily deranged, usually as a result of being dumped by a lover, and is bent on revenge” two tears in a bucket, motherfuck it phr.


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “Cry over the crisis and go on now1” TWRL n. (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “acronym for ‘those who refuse labels’, people who refuse categorization of their gender identity…” Uu unclockable adj. (trans) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “Describes someone who is accepted without question or suspicion in her chosen gender.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “Describes someone who is accepted without question or suspicion in her chosen gender.” 2009 This Week in Texas Magazine, Vol. 2, No. 42 (“‘it’s a man, momma’.”), p. 17: “As long as you find one or know of one who is unclockable, someone who you can’t tell is actually a male, you may be able to pull it off…” uncut adj. (originally United States, gay male) 1998 Usenet (uk.gay-lesbian-bi): “Uncircumcised.” 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 101: “uncircumcised” 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 217: “Uncircumsised, of a penis that has not had its original foreskin removed…” uniform queen n. (pl. uniform queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 101: “man who likes to have sex with army conscripts, in the days of national service…”


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 101: “man who likes to have sex with… policemen” upper surgery n. (pl. upper surgeries)


uptown white woman n. (pl. uptown white women)


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “The persona of a classy, extravagant, and glamorous woman—big car, big rings, etc.” use it or lose it phr. (trans female) 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “Phrase that reminds post-op male to female transsexuals that a neo-vagina will collapse in upon itself without regular use and/or dilation.” Vv virgin queen n. (pl. virgin queens)


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 221: “One who will allow anal sex only after he is in a committed relationship…” vogue adj.


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 221: “What’s ‘in fashion.’” vogue v. voguing n. Alternate forms: vogueing


2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 221: “An early-’90s dance, perhaps the only true ‘gay’ one, which integrates quickly done ‘poses’…” 2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “This is a type of dance, not just Madonna’s 1990 song. Voguing has been around for years and it originated in balls.” Ww walk (a category) v.


2017 Portland Mercury (“Ballroom Glossary”): “To enter a category in a ball.” Wandie v. [af] (Western Cape) 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 103: “work as a transvestite prostitute” watch queen n. (pl. watch queens) [en] (gay male) A voyeur. 1970 American Speech (“Homosexual Slang”): “Voyeur” (gay male) A voyeur who enjoys watching sexual activity between men. 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 223: “A gay sex ‘voyeur’…” (gay male) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 223: “…one who likes to look at himself ‘in action’ in a mirror…” (New Zealand, gay male) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 223: “…the one who keeps a lookout, in any intimate situation liable to be interrupted by unfriendly forces.” 2010 International Journal of Lexicography (“Trolling the Beat to Working the Soob: Changes in the Language of the Male Sex Worker in New Zealand”): “If he acted as a look out but did not take part in sex, he might be called a watch queen.” wear it out v. (drag) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 223: “Dragspeak phrase imploring another to take something to its extreme.” weekend warrior n. (pl. weekend warriors) [en] Etymology: From earlier slang use of weekend to mean part-time, infrequent, or irregular. Compare earlier term weekend habit, referring to the occasional use of drugs, first recorded in 1938. An individual who is deemed to be insufficiently dedicated to a given activity or occupation. 1972 Chopper Magazine: “Since a truly appropriate name escapes me at the moment, I’m just gonna call ’em ‘Weekend Warriors’.” (United States, drug culture) An individual who uses narcotic drugs on weekends or similar special occasions only. 1998 The Sweet Forever: “‘You ain’t been hittin’ that freeze back in the bathroom, have you?’ ‘Fuck no, man. Besides, you know I’m just a weekend warrior.’.” (rare, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “transfolk who only dress up and go out on weekends…” 偽聲 n. [zh] Alternate forms: wěishēng (Pinyin); ㄨㄟˇ ㄕㄥ, ㄨㄟˋ ㄕㄥ (Zhuyin); 伪声 (Simplified Chinese) (uncommon) A voice-acted voice (i.e. a voice used when voice acting in a particular role), a fake or false voice, a different voice than one’s day-to-day voice, or a deep fake voice created by a program such as DeepVocal. (crossdressing) Of male-to-female crossdressers, one’s feminine voice or feminine-like voice that is used when crossdressed. (derogatory, trans) Of a trans woman, one’s voice-trained or attempted feminine or feminine-like voice that is used. wenis n. [en] The engorged clitoris when sexually aroused. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “When the clitoris becomes engorged and protrudes slightly when sexually aroused.” whack job n. (pl. whack jobs) (derogatory, rare, gay male) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 224: “A male-to-female transsexual.” wicked queen n. (pl. wicked queens)


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 103: “almost any gay man” woodwork v. (third-person singular simple present woodworks, present participle woodworking, simple past and past participle woodworked) [en] (uncommon, trans) 2001 Out: “Maybe — and this was essential for political activism — you didn’t have to ‘woodwork’ but could be transgendered for all to see. By the mid ’90s the Internet had arrived — and spread these new ideas like wildfire…” woodworker n. (pl. woodworkers) [en] (uncommon, trans) 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “…a transsexual who passes as a genetic man or woman and who is reluctant to be openly identified as a transsexual…” woodworking, (stealth) n. [en] (uncommon, trans) 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “another term for stealth” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “another term for stealth” 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “for a transsexual to live in a manner that conceals her or his past sex…” wookie n. (pl. wookies) [en] (rare, trans female) The situation in which the outline of a trans woman’s penis and testicles are visible through clothing. 2009 North American Lexicon of Transgender Slang: “When a male to female transgender is showing a visible bulge.” work (it) v. (drag, gay male) 2006 Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext, and the Sublime, p. 3: “To implore another to flaunt or add force to something…” wring the turkey’s neck, to n. (third-person singular simple present wrings the turkey’s neck, present participle wringing the turkey’s neck, simple past wrung the turkey’s neck or wrang the turkey’s neck or (rare) wringed the turkey’s neck, past participle wrung the turkey’s neck or (rare) wringed the turkey’s neck) [en] (uncommon, trans female) 2006 The Transgender Phenomenon, p. 54: “Stone claimed that ‘Wringing the turkey’s neck’, the ritual of penile masturbation just before [bottom] surgery, was the most secret of secret traditions.” wrinkle queen n. (pl. wrinkle queens) [en]


Wuthering Heights queen n. (pl. Wuthering Heights queens) [en] a 2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 103: “a hopeless romantic” Xx XD n. (pl. XDs) (crossdressing) Crossdresser. (uncommon, crossdressing) Crossdressing. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “…also used as an abbreviation for crossdressing…” (rare, crossdressing) Crossdreamer. (rare, crossdressing) Crossdreaming. 2010 Crossdreamers (“Transgender and Transsexual Glossary”): “see crossdreaming…” XDing (crossdressing) Crossdressing. X queen n. (pl. X queens) [en] Alternate forms: X-queen (pl. X-queens)


Yy y’ain’t all of that phr. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “Not [to] be everything y’say you are; not [to] be everything y’think you are.” 藥娘 n. [zh] Alternate forms: yàoniáng (Pinyin); ㄧㄠˋ ㄋㄧㄤˊ (Zhuyin); 药娘 (Simplified Chinese) Usage notes: The suffix 娘 (niáng, “girl; young woman”) is taken from the ACG (initialism of anime, comics, and games) subculture which has the potential negative effects of reinforcing gender stereotypes and encouraging objectification of women. (derogatory, informal, ACG) A transgender girl or young woman who utilizes gender-affirming hormone therapy. yass int. [en] a 2020 YR Media (“What’s The Tea?: A Glossary of Queer Slang”): “Yass! is a variation of Yes! The word has been used for decades. Yass! comes from the raw emotion and excitement of watching an amazing performance, which happened all the time at the balls.” y’mama n. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “That’s me, so show some respect.” yonic man n. (pl. yonic men) [en] (rare) A cis or trans man that is a bottom during anal intercourse. 2000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex News (“A Dictionary of Words for Masculine Women”): “a man or transman that allows himself to be penetrated during intercourse…” (rare, trans male) A trans man that is a bottom during vaginal intercourse. youngshit n. (pl. youngshits)


you’s a big ol’ sissy phr. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “Ain’t nobody gay-er than you, child!” y’the one girl phr. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “Y’the best.” y’wearing it out phr. [en]


1997 Hiding My Candy, p. 175: “It’s all about you, baby, and whatever it is, y’doing it right.” Zz zap n. (pl. zaps) [en] (trans female) Electrolysis, usually of the facial or genital regions. 2001 TS Road Map (“Glossary of TG Terms”): “to get hair removal, esp. with electrolysis.” 2003 TS Road Map (“Glossary of Transgendered Terms”): “to get hair removed, esp. with electrolysis.” zap v. (trans female) The process of electrolysis. 1975 Transvestia, Vol. 14, No. 84 (“The List – Part 2”), p. 5: “‘What happened to your beard?’ Harry couldn’t understand it… ‘Electrolysis,’ she spelled out… ‘Ye gods! Those weirdos made you zap your whiskers?’” 真娘 n. [zh] Alternate form(s): zhēnniáng (Pinyin); ㄓㄣ ㄋㄧㄤˊ (Zhuyin); 真娘 (Simplified Chinese) (ACG) A cisgender girl or woman. (trans) A cisgender girl or woman. (uncommon, trans) A trans woman who has undergone feminizing gender-affirming genitoplasty. zoo queen n. (pl. zoo queens) [en] (rare) Zoo Lake queen n. (pl. Zoo Lake queens) [en]


2003 Gayle: The Language of Kinks and Queens: A History and Dictionary of Gay Language in South Africa, p. 105: “man who cruises at the Zoo Lake cottages in Johannesburg”